confusing scorpio man!!! help

Im a Taurs - 4th may 1993
and his a Scorpio - 1st November 1989

We met 3 months ago (24th April 2013) in a club, our eyes locked from across a room, and had instant connection.
from that night onwards we've spoken Every day, all day. and see each other at least once every week if not more. From the start I mentioned id come out of a bad long term relationship and wasn't looking for a boyfriend, however wouldn't be closed off to the idea. He said he wasn't interested in a relationship at this point in his life either.

Each time we see eachother we act more like a couple - his slowly talking more about personal subjects and letting down his wall, very very slowly. The sex of course is amazing and we can talk for hours on end. We share the same sarcastic sense of humour and love picking at each other for play. His very jealous, however tries to pretend he doesn't really care what I do because we aren't 'exclusive'.

Last week I was upset over being inappropriately treated at work and he came to get me to find out what happened, offer hours of cuddles and jokes to keep me smiling and NO sex. Earlier that week we'd sort of talked about what we were and agreed we were happy with the way things were going. We then spent sunday night together and all day Monday.
On Wednesday he sent me a text saying "hey cutie, I have something to make you smile... its been 3 months today since I met you"

And then last thursday everything crumbled. We were both at the same club, I had probably had a little too much to drink and happened to constantly be at the same place with my friend as he was. His friend came over to me at about 10pm to talk to me ( I get on really well with all of his mates ) and it lead to jack, he said "jacks crazy about you hey! he doesn't stop raving about ya, his probably gonna be mad that im chatting to you cause he told us all that your strictly off limits. I thought you guys would be dating by now, although his a weirdo like that, doesn't like commitment"
- this of course gave me a bit of hope that I was on the right track, but then at 2am as we were all starting to head off I casually asked him if I was coming back to his, as that's what I normally would do. and he responded "look, im just gonna go home alone tonight.. in fact I think this whole this has gotta stop, you've been following me all night. and what happens if I were to take another girl home - it would crush you, and id be jealous if I saw you go home with another guy. h

Im a Taurs - 4th may 1993
and his a Scorpio - 1st November 1989
We met 3 months ago & had instant connection.
from that night onwards weve spoken Everyday,all day.&see each other at least once every week if not more.From the start I mentioned id come out of a bad long term relationship and wasn't looking for a bf,however wouldn't be closed off to the idea. He said he wasn't interested at this point in his life either. Each time we see eachother we act more like a couple - his slowly letting down his wall. The sex of course is amazing and we can talk for hours on end.We share the same sarcastic sense of humour and love picking at each other for play.His very jealous, however tries to pretend he doesn't really care what I do because we aren't 'exclusive'. since the start his been doing/saying things that made me believe it could go further (numerous times mentioned how cute our kids would be and got insanely jealous when his friends made jokes about taking me home, sent a txt sayin:"hey cutie, I have something to make you smile..its been 3 months today since I met you").&then last thursday everything crumbled.We were both at the same club,I had probably had a little too much to drink and happened to constantly be at the same place with my friend as he was.His friend came over to me at about 10pm to talk to me(I get on really well with all of his mates)and it lead to jack,he said "jacks crazy about you hey! he doesn't stop raving about ya,his probably gonna be mad that im chatting 2 u coz he told us all that your strictly off limits.I thought you guys would be dating by now, although his a weirdo like that,doesn't like commitment" -this of course gave me a bit of hope that I was on the right track, but then at 2am as we were all starting to head off I casually asked him if I was coming back to his, as that's what I normally would do.he gave me the biggest 'breakup' style speech, he then left.I was shattered and went straight home to receive a long,sorry text from him about how he just doesn't know how long this can go on for without someone getting hurt&he understands if I don't want to speak to him,I replied with "its fine, we'll be friends."
I texted him at midday saying "I guess I really am an exclusive one guy only kind of person, im not at a point in my life where I want a relationship but I was starting to feel jealousy. sorry I scared you off." jack: "it wasn't scaring me off, ive just been thinking logically and I just don't want it to get to that

*continued*.... point where it would be hurtful to start hanging out with someone or whatever" Me: "yeah I get it. ive just never had as strong a chemistry with anyone which I didn't expect with you. But I guess that's a potion for feelings to start happening. jack: "yeahh fully agree, we get on like two peas in a pod but im just not invested in it for a relationship and ive been honest from the start about that" ME: "I feel the same. and thank you for being honest with me. I"ll give you your space" jack: "I didn't wanna be a fu*kwit to you, its not in a lambs nature to be cruel" (lamb was a petname I gave him)
Im just so confused because I never ONCE mentioned a relationship, I wanted to go with the flow.every1 who nos the situation think perhaps his so not ready for commitment, maybe he felt himself falling for me so cut me off??
Pls give me some advice on what 2 do!