Posted by Wonderlesswave
Posted by libralotus
Road trips are the worst. I swear


Oh hell no bad music and zero leg room I'll pass
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It's always the worse. Arguments haha!
I understand why you feel like you have to analyze yourself when you find someone worthwhile. I have anxiety too. I think what you need to do is lower your expectations while staying true to what you want. If you're both on the same dating site I assume that you guys are looking for the same thing which is good.

Maybe instead of convincing yourself that he could be the one you could tell yourself he could be the one of many. It's normal to daydream about a future with someone especially in the beginning, but what you need to do is to ground your thinking.

I know I'm being quite pessimistic but you don't know him well enough. Censoring yourself isn't going to change him from being the one or not.

Good luck
I had to grow up fast plus was always ahead in school and started early. So my development level was a few years ahead. I rarely found anyone who I connect with my age nonetheless younger. Usually go for guys a few years older but the one now is nine years.
Posted by EvatheDiva
Posted by libralotus
I don't feel like commenting much on this but everyone needs to stop saying you're the only one in the wrong.

Lying is unacceptable. Deceit is unacceptable. You're justified in approaching him with it. That's not nagging.


Maybe you pushed him away but most likely he's putting the blame on you because he doesn't want to take responsibility for his actions or cares to. It's easy to say someone is nagging if they're wrong or don't care to understand your thoughts or feelings.

Dump him and find someone else who will be more considerate.


That's IT....she didn't dump him; she's the dumpee.

We Know If You're The Dumper Or The Dumpee In Your Relationships
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cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva
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Dump him. As in quit lingering on move the hell on. He's crap.
I don't feel like commenting much on this but everyone needs to stop saying you're the only one in the wrong.

Lying is unacceptable. Deceit is unacceptable. You're justified in approaching him with it. That's not nagging.


Maybe you pushed him away but most likely he's putting the blame on you because he doesn't want to take responsibility for his actions or cares to. It's easy to say someone is nagging if they're wrong or don't care to understand your thoughts or feelings.

Dump him and find someone else who will be more considerate.
Anyone a vegetarian?
I've started the beginning of the year but I haven't been that strict on myself. I quit eating meat cold turkey but I haven't been strict on checking the ingredients in every product. I eat cheese from take out where the source is unknown. I'm sure there's probably rennet somewhere in there or gelatin hidden in some products.

Any tips?
I'm not having problems with avoiding meat
Posted by Ajna
Posted by d0s3r
lol i have no clue
pisces being friendly and in love are almost the same


yes lol

A clue though is if we start to bug...

We email or call , make an effort to talk...

Ask when can we talk again, these things

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Yep!!!
Posted by Crabra
For simplicity sake, let's avoid placements and just look at the characteristics of a particular sign in general. However, your experiences with said sign are more than valid. Which one drives you nuts, but for some reason you just can't get enough?

For me, it's Libra. These discretely manipulative twerps split my head and two. They are so good a never doing what they say they'll do, and always doing what they say they won't. And the even-steven b*tter. You can't make everyone happy leebs!

But.... They're so attractive, funny as hell, diplomatic, amazing in bed, polite, and they can almost always defuse a bad situation before it gets ugly. There is an airiness to them that is infectiously adorable, and I can't help but fall for it every time.

Fvck you Libras, I love you to death!


Cancer!! Hahaha or Capricorn. Or Pisces.
Posted by Pisces_Daydreamer
Sorry @libralotus, but I think he is fibbing! A Pisces who doesn't want to invest more feelings.... we can't help ourselves!!! We will do that without thinking of ourselves..... we love to love. Anyone knows you cannot force commitment, even as Pisces I know good relationships take time and patience..... communication for Pisces and Libra is known to be an issue..... if you can't communicate forget it.

He is pushing you for something you don't seem to feel comfortable to give yet, given your concerns. He is not being fair and his attitude to me seems a little manipultive honestly.


He's very intense. He's even gone as far as telling me he loves me already. I'm treated like a princess and usually we communicate well but he's obtuse. It gets annoying having to constantly repeat my feelings or thoughts as if I haven't said it a thousands times.

I try to tell him you can't rush a relationship and be controlling as well. I dont think I mentioned that he's always over my shoulder to read my texts. It does seem like manipulation and it's sort of like he's giving me an ultimatum.

There are moments where I feel like I found a good guy and want to commit but then I feel the opposite.

It doesn't seem healthy already but I don't know if it's worth trying to make him understand what's acceptable and what's not

I think guys can get away with their looks by just dressing nice. A dude can have an okay face and dress nice and win me over.

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In my experience there are two types of Pisces men.

Either A; Aggressive, have a superior complex, don't verbalize feelings or emotions (but it's obvious), put on a narcisstic mask, and etc. For me it's easy to read right through them. They're covering up insecurity and a lot of them have had a traumatic past which they dont like to discuss. I see these a lot especially if they have aries placements. I could see how a Pisces and Aries would have troubles if this kind of behavior exists.

Or B- They're sweet, kind, loving and sensitive. The typical Pisces. I see this when there's more water or earth in their chart. MOST of the time they avoid a relationship but still attach themselves to people. A handful of Pisces that I've had encounters with in the past still contact me out of the blue and talk about old feelings for each other.

Idk
Posted by tbird
It seems like you already know what you want.

Let him know and don't play with him. Tell him the truth... you don't have to be brutal, but lay it all out and don't back down. So he can move on and not think you are messing with him too.

If you don't want to go there... don't wasting everyone's time isn't going to make things better. It will make the disconnect even more hurtful and he will become more disillusioned by what he thinks you both want.



This is good advice. I'm not backing down but it's frustrating to feel like I'm training a child between right and wrong. He's ten years older than me but he told me he was a late bloomer because he struggled with self esteem and acne most of his life.

He vented to me that he's pushing a relationship on me because he's afraid I won't commit and he doesn't want to invest more feelings for nothing. It makes sense but at the same time he's doing the exact opposite.
Ugh meat grosses me out 😞
This is about the same Pisces I've posted about before.

Here's a brief timeline

-Met at a bar and seemed uninterested
-He was figuring out his LDR status
-Became interested/attached
-Want to move too quickly

I really like him. He's so supportive and takes a lot of weight off my shoulders. At the same time he causes me an abundance of stress. We're not in a formal relationship yet and he's constantly looking over my shoulder and questioning my whereabouts. He has trust issues, and I can be understanding because I've been in his position before. Yet, as I'm trying to be patient with him he keeps demanding a relationship out of me.

It's not that I don't want to be with him but I don't want to put my energy into someone who doesn't offers me any emotional stability. He sees it as having commitment issues but I feel like it's just me trying to build a strong foundation first.


Should I continue to be patient or just move on? Whenever I distance myself of ask for alone time he automatically feels like I'm abandoning him so I don't want him to be hurt.

He's a Pisces rising, sun and Mercury. Moon in Gemini, Mars in Taurus and Venus in Aquarius.

I'm a libra sun, moon and Mercury. Aquarius rising, mars in Leo and Venus in Virgo.
Posted by Whorpio
How many members is that, how did you get all that info, and how long did it take to make this post?


My questions
I never understood why people take this site so seriously. C'mon now......
Posted by Lilianni
Composite charts is how you two act as a couple.
Venus conjunct pluto. Venus is a feminine sign, so it usually relates to how the woman relates to the man in the relationship, and that sets the venus tone.
Venus conjunct pluto means you basically like to keep in contact with this person and like to see them everyday. You like to get to know them deeply and really enjoy your time together.
Moon conjunct chiron.
Moon conjunct chiron indicates painful feelings. Like you guys have a hard time relating somehow. The emotions that fuel your interactions is painful somehow. Since it's in Leo, you guys like to play around and be creative in your everyday interactions.


How come no one talks about this? It's so interesting. Our composite rising is my natal rising