scorpio men are harsh?

Can scorpio men be harsh towards the ones they love?

I would look around and read a lot of the posts on Scorpio's. They are NOT for the faint at heart.

theyre completely blunt they mirror capricorns. they hold things in than explode that's the only harsh things about a scorpio other than theyre really loving, easy going, intense and laid back just don't do anything that will make them have to cause a plot. I was only mean to my woman when I had to be and its not mean its being assertive from a males perspective. not for the fun of it. I admit we have a bad temper

Yeah and replace it with banana....LMAO

Posted by handsome101
theyre completely blunt they mirror capricorns. they hold things in than explode that's the only harsh things about a scorpio other than theyre really loving, easy going, intense and laid back just don't do anything that will make them have to cause a plot. I was only mean to my woman when I had to be and its not mean its being assertive from a males perspective. not for the fun of it. I admit we have a bad temper

AH HA!!! A TROLL!!!!! ITS A TRAP GUISE!

Because earlier you said you were a Sagittarius in that dumb ass thread you posted! BUSTEDDDDDD!

Posted by Neurotoxin
Bananafuckstick?

What is that your fantasy Tox? LOL!

Could they be harsh to win over the object of their affection?

"Hum...You are on the cusp. But you also have a lot of earth placements and that probably grounds you a lot" and theses your post xin smh such a two face Gemini lol

highest divorce rate of all geminis
attention seeking whores lol
best oral pleasure giver amongst all zodiac signs you have to admit your probably giving one right now
highest one night affair lol

facts look it up

no they'll disguise it they wont be harsh theyre romantics at heart.

How am I a two face? You posted your stupid ass chart and I looked at it and come to find out you have 3 ties from earth, air and fire. You need to go read that crap again.

And I don't like your ass. Youre just bitter anyways because I don't like you. Might as well accept that.

What are you a Scorpio or a fucking Sagittarius make up your mind.

but you just agreed on my thread that I was born on the cusp lmao your so dumb. just like a Gemini remember I just stated those facts take the **** out your mouth and *** out your eyes lol. nov 22 look it up hun

"And I don't like your ass. Youre just bitter anyways because I don't like you." what I redundant sentence such a run-on lol then again geminis are stupid and you commented on my thread so block yourself lol lol.

I know i gave him my virginity, but i had no feelings for him. I just lost it. I never really liked him much, but he really liked me, ever since from the beginning. And he's wierd. I stick around because i know he cares. He just tries to hide it. Probably because i have the ability to control him, and he senses that. So he puts up this huge guard, and acts like a dick just to hold the upper hand. Anyone agree?

"neuroxin" ask the Gemini they love using the mouth as oppose to the hand lol xin could tell you shes done it a dozen times I bet

"cherrychapstick" whats your sign?

Posted by handsome101
but you just agreed on my thread that I was born on the cusp lmao your so dumb. just like a Gemini remember I just stated those facts take the **** out your mouth and *** out your eyes lol. nov 22 look it up hun

"And I don't like your ass. Youre just bitter anyways because I don't like you." what I redundant sentence such a run-on lol then again geminis are stupid and you commented on my thread so block yourself lol lol.

Yeah I agree at it during the beginning BEFORE you posted your dumb ass chart. Don't try to step to me about grammatically correct structure you'll get your ass handed to you. But this conversation between you and I is over so bye bitch. Roll the fuck on.

Scorpio sun pisces moon

Both of ours

Scorpios are like that they have up a guard no matter what it takes time to get it down! and I know they have a tendency to become aloof once they get what they want to quick or should I say the main prize even though I don't know your situation that much. only thing I have to say is be verbally upfront with him they will get his emotions out we react quick to things. because our emotions run deep. just talk and be honest with him

Wow. Both of you are Scorps with Pisces moons?

Posted by cherrychapstick
Could they be harsh to win over the object of their affection?

. Clarify please because that doesn't even make sense. Harsh to others in a possessive way to prove their affection or harsh and psychotic towards their intended.

Posted by Neurotoxin

Posted by Xin
Wow. Both of you are Scorps with Pisces moons?

Oh my god all the crying!!'
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Hey...Hey whoa now. I didnt say that you did! Look at you being all Scorpionish slinging the stinger! #barrel rolls away

He's really unevolved. He's successful and all but an emotional wreck. And to an extent, although i gave him my virginity, i cant really show him much love or like him because i'm a commitment phobe. Also, i have played games before. He sensed some of them. Could this possibly be why he's so cruel? I KNOW he'a hiding the truth underneath. I just dont know how to get him to stop playing these games. I know i'm not going to stop until he does.

maybe he does sense it cherrychapstick besides Capricorns Scorpios are really good judge of characters or judges of anything they can see right through you maybe that's why hes being that way and "phoenix rising has a point"

Posted by cherrychapstick
He's really unevolved. He's successful and all but an emotional wreck. And to an extent, although i gave him my virginity, i cant really show him much love or like him because i'm a commitment phobe. Also, i have played games before. He sensed some of them. Could this possibly be why he's so cruel? I KNOW he'a hiding the truth underneath. I just dont know how to get him to stop playing these games. I know i'm not going to stop until he does.

So you do understand you just told us exactly what the issue is right. "I just dont know how to get him to stop playing these games. I know im not going to stop until he does." Yeah that pretty much sums it up. You both are being bat shit about it.

..CherryChapstick... the question is..what do you want? do you even like/want/love him? if there's a NO to any of my question then why does it matter what he feels for you ? Two scorpion playing games... *sigh* if you don't like him or love him that way then leave him alone and move on with your life...

Virginity or not that doesn't matter. You have learnt your lesson i'm sure so why not just move forward and accept your mistake..

If you want it to workout between the two of you because he took your virginity then stop playing mind games...NOW..or it will backfire you...in no time.

Posted by cherrychapstick
I know i gave him my virginity, but i had no feelings for him. I just lost it. I never really liked him much, but he really liked me, ever since from the beginning. And he's wierd. I stick around because i know he cares. He just tries to hide it. Probably because i have the ability to control him, and he senses that. So he puts up this huge guard, and acts like a dick just to hold the upper hand. Anyone agree?

Control a Scorp? Deets, deets! I need to know how you did that.

Oh, and by harsh, i meant like treating someone like c*** just to make them come chasing after you.

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Posted by cherrychapstick
I know i gave him my virginity, but i had no feelings for him. I just lost it. I never really liked him much, but he really liked me, ever since from the beginning. And he's wierd. I stick around because i know he cares. He just tries to hide it. Probably because i have the ability to control him, and he senses that. So he puts up this huge guard, and acts like a dick just to hold the upper hand. Anyone agree?

Control a Scorp? Deets, deets! I need to know how you did that.

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I just laughed my ass off!!!

I'm a scorpio myself, lol.

Posted by cherrychapstick
Scorpio sun pisces moon

So what is this nonsense about controlling a Scorp? You know better than that.

Posted by cherrychapstick
He's really unevolved. He's successful and all but an emotional wreck. And to an extent, although i gave him my virginity, i cant really show him much love or like him because i'm a commitment phobe. Also, i have played games before. He sensed some of them. Could this possibly be why he's so cruel? I KNOW he'a hiding the truth underneath. I just dont know how to get him to stop playing these games. I know i'm not going to stop until he does.

Yet, he's unevolved?

*sigh* if you like the dude, someone is going to have to bend a little to make this work. It's clearly not gonna be him and it doesn't sound like it will be you any time soon. Good luck!

I'm out.

This thread totally has my seal of approval for major cray going on in hur! Hold on a sec....Yep got my chair too

#sits next to Phoenix

Um that better be a Miller 64 seeing you need to be poured into those skinny jeans Tox 😛

Posted by PhoenixRising

Posted by cherrychapstick
I know i gave him my virginity, but i had no feelings for him. I just lost it. I never really liked him much, but he really liked me, ever since from the beginning. And he's wierd. I stick around because i know he cares. He just tries to hide it. Probably because i have the ability to control him, and he senses that. So he puts up this huge guard, and acts like a dick just to hold the upper hand. Anyone agree?

Control a Scorp? Deets, deets! I need to know how you did that.

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+1 ...how do you control scorpios..that's not possible...?!?! he's trying to control you..and you are trying to control him...lose/lose situation..

Not really. Unless you're one yourself

@Aine

Posted by Neurotoxin

Posted by cherrychapstick
Can scorpio men be harsh towards the ones they love?

Die in a fire, bitch.
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lol

@Scorpvenus

How old are you and the scorp male cherry?

Dafuq did I just read?

Let the hate flow....

I'm just trying to understand some of these comments, they are like flat out attacks. Fall back, fall back!

Cherry; yes they can be harsh. I'm dating a Scorpio man and he says some things that rub me the wrong way but I'm very blunt and tell him how I feel right away and the problem is corrected. Don't be afraid to be upfront with him; a big pet peeve is when a guy is trying to figure out what is wrong with a girl and she's giving the silent treatment and trying to get him to figure it out. He won't know he has offended you unless you say so, just be upfront with him. If he truly likes you, he will stay. Be assertive.

Im 18. He's 30.

Scorpio's aren't that hard to figure out...if they want ya, they'll come for ya..they tend to go after women they know they have already conquered, then they loose interest but stay anyway.

@Aine

Posted by Neurotoxin
Henceforth this will be my official answer to all these types of threads....

lmfao!!!!

Posted by DeeG
Scorpio's aren't that hard to figure out...if they want ya, they'll come for ya..they tend to go after women they know they have already conquered, then they loose interest but stay anyway.

this statement caught my eyes . Is that the birth-rebirth thing ?? ... They stay away but will come back perhaps.. They are like rubber bands !!!!

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Posted by DeeG
Scorpio's aren't that hard to figure out...if they want ya, they'll come for ya..they tend to go after women they know they have already conquered, then they loose interest but stay anyway.

Why are you the only Gemini that had been able to figure this out—
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it comes with practice I guess 😉 now the question is.. What do they want from you when they come back exactly ? Or what to expect when they dissapear? Are they still longing over you and expect you to be loyal when they return?? What's the go here .

I'm a Gemini and when my Scorpio does something I don't agree with or says something that offends me I tell him right away and he is deeply apologetic and follows me with tail between his legs. I really like him, but it's been awhile where I have had a guy be SO smitten with me. He always wants to take me out and is all about verbal romantic gestures and touch which I am totally okay with. My libido was too high for my Leo ex to match and it may even be slightly higher than my Scorpio guy I'm dating but he at least is more physical than my ex which is huge in a relationship. I need lots of intimacy and passion!

But he just shows genuine need and want for me. I felt bad because I blew him off in the beginning because I was occupied with a horribly jerky Aries but I'm glad I gave Scorp a chance. Aries Venus and mars also in Aries and mine both in cancer never would have worked, he told me my clingy was pushing him away when I was barely being clingy. Scorp with Venus Capricorn and mars in Scorpio really compliment my needy/clingy/romantic attention needs. So far so good. I don't see the jealousy with him at all, if any of us are jealous natured its me.

I don't think you can categorize all scorpios etc it just totally depends. The other few I dated very briefly were very secretive, jealous, and moody and it was too much for me. This one, isn't. Maybe because his Leo moon? Who knows, it totally depends!

Neurotoxin, that's exactly what I was saying!!

Lol ok, just making sure 😉

How is that? Please elaborate.