Another Sag/Sun Scorp/Venus boy question

I read an old post on dating a boy with this placement. I've been dating someone off and on for 2yrs - I'm learning astrology and I'd love any thoughts around working with our charts. Thanks!

Him:
Sun Sagittarius
Moon Aries
Mercury Sagittarius
Venus Scorpio
Mars Gemini
Jupiter Aries
Saturn Leo
Uranus Scorpio
Neptune Sagittarius
Pluto Libra
T Node Scorpio

House positions (Placidus)
Ascendant Aquarius 0??35'23
2nd House Pisces 17??12'27
3rd House Aries 25??58'39
Imum Coeli Taurus 23??32'25
5th House Gemini 15??21'56
6th House Cancer 6??02'47
Descendant Leo 0??35'23
8th House Virgo 17??12'27
9th House Libra 25??58'39
Medium Coeli Scorpio 23??32'25
11th House Sagittarius 15??21'56
12th House Capricorn 6??02'47


Me:
Sun Leo
Moon Aquarius
Mercury Virgo
Venus Virgo
Mars Virgo
Jupiter Taurus
Saturn Leo
Uranus Scorpio
Neptune Sagittarius
Pluto Libra
T Node Scorpio

House positions (Placidus)
Ascendant Libra 16??52'43
2nd House Scorpio 14??27'47
3rd House Sagittarius 15??38'22
Imum Coeli Capricorn 19??13'43
5th House Aquarius 22??15'35
6th House Pisces 21??51'07
Descendant Aries 16??52'43
8th House Taurus 14??27'47
9th House Gemini 15??38'22
Medium Coeli Cancer 19??13'43
11th House Leo 22??15'35
12th House Virgo 21??51'07

Are you having problems relating? ......or?

Here are some of the things that I've noticed and experienced in our connection.

He seems to struggle between his wanting of "freedom" / "open relations" and wanting "deep loyal connection/partnership". I want the latter - deep loving connection/partnership. BUT I need commitment to get there. There is a push/pull between the commitment and freedom aspects

We do have some communication issues. It goes from feeling like meeting someone who really gets me to moments of what the f@?

Oh and to answer the other question - for the first time ever, I feel like taking the plunge is right.

now I'm over thinking the letting go, if taking the plunge is not an option...

Oh honey, I've been showing up for the bacon, and pushing myself because I can see how I (and we) can grow from this combo. My Leo sun has been wagging it's tail at all the firey passion and adventure that comes with this relationship. 🙂

He's the one that keeps calling it quits and the one to usually instigate starting things up again.

I'm over here, living my life, taking care of me and being patient with his ups and downs.

But it still begs the question of whether someone with a chart like his, has it in his nature to couple up with one person for the long haul.

Is his "in/out" behavior him working through the Sag wanting freedom and the Scorpio wanting to couple up, or is it him just holding on (because we all know Scorps can be a little possessive)...

So is it worth being patient for this combo of a man, or is it time to say no more.

Thanks for all your feedback and thoughts. 🙂

😢 So true.

Posted by Sutekh
Venus Scorpio with Air mars is the height of fickle and confusing.

I was agreeing with this.

🙂