Venus in Scorpio & in the 8th house

I would very much like to hear from people who have dealt with someone who has venus in scorpio and in the 8th house in as much details as possible...

How do this folks come around? How do you feel their energy? What do you think about them?

I've read a lot of things, but haven't found much written about venus in scorpio AND in the 8th house, so any personal, subjective observation is appreciated.

And if you are the one with that placement...is there any advice/story/anything you'd like to share? 🙂

I have a family member venus aquarius 8th house, very attractive, it says their beauty is hidden under dark energies, but it shines through in the most fascinating way. They're disturbing but you can't look away. He's very successful with the opposite sex.

I'm as close as Scorpio Venus in the 6th house. I would say, for me, the most interesting person I'd want to fundamentally talk to and be with is someone who's very dark, interesting, humble, soft-spoken, and mature. But it's hard to achieve this since it's not a placement that aggressively seeks out others. They obsess alone, by themselves about those who've interested them. Scorpio Venus doesn't tend to show their interest unless it's easy to achieve - like if the other person lets the Scorp Ven touch them and doesn't mind whatever he or she wants to say to them, in a romantic/personal way. You could say they are opportunistic lovers. At least, with mine being in the 6th house, I tend to fall back because I always - for some dumb reason - think I'm not good enough or I misjudged the other person's interest in me. I imagine someone in the 8th House would be very sure of their abilities, but they still seek out the best opportunity, and will drop as many hints as they can. I also assume they attract certain people anyway because their aura is so strong.

As far as I've been told, my energy comes off very warm and hypnotic because once I finally am able to get close to someone I like, I take care of them....astutely. If some things don't agree with this Venus, other people will see it as too dark, weird, disturbing and something they don't want to get close to because if they do, they might learn something they never wanted to learn.

In order to even reach a Scorp Ven; which, it seems to go hand-in-hand with 8th house; you need, as you probably already knew, to be as real as you are able. Honesty and vulnerability are attractive, as well as strength and stoicism. Scorpio Venus' aren't attracted to flamboyant Venuses, ones that can't commit or can't shed any emotion; it looks weak to them. They're very selective lovers, even if some with this placement tend to fall in love easily.

I hope I could shed some light on this slightly old topic. Sorry if I rambled and sounded conceited. Have you looked up Venus in the 8th house by itself?

I did. Found much about venus in 8th and also much about venus in scorpio, but very little about both at the same time. You're explanation was great, thank you.

The reason why I'm asking this is because I have this placement. And was kinda wondering...what's stronger...venus in scorpio or venus in 8th....maybe the word strong isn't suitable...more prominent I should say.

Oh l know a girl/woman with Venus in Scorp...in 3rd house l think....you don't notice it...she's very sexy, pretty, but she puts a ton of makeup, you don't notice it tho, but when she takes it off wow. My lady partner/person showed me a photo. Her choice of men is weird scorpio bastard. She can be cruel socially in a discreet, just -by the by- manner...l notice she'll joke around by asking an uncomfortable question at the weaker members of the group, like hey how's it going with your problem there.....hahaha lm havin fun this is fun, but on a subconsicous level, if you're the recipient you probably feel violated, uncomfortable.

The venus 8th person l know wouldnt do something like that. They seem more mature.