will Aries ex boyfriend forgive my pscho texts

Will my Aries ex forgive my psycho texts?

Admittedly I went nuts after I found him on a date with another woman. Although we weren't in a commited relationship I still feel he strung me along. I have sent a lot of maniacal texts and I have come across as serious nutjob and spiderlady who is obsessed. I am a virgo btw.

My Q really is after a lapse of time will he forgive my episode of mayhem and reply to a friendly neutral text?

I care that I went psycho crazy on his ass.For some reason I don't want to leave a legacy of b/s with that chapter. I know move on right?

Wait, is he really your ex if it wasn't a committed relationship?

Exactly we werent in a commited R/S. FBuddies who stayed over at each others place a lot. I had no right to go whakadoo. I'm going to miss his friendship more than anything. He said he wanted space and that he'd avoid me for a few weeks, then say hello after that. I still feel that he wanted to keep me as an option if things didnt work with this other chick though....

No...you were a fbuddy

Why would you want to be an option?

To the OP: It matters not if he forgives, he will never forget.

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Posted by Gemini530
Yes. I think they get off on that sort of thing.

+1

Aries will forgive anything. Even extortion or grand larceny. Try it and see for yourself.

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lmfao no we wont

I wouldnt apologize....that only makes one look crazier imo...stick by your crazy and DO NOT contact.

and fwb is bullshit

dont fall for it ladies

Well I finally made some headway...after mailing him a few times. Explaining somethings. I was drunk texting etc...and pretty much informed him I was sober and going to AA meetings

He replied with a rather flat response. Words to the effect that he was glad I had stopped drinking - and If he bumped into me anywhere he would likely say hello and talk a bit with me.

Whilst it isn't a gushing reply. Suppose it indicates aries have a heart in there somewhere.

I won't forgive certain things. - I will forgive the person, but not the action and in the end if the action of said person was truly hurtful it will be the death of the relationship.

I lost the game. But at the end of the day I don't want a romantic future with him. So I don't mind the loss of face.

When he initially told me he was on a date (I actually phoned him...and he picked up the call whilst with her)

Which infuriated me. Then he text me the next morning.... I am sure it was all done to make me loose it. It is crazy making behaviour.

I should have reacted neutrally and said enjoy etc etc... but it flipped the crazy switch....and cue the mammoth meltdown.

My mad threats to expose him to his ex wife. I threatened to pour a drink over him if I ever saw him. I drunk dialled every night. Told some lies. Basically went bad shit crazeballs.

It was shameful. And I have been hard on myself thinking it all over and ruminating it...

But he had been playing emotional games with me for months - and I had kept my dignity well. Was even able to switch it up, and make him chase me for 5months.

I should have walked away with dignity yes. But I am confrontational virgo and go a bit bi-polar in the full moon.

Suffice to say. Aries men are not for me. Its a fulltime job, even just trying to get them into bed. And I ain't ugly!!!

Cheers for advice folks.

I lost the game. But at the end of the day I don't want a romantic future with him. So I don't mind the loss of face.

When he initially told me he was on a date (I actually phoned him...and he picked up the call whilst with her)

Which infuriated me. Then he text me the next morning.... I am sure it was all done to make me loose it. It is crazy making behaviour.

I should have reacted neutrally and said enjoy etc etc... but it flipped the crazy switch....and cue the mammoth meltdown.

My mad threats to expose him to his ex wife. I threatened to pour a drink over him if I ever saw him. I drunk dialled every night. Told some lies. Basically went bad shit crazeballs.

It was shameful. And I have been hard on myself thinking it all over and ruminating it...

But he had been playing emotional games with me for months - and I had kept my dignity well. Was even able to switch it up, and make him chase me for 5months.

I should have walked away with dignity yes. But I am confrontational virgo and go a bit bi-polar in the full moon.

Suffice to say. Aries men are not for me. Its a fulltime job, even just trying to get them into bed. And I ain't ugly!!!

Cheers for advice folks.