Cap asc women.: Do you attract guys that want a "challenge"

I notice I always get the "I look mean" but at the same time I attract guys that want to be whipped into shape or at least highly appreciate it.

I LOATHE it. I went as far as to stop checking them/calling them out because I don't want them to get attached to me or think we're "growing" together.
We're really not. I'm just stuck in the position of attracting boys that see me as someone that can turn them into men in a way. But i don't even know if they see that but I been on this merry-go-round once... and I run from it. Do you relate in way?

Do you attract guys that you cans sense want a ball buster?

On the plus side, it's good that you're not looking for a project. Unfortunately, the downside is that a lot of men need a womanly perspective to balance their shit out, and it just sounds like these are not the kind of men for you. There are plenty of well-rounded men who are crazy independent and can do everything themselves. I just hope that if you find such a man, that you are ok with the fact that he really doesn't need you for anything. He will be far less likely to put up with any drama you send his way despite that you provide some breathing relief to his everyday struggles.

If you are not ready to take on the burdens your partner carries (we are all holding on to some shit), then a relationship might not be for you at the current moment.

@Crabra You're right I don't want a project.