Will he ever come back?

Just maybe it's your chance to evaluate the good and bad with each other. And see if he is worthwhile in the end. Scorpio and Taurus I think are the emotional kind.. don't think with the heart..but but think with our minds. What does your mind say?

I'm going through the same thing with an Aries with Taurus moon and Venus in Gemini.. likes me, do everything at work( there's no reason to call or date) because we see each other at work, we are friends. But recently told me we are more than friends which means a fwb situation between us. Because we aren't on the same wavelength.. he's been hurt and wants to take his time. Go figure. This is where my mind is moving on. And the heartbreaking comes because I do like him. And he knows it. I'm going to switch to doing something else and if it's meant to be it will happen at the right time.

Let him be, he will come back 😉

Posted by littlelove

Posted by AriesLady8
How long has it been since you've talked?

Aries NEEDS a challenge. We like the chase. Let him miss you. Let him come to you. Him missing you will make him forget that you were being annoying and suffocating. If I feel suffocated I will ignore you and start to forget why I liked you in the first place. You got to find the balance between giving affection and space

I like him so much I will never reject him. But when I try to do the same thing to him, he backs off.

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I had a very SHORT courtship with an Aries man. Like you, i thought (past tense) like this. I liked him for years and i was so happy to have connected with him.

BUT. i had ENOUGH of the ignoring, him bad mouthing me behind my back. I wasnt getting the respect i gave him back in return. he would become so rude to me and i felt like it was ALLLLLL unwarranted. How the hell do you knowingly place yourself in a situation and then say you feel trapped??

I would wait for him to call. I couldnt call him as much as he would say i could. Whenever i did, he would be rude. i couldnt ask to see him, he always had to do the initiating. the ignoring periods became shorter and shorter.

i remember getting a text and i sprang outta my seat and was happy that he finally contacted me. Looking back i was borderline desperate.

then after it seemed like we were in a good place, he ignored me again yet posting all over the place on FB. I had enough!! I stopped thinking about him. Now he calls/texts me repeatedly. i ignore them ALL.

Im done being his bitch.

Posted by starlover
DMV I am so glad your let that ram go 🙂

i have to admit Star, you came across really passionate in my thread about your dislike for aries men and i did not know where it was coming from.

THEN

I found out exactly where it was coming from.

OP, listen to Star lover. Save yourself anymore grief.

Let him go and move on.

If he comes back, make him WORK VERY HARD for your attention. If he's weak and a dumbass, he will give up and then you will know where you stand with him.

I have no sympathy for Aries males. Their pride and ego are more important to them than treating their SO right and respectfully.


+1

I dont know how long youve been going back and forth, but i had enough after bout less than a month.

aries men are NOT as upfront and honest as astrology claims them to be.

with regards to the aries man i referenced, I know women who have put up with his behavior for YEARS and one even had a baby with him. it boggles my mind. One is a Pisces and the other is a Leo. boggles my mind how they put up with his behavior and STILL havent progressed anywhere with him. These are seemingly smart women.

the leo who had his baby, He wasnt even there for the birth. he denied the child and demanded a paternity test. she still all up in his face hoping he will come around.

yeah ok.

Posted by littlelove
I appreciate all the answers 🙂

I understand that I shouldn't be too available for him. But it's so hard to balance all this. So if he texts me after a while, should I just ignore him or what? Wouldn't he think I'm rude if I ignore him? I find it so annoying when people don't answer my texts, so I always answer people as fast as I can. I don't want him to be any more annoyed with me.

I'm also a bit concerned that he will think I'm not interested, and that it will hurt his ego and he will move on to someone else who can give him attention.

how long have you guys been talking?

Aries all about attention. Either he is interested or you are on a pedestal.

no problemo.

you like him so its hard to walk away. I wouldnt say this was so much about you not being so available, its moreso the respect factor for me.

nah, he won't come back.....in the way you want him to. Aries aren't hot and cold, we're actually pretty decisive. If we feel as though there is a chance, sometimes that martian optimism takes over. In this case, I think it's pretty clear he's not interested anymore. I also think sometimes Scorpios misconstrue a response as us giving mixed signals. If someone from my past texts me, and I am not necessarily close with he/she as I once was, I will still reply kindly. I think he likes you as a person though, so maybe he wants to be your friend for now.

mine had a venus in taurus.

I agree with being more playful etc. I don't like it when people are so serious all the time, it can be draining. I'm confused about aries men from what I've read on here, because as an aries female - we seem so different, but I know if I ask for space, I mean it.
Leave him and let him come to you! If I like someone I will definitely initiate conversation and come back.

Littlelove, as I said before, give him some time and he will return, but do you really want that. You want to have a relationship with him, you are in love, but if he acts like this then do you think that he will change?

I have similar situation, except we had a great relationship, we were so close, like real soulmates and then something changed, overnight. I still don't know what happened (https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/aries/aries-aries-he-got-cold-as-ice-5348735/), maybe it is not ab that he is aries, maybe it is caused by his spirituality (anyway he seems to be lost). I know that I would forget everything what he did and said if he just want's to be with me again, but I also know that all the situation will happen again.

Every woman is worth the best man in the world (the best for her), not the one who likes to play some mind games and come and go when ever he likes.