Posted by boxcarmirnta
Posted by libralotus
This is stinky.


He probably doesn't want to marry you.


Always some treetrunkstain stinking up the thread.... Oh yea?? Why don't you, with all your wisdom tell us exactly why he doesn't want to? Since you know them both so well!
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that was drunk wisdom


18 hours
Posted by FishyDude
Posted by libralotus
Lillies???

Don't you like Lotus flowers though?
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Nope just catchy
I'm an Aqua ascendant. But my progressed ascendant is Pisces. I feel this way a lot. I feel overlooked too.
This is stinky.


He probably doesn't want to marry you.
A lot of people say I look like her from the underworld when my hair is short and dark.
Posted by LeoSunScorpioMoon
Posted by libralotus
Posted by LeoSunScorpioMoon
Posted by libralotus
Posted by neighbor
Push her down the stairs



Wow you're disgusting.


Right?


Gross.



I can be but not in this thread. This is one of my more serious topic discussions.
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Just thought that comment was disturbing and wasn't funny at all. Especially in regards to someone suicidal. so many evil people on here
Posted by LeoSunScorpioMoon
Posted by libralotus
Posted by neighbor
Push her down the stairs



Wow you're disgusting.


Right?

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Gross.

Posted by neighbor
Push her down the stairs



Wow you're disgusting.
Posted by Andalusia
Again - how did she even get hired in the first place if looks are everything and she looks terrible?

And if the answer is anything along the lines of "she just came back from maternity leave", so help me God...


As a host she doesn't really have to fit the image. The image is "athletic" and it's not close. But she got moved up. Like I'm super understanding and normally it's not something that I'd even think about... but yes it makes me uncomfortable having to hear people call her a "fat B".... and not tipping her. I want her to be successful since she wanted to move up so bad
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Posted by libralotus
Posted by Chuckcem
I'm not going to lie, I'm intrigued by the uniqueness of this question. I've had a couple of friends who've worked at Hooters. A couple of questions though. Is it that she doesn't look good in the uniform (I can extrapolate from there) OR is it that she's not conventionally attractive?

My first piece of advice is to not critique her in public. Leos don't do well with public humiliation. Also if she doesn't seem to be bothered by the name calling, how is it you that you plan to help her? What advice are you looking to give?


She seems confident in her uniform but she has a ton of rolls. Her face is cute. She is wearing a size too small in the shorts but I don't think it'd make a huge difference. She's spilling out of it and I just want her to realize that it's not flattering if she doesn't know that. She'd make more money and customers wouldn't shame her.


I thought she was just a host? Does she get direct tips from the customers? Or do you mean she'd be promoted to server and make more money?
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Yes the GM moved her up when the assistant managers were not on board.
Posted by SofiaV87
Does she not fit Into her uniform properly? Is she spilling out of it? I worked at Hooters for a few months back in the day. I didn't like it lol


I like the money but it's kind of stressful most of the time. It doesn't fit her properly at all and I think she was bugging my manager so much about moving up that she just let her because no one has the guts to say anything.
Posted by Arielle83
Women have enough to worry about regarding self image and self esteem.

And to work in an industry where their assets are judged by men changes how they think about themselves.

They don't need their own gender critiquing them as well.

She knows how she looks. She has a mirror.

There's an image and look customers come for. She doesn't fit it at all. Any other case I wouldn't feel the need to.
Posted by Chuckcem
I'm not going to lie, I'm intrigued by the uniqueness of this question. I've had a couple of friends who've worked at Hooters. A couple of questions though. Is it that she doesn't look good in the uniform (I can extrapolate from there) OR is it that she's not conventionally attractive?

My first piece of advice is to not critique her in public. Leos don't do well with public humiliation. Also if she doesn't seem to be bothered by the name calling, how is it you that you plan to help her? What advice are you looking to give?


She seems confident in her uniform but she has a ton of rolls. Her face is cute. She is wearing a size too small in the shorts but I don't think it'd make a huge difference. She's spilling out of it and I just want her to realize that it's not flattering if she doesn't know that. She'd make more money and customers wouldn't shame her.
I work at Hooters where appearance is everything. We have a host (Leo), which the same rules do not apply to the Hooters girls.. I hate to sound so critical but she looks AWFUL in the uniform (accShe threatened the managers she would quit if she couldn't move up and we were desperate on girls.

She's been set up to be bullied. Tables have called her terrible names, other coworkers have too, and I'm glad it doesn't bother her but I don't know if I should step in. No one will tell her or give her any advice and tips to make the uniform more flattering.


So how do you approach that convo? I feel so low even saying all of this but I'm trying to look out for her.