Hating the Two Signs You're In Between... Aries/Gemini...

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As a Sun Taurus, I can't stand Aries, which is ironic because I'm "technically" a Aries/Taurus cusp. My Birthday is April 21st Their "so called" dominance is a front and is rooted out of insecurity, and I can't stand Gemini's. They're too too-faced, whine too much, and are annoying to me.

My Mercury, Jupiter, Asc node, and Midheaven = Aries and my Mars and XII = Gemini.

My Moon is Aquarius and I'm Cancer Rising.

Aries (shows up 4 times) and Sag (shows up 3 times) are the most Dominant in my chart.

I'm still trying to figure out my chart. I'm still new to this. But does anyone else feel like this or has a similar chart?
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As a Sun Taurus, I can't stand Aries, which is ironic because I'm "technically" a Aries/Taurus cusp. My Birthday is April 21st Their "so called" dominance is a front and is rooted out of insecurity, and I can't stand Gemini's. They're too too-faced, whine too much, and are annoying to me.

My Mercury, Jupiter, Asc node, and Midheaven = Aries and my Mars and XII = Gemini.

My Moon is Aquarius and I'm Cancer Rising.

Aries (shows up 4 times) and Sag (shows up 3 times) are the most Dominant in my chart.

I'm still trying to figure out my chart. I'm still new to this. But does anyone else feel like this or has a similar chart?

lol, cool story bro.
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As a Sun Taurus, I can't stand Aries, which is ironic because I'm "technically" a Aries/Taurus cusp. My Birthday is April 21st Their "so called" dominance is a front and is rooted out of insecurity,
Do you think this "front" that Aries have is fake?
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Yes I do. I think that it is a mechanism that they use to protect themselves because deep down their weak. They want people to perceive them as dominant, but they're really not.

There is a Aries that I deal with at work and all we do is clash ALL the time. I'm her manager in fact. All she ever does is buck me and undermine me, which you should never do to a Taurus btw, and I charge back (in a professional manner of course) at her and all she ends up doing is crying because she can't handle real dominance.
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Posted by champranger
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As a Sun Taurus, I can't stand Aries, which is ironic because I'm "technically" a Aries/Taurus cusp. My Birthday is April 21st Their "so called" dominance is a front and is rooted out of insecurity,
Do you think this "front" that Aries have is fake?
Well, she's met every Aries in the world so she's probably right about them being fake.

The projection and self-hatred is strong with this one.

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Self-hatred? LOL I'm a Taurus!!!! How can I hate myself when I'm one of the most materialistic and conceited signs?
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As a Sun Taurus, I can't stand Aries, which is ironic because I'm "technically" a Aries/Taurus cusp. My Birthday is April 21st Their "so called" dominance is a front and is rooted out of insecurity,
Do you think this "front" that Aries have is fake?
Well, she's met every Aries in the world so she's probably right about them being fake.

The projection and self-hatred is strong with this one.

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You must be an Aries LOL Aaaww....
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As a Sun Taurus, I can't stand Aries, which is ironic because I'm "technically" a Aries/Taurus cusp. My Birthday is April 21st Their "so called" dominance is a front and is rooted out of insecurity,
Do you think this "front" that Aries have is fake?
Well, she's met every Aries in the world so she's probably right about them being fake.

The projection and self-hatred is strong with this one.
I'm one of the most materialistic and conceited signs
From personal experience, that is 100% true.

The self-hatred is from you disliking Aries (according to you, all Aries are the same) = not comfortable with your placements. You equate the behaviour of all Aries based on your experience with one Aries at your workplace (maybe there's a couple more from your past) in order to justify your analysis and why you hate your placements. You talk about Taurus being more domineering (I prefer to use the word 'controlling') yet you are Aries/Sag dominant. Irony much?

All right, done with this Aries hate thread.

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AGAIN, it's NOT self-hatred. I just don't relate to Aries/Clash/ and am annoyed by them, WHICH I'm entitled to feel. And just because Aries is dominant in my sign, to me doesn't mean anything because other than Aries being 'energetic', I don't relate. My Sun sign is Taurus. And I see wayyyy more Aquarius in me than Aries regardless of how many times it shows up in my chart

And the only reason why you even feel that's it's an Aries hate thread is because YOU'RE an Aries and apparently I struck a nerve. Aries and Taurus can't both be the leader because Taurus is not going to budge and wins every time.

AND If someone doesn't like a Taurus am I gonna care? NO, that's you're hangup not mine. 🙂
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I'd tell you what the solution would be...which is to move since you don't like your neighbors.

But with you being a Taurus, who am I kidding? A rock is a rock is a rock...a daft is a daft is a daft.

Also, with a username like "crownedinbeauty"..do you think you have any room to talk about insecurity? The irony...

Anyway, I digress. Find better neighbors.
My user name is crownedinbeauty because since you so smartly repointed it out, I'm a Taurus, who likes material things, and wants to be only crowned in luxury because we like financial security and surrounding ourselves with wealth and others who appreciate beauty tooo and are financially sound. How this is insecurity is beyond me? And why I had to explain that when all you have to do is google Taurus and that comes up about us.... that we're self-indulgent ——? That sounds more like conceit than insecurity, lol.

And you digress because you had no arguement...
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AGAIN, it's NOT self-hatred. I just don't relate to Aries/Clash/ and am annoyed by them, WHICH I'm entitled to feel.
...says the Taurus who wants to win and lead, it seems?

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Aries and Taurus can't both be the leader because Taurus is not going to budge and wins every time.
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If people are following you/look up to you, which they've done pretty much the majority of my life, you are winning because you're the one invoking change and have the power.

This might be a risky statement using Hitler, but ask Adolph Hitler (Born April 20th, a day before me) and the Queen of England (who was born on my birthday, April 21st) ...who are BOTH Taurus'. In my mind leading is winning and winning is leading.
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AGAIN, it's NOT self-hatred. I just don't relate to Aries/Clash/ and am annoyed by them, WHICH I'm entitled to feel.
...says the Taurus who wants to win and lead, it seems?

Posted by crownedinbeauty
Aries and Taurus can't both be the leader because Taurus is not going to budge and wins every time.

If people are following you/look up to you, which they've done pretty much the majority of my life, you are winning because you're the one invoking change and have the power.

This might be a risky statement using Hitler, but ask Adolph Hitler (Born April 20th, a day before me) and the Queen of England (who was born on my birthday, April 21st) ...who are BOTH Taurus'. In my mind leading is winning and winning is leading.
So winning or leading matters to you? You are competitive? Aries aren't competitive?

What happens if people disagrees with your ideas of change? Are they going to be forced to agree because you are in a position of power?
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Taurus' are very slow in nature/persistent people and we are also very, very patient people when it comes to things that we want. We're also very steadfast in our stubborn ways, so in one way or another we get the point across to whomever, and will get our way eventually because we don't budge and could CARE less what anyone thinks about it. If that sometimes means stepping on people's toes, that what it means. I'm not going to lay all my cards on a table for anyone or jump into anything that is not stable or doesn't have a sense of order. I mean that's what Earth signs are for we are stability and order...and want /crave comfort. We offer that. If that means forcing people to comply for our sanities sake, than that's what it means.

And ALL signs are competitive in their own way. It's human nature.
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I'm sorry to know that you hate the two signs you're in between but I can surprisingly get along and be friends with the two sun signs (Capricorn & Pisces) in between myself (Aquarius).
LOL I LOVE, LOVE Aquarius (It's my Moon and 8th house!) 🙂 ! My mom and the majority of people in my life are! I get along so well with them. They're so sweet and are incredibly important people in my life. And I love Capricorns (My Neptune and 7th house) !! And I'm so close to my brother who is a Pisces (my 9th house), and like other Pisces!! I get along with all of these signs SOOOO well, along with my opposite sign Scorpio (My 5th and Pluto) . My really good friend is a Scorpio and we are almost like the same person. We can easily read each other.
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OP, how high is your fixed sign percentage in your chart?

you might not get along with cardinals and mutables..might like fixed signs more.
THANK you, you just helped my life ALOT! This is the UTMOST perfect answer! That's why I don't relate to Aries/Gemini. They're not fixed signs. I'm all of the fixed signs of the Zodiac in all of the fixed sign houses, which is really weird.
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OP, how high is your fixed sign percentage in your chart?

you might not get along with cardinals and mutables..might like fixed signs more.
What do you mean by percentage?

And maybe that's what it is...

My 2nd House is Leo, my 5th House is Scorpio, my 8th House is Aquarius, and my 11th is Taurus. These are ALL of the fixed signs, LOL
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go to astro.com > free horoscopes > extended chart selection -> pullen/astrolog > simple chart delineation by walter pullen

you have to scroll down til you see some percentages. look at what sign comes up 1st, 2nd, 3rd. Also what planet.

And in the right you will see the percentages for modalities. Check which one is the highest and by what percentage.
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I'm sorry to know that you hate the two signs you're in between but I can surprisingly get along and be friends with the two sun signs (Capricorn & Pisces) in between myself (Aquarius).
LOL I LOVE, LOVE Aquarius (It's my Moon and 8th house!) 🙂 ! My mom and the majority of people in my life are! I get along so well with them. They're so sweet and are incredibly important people in my life. And I love Capricorns (My Neptune and 7th house) !! And I'm so close to my brother who is a Pisces (my 9th house), and like other Pisces!! I get along with all of these signs SOOOO well, along with my opposite sign Scorpio (My 5th and Pluto) . My really good friend is a Scorpio and we are almost like the same person. We can easily read each other.
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😄 That's so awesome! I get along with Scorpios too!! My best and truest friends are Scorpios, as well as my current boyfriend of more than 2 years 😛 Lol That's funny, I completely understand what you mean about the whole reading each other thing..I get the same vibe with my Scorpio friends and boyfriend ^__^ Likewise, I feel as though Aquarius' & Scorpios' are so similar yet so different at the same time..It's strange to describe but I absolutely admire Scorpios 🙂
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OP, how high is your fixed sign percentage in your chart?

you might not get along with cardinals and mutables..might like fixed signs more.
What do you mean by percentage?

And maybe that's what it is...

My 2nd House is Leo, my 5th House is Scorpio, my 8th House is Aquarius, and my 11th is Taurus. These are ALL of the fixed signs, LOL
go to astro.com > free horoscopes > extended chart selection -> pullen/astrolog > simple chart delineation by walter pullen

you have to scroll down til you see some percentages. look at what sign comes up 1st, 2nd, 3rd. Also what planet.

And in the right you will see the percentages for modalities. Check which one is the highest and by what percentage.
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That is completely crazy. According to that, My planet is Jupiter which is 13.5% , my highest ranking sign is Sag with 17.3, and my second is Aries, ugh...with 12.1% , and it says I'm a 38.2 mutable and only 31% Fixed?? And Taurus is only 6% — And Sun is 9— This sounds NOTHING like me. I don't believe this for one second. Plus, this chart is wayyy off than the one I have.

I'll agree to some extent with Sag because my boss is Sag and we're similar, and I like a Sag guy now even though I want to kill him most of the time lol, but me being a mutable sign when I have all my fixed signs in my fixed houses??
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Haha sure. Common well I am always surrounded by Aries, Gemini, Sagittarius and Aquarius all signs which are completely different... I think each sign draws things out in me. Think outside the box. Haha. What I'm practical not a risk taker. But they sure have a good way to do that. In return. I am a rock of stability, can cook, clean and take care of them. Even throw alittle emotions in cause some do lack it and don't like it. I have Aquarius moon so im adaptable...
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A Gemini told me I lack affection. I said no I am not like that.. I just get super cautious....I'll open up when the time is right. I am just getting to know you...lol.. they are all about affection and conversation. I am all about determining if this is going to be the one.


An Aries told me I like you because you are extroverted. Haha in mind thats the beauty of it. I'm introverted with a quarter extroverted. You actually bring out energy so I can transform and be open instead of closed and one track mind. Therefore I'll open up..
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Posted by crownedinbeauty
This sounds NOTHING like me. I don't believe this for one second. Plus, this chart is wayyy off than the one I have.
Yeah, I don't accept that Pullen chart either. From what I can tell, Pullen is an amateur astrology and really hasn't made any significant contributions to the field. That Pullen chart is apparently just some permutation of the freeware Astrolog software that he helped develop, which has achieved some notoriety, but I have no idea how he set the parameters or how that "simple chart delineation" is weighting anything. The Astrolog software has so many variables. Is he factoring in the essential dignities? How is he weighting them? Look at all the midpoints he uses too, even/especially with Chiron. I don't know much about midpoints. From what I've read it seems some Astrologers see some of them as significant, but not *all* of them like that. There are elements on that chart that make no sense to me whatsoever. Look at how he lists the strength of your aspects towards the bottom. That's where it gets really strange. Some of my strongest aspects in his system have orbs so large that they don't even show up *as* aspects in a normal chart. He has some of these wide-orb normally-non-existent aspects for me, that are actually sextiles ranked higher than *conjunctions* and oppositions. Very odd....

No one seems to have any answers on that particular Pullen chart and where he gets those power rankings from, and its so at odds with every other chart I've ever done, I see no reason to give it much weight. You might be Aries dominant with the way you charged in here attacking though...lol.
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I dont get along with Aries men either...

My father is an Aries and we clash ALL my life.. Our father-daughter relationship is almost not existing.. His ways depressed me when I was younger, he is a perfectionist and so am I.. but somehow whatever Im doing is wrong, not good enough.. always being defensive and always striking arguments..

There are other Aries men in my life but we could never get closer..even my ex bf. They have really good traits but also repulsive ones that really get to me. Their presence in the same room never felt comfortable.

On the other hand, my taurus best friend married an aries and she always thought he was a taurus lol .. he is very calm and doesnt seem to be an aries either! so strange

I have only one aries girl friend and shes pretty sweet and awesome though.. I dont remember meeting geminis..