Saggitarius Woman Scorpio Man: Question

This topic was created in the Sagittarius forum by MrFirebird on Tuesday, September 20, 2011 and has 32 replies.

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@MrFirebird
14 Years10,000+ Posts

Posted by Sagittarius89
She probably means your a pain in the ass

and is frustrated because she does have feelings for you

Be nice to her scorp

Sag.89,

I am one of those rare birds who sincerely wants to understand.
That's why I asked.
thank you
If you wish to elaborate further, you and all female saggitarians are welcomed
to enlighten this poor dim soul.

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@MrFirebird
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Posted by Sagittarius89
It can be hard for some yes

But when we say it we usually mean it. ( I think )

Why?

She has said it to me recently.
She is the mother of my children.
She left me almost 21 years ago, married someone else.
She's the only one I ever loved....., Spiritually, Emotionally and Physically.
I've read what people's comments and the general descriptions say about
Scorpions but.... I don't fit that "cheatin'" stereotype. Honest!

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@Sagittarius89
17 Years1,000+ PostsSagittarius

Posted by MrFirebird
Posted by Sagittarius89
It can be hard for some yes

But when we say it we usually mean it. ( I think )

Why?

She has said it to me recently.
She is the mother of my children.
She left me almost 21 years ago, married someone else.
She's the only one I ever loved....., Spiritually, Emotionally and Physically.
I've read what people's comments and the general descriptions say about
Scorpions but.... I don't fit that "cheatin'" stereotype. Honest!

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Do you know why she left you?

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@littlearcher
14 Years

Posted by MrFirebird
Posted by littlearcher
exactly what sag89 said..

if she says she loves you, she means it.
but, she probably feels vulnerable too....

Thank you, too. 🙂
Is it kinda hard for a sagg to say they love someone if they don't?
I mean.... is it against their nature?

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i know for me that i can't say i love someone if they don't
in cases where my feelings changed and i didn't love the person anymore, i was honest and told them i didn't love them anymore but didn't wish anything bad for them. just didn't have love for them anymore.

but, your situation sounds a lot more complicated and like there is a history....

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@MrFirebird
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Posted by Sagittarius89
Posted by MrFirebird
Posted by Sagittarius89
It can be hard for some yes

But when we say it we usually mean it. ( I think )

Why?

She has said it to me recently.
She is the mother of my children.
She left me almost 21 years ago, married someone else.
She's the only one I ever loved....., Spiritually, Emotionally and Physically.
I've read what people's comments and the general descriptions say about
Scorpions but.... I don't fit that "cheatin'" stereotype. Honest!

Do you know why she left you?

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No, but the memory I held was "I love you' and that was it.
Almost as though I was put in a time capsule or somewhere way down deep in
her heart.

I've had a Tiger Eye in my possession since I was a kid long before I met her
in H.S. Turns out to be her Day of Month stone or Dec. 11

The strange thing is she likes rainbows.....
the day of month or Nov. 18 gemstone which falls my birthday is "Opal"
Watch this video and see the so-called "rainbow" of colors in this Black Opal


It's very, very strange and it doesn't end there.

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@MrFirebird
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Posted by Sagittarius89
Well forgive me for saying this,

but I feel like scorpios like what they can't have...

That's ok, Sagg89, because I don't view her as a "possession" to "have"
but as a human being not an object of personal pleasure which scorpions
have been stereotyped as being possessive and obsessive.
That may surprise you coming from a "Scorpion".
You see there are a multitude of factors above and far beyond astrological
templates.
One recurring theme that I have noticed is that compatibility charts are sometimes
flawed. Meaning, relationships work and don't work because of the people involved
not the signs. I see the signs as saying "You have a problem and she has a problem,
and it will never work out" That is because people don't work their problems out.
I think that one important thing to remember is that it takes two to tango and
when two people are opposites, there can be a challenge to chisle away the bad parts
on each side where both become not only closer but better people for the good of others.
Combined they become a force to be reckoned with.
I could be wrong, but it makes sense to me.
Also, compatibility suggests easy street..... well.... easy street never improved anyone.
In fact it is akin to being spoiled and no true growth and improvement is realized.
On the other hand, as the song goes, "true love travels on a gravel road".
I could take you down every highway in this country and point out all the hard work that
was involved in building the cities, the monuments, the parks.... I can point out numerous
technologies that have come and gone, you name it all for the betterment for the next
generation........ . Hard work did all that. Self-sacrifices and adapting and adjusting
for the differences between peoples who were willing to come out of their shells.
That's where true freedom is found.. not in the "oh well I don't love you anymore" and
move on to the next colossal failure. Another thing I noticed is when people get involved
with so many people, their personalities are chopped up... like they lost a part
of themselves along the way. Not good me thinks and sadly, potentially tragic.

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@piroglesic
14 Years500+ PostsScorpio

Posted by Sagittarius89
Well forgive me for saying this,

but I feel like scorpios like what they can't have...

Thats true indeed ,more than any other sign 🙂
We scorps can forget(brush it under the carpet so to speak) the life we have lived so far but to forget the life which we were dreaming to live is very painful *zooming*

Now let me count the ways,the ways that i have lived till now 😛 😛

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I have just a little comment to add, I went out last night with my scorp friend a male and we are just cool we use to date so he has two kids with a sagg women. We were talking about their relationship and I heard they were married he will never fess to it he just says baby mom but he told me last night the reason they get along so well is because she is REAL he said she doesn't sugar coat anything she says what's on her mind and tell it like it is. I just for the life of me hate to be all in his business but I want to be like then why are you not happy with her? why do you seek other women to date?

The OP just reminded me of this scorp because I know the sagg women left once to be with her family and now she is back and I can see him being in the same position as the OP....

I think next time I hang out with him and ofcourse others were there I am going to ask him, I don't want 20yrs to go by and he has this same question about his sagg women/baby mom.

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@DMV
15 Years25,000+ PostsSagittarius

Posted by scorpdiva
I have just a little comment to add, I went out last night with my scorp friend a male and we are just cool we use to date so he has two kids with a sagg women. We were talking about their relationship and I heard they were married he will never fess to it he just says baby mom but he told me last night the reason they get along so well is because she is REAL he said she doesn't sugar coat anything she says what's on her mind and tell it like it is. I just for the life of me hate to be all in his business but I want to be like then why are you not happy with her? why do you seek other women to date?

The OP just reminded me of this scorp because I know the sagg women left once to be with her family and now she is back and I can see him being in the same position as the OP....

I think next time I hang out with him and ofcourse others were there I am going to ask him, I don't want 20yrs to go by and he has this same question about his sagg women/baby mom.

i think u should ask.

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@Sagittarius89
17 Years1,000+ PostsSagittarius

Posted by beccy
I love you too honey 😉

hehe...

I know sometimes I'm really too direct and honest... but..

in this case I just have to say the truth^^

Lol I agree.

I think he is trying to come off sweet and nice but I bet he did something to mess it up ;P

wow I'm such a bitch today!

Sotty :O

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@Skykomish
15 Years1,000+ PostsScorpio

Posted by MrFirebird
Posted by Sagittarius89

One recurring theme that I have noticed is that compatibility charts are sometimes
flawed. Meaning, relationships work and don't work because of the people involved
not the signs. I see the signs as saying "You have a problem and she has a problem,
and it will never work out" That is because people don't work their problems out.
I think that one important thing to remember is that it takes two to tango and
when two people are opposites, there can be a challenge to chisle away the bad parts
on each side where both become not only closer but better people for the good of others.
Combined they become a force to be reckoned with.
I could be wrong, but it makes sense to me.
Also, compatibility suggests easy street..... well.... easy street never improved anyone.
In fact it is akin to being spoiled and no true growth and improvement is realized.
On the other hand, as the song goes, "true love travels on a gravel road".
I could take you down every highway in this country and point out all the hard work that
was involved in building the cities, the monuments, the parks.... I can point out numerous
technologies that have come and gone, you name it all for the betterment for the next
generation........ . Hard work did all that. Self-sacrifices and adapting and adjusting
for the differences between peoples who were willing to come out of their shells.
That's where true freedom is found.. not in the "oh well I don't love you anymore" and
move on to the next colossal failure. Another thing I noticed is when people get involved
with so many people, their personalities are chopped up... like they lost a part
of themselves along the way. Not good me thinks and sadly, potentially tragic.

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Wow. My sentiments exactly. I don't know what to say to this, except.. I agree.

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@littlearcher
14 Years

Posted by DMV
Posted by littlearcher
Posted by DMV
Posted by littlearcher
what do you guys mean about a pisces moon? i ask because i'm a sag with a pisces moon...

u guys are more psychic than a scorpio moon.

hmm maybe i should rely on my intuition more 🙂

u probably have, but been second guessing yourself. in talking with some of the members here, i have learned to go with my first instinct.

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that's very true...i do end up second guessing a lot.
and that usually unravels things.

my gut instinct is usually right in the end, but i generally only really figure that out after there's been some sort of conflict/problem