Help me understand my jealous pisces guy!1 :'(

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So im dating this pisces guy and he works as a manager & his friend also works with him. I was texting him and randomly asked "hows ur friend adrian?" and he gets all like "you like him i know u like my friend cause u asked how he was" n i told him i only like him not his friend but he just said "whatever treetrunk u" and wont text me back at all. How do i avoid making him jealous. i like him, i tell him all the time, will he text me back? or what?
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Sounds like your pisces is a pretty jealous person. It'll probably be too difficult to figure out what makes him jealous or not. If you don't like jealous people, I'd say run.
If you really want to make things up with him, I'd say give him a little time to calm down and then call him and lay everything out for him. I think calling is always a better way to get your point/feelings across. If he doesn't answer his phone, then just move on, girl.
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Posted by Leogirl04
So im dating this pisces guy and he works as a manager & his friend also works with him. I was texting him and randomly asked "hows ur friend adrian?" and he gets all like "you like him i know u like my friend cause u asked how he was" n i told him i only like him not his friend but he just said "whatever treetrunk u" and wont text me back at all. How do i avoid making him jealous. i like him, i tell him all the time, will he text me back? or what?



You gotta show genuine affection to him, tell him how you feel, and don't do it in the context that makes it look like you're trying to cover anything up. Pisces can get suspicious and read into things too much if the relationship is too new for us to really get a feel for who the other person is, and what's going on through their head.

My mom is a Leo and she likes to hear the blow by blow about my day, so I could definitely understand how that would be an innocent question coming from a Leo girl like you. The thing is we Pisces tend to not worry/care about details and look at the big picture, so sometimes I don't even remember the little things like what I ate last night, etc. I love my Leo mom, she showers me with love and makes me feel like the best son in the world, and it really inspires me to be a better person 🙂

I recommend giving him some space for a couple days, let him wind down, then tell him you're sorry (*see note below) and ask him to give you a chance to explain yourself, because you wouldn't be trying to fix the situation if you didn't truly care about him. And use words very similar to that effect. Also, if the following is indeed true, explain to him that you like to know how things are going on in his life, like how things are with his friends. I've found that Leo and Pisces often misunderstand each other very easily, and both signs are very firm in their beliefs, though being a mutable sign Pisces will have a tendency to second guess themselves more.


*Note: Even if you don't find yourself at fault, a Pisces will want you to apologize just to show that you care. I know this is completely against what a Leo stands for, so if you can't do that I'm afraid you won't be hearing back from him. When a Pisces is convinced you don't care about them, you'll never see them again. They usually give you a chance to explain yourself, but if they don't respond then either 1) they don't belie
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*Note: Even if you don't find yourself at fault, a Pisces will want you to apologize just to show that you care. I know this is completely against what a Leo stands for, so if you can't do that I'm afraid you won't be hearing back from him. When a Pisces is convinced you don't care about them, you'll never see them again. They usually give you a chance to explain yourself, but if they don't respond then either 1) they don't believe you, or 2) they're punishing you, which is BAD news. Apologize sincerely or run for the hills.
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Posted by Leogirl04

... randomly asked "hows ur friend adrian?"








You're so full of shit ... you know goddam well that you asked about the friend to get the exact reaction you got.

There's no reason for you to ask how Adrian is, otherwise ... considering nowhere did you mention in here that you even know Adrian .. you said he is a co-worker of your Pisces guy.

People don't randomly ask others about people they don't even know.

He's not avoiding you because you were successful in your game of trying to manipulate him because you are an attention whore who gets her kicks from making the guy jealous ... he's avoiding you because he realizes you have this cunting nature about you, and has enough fucking integrity to side step you and let you pass unnoticed.
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Posted by Leogirl04
So im dating this pisces guy and he works as a manager & his friend also works with him. I was texting him and randomly asked "hows ur friend adrian?" and he gets all like "you like him i know u like my friend cause u asked how he was" n i told him i only like him not his friend but he just said "whatever treetrunk u" and wont text me back at all. How do i avoid making him jealous. i like him, i tell him all the time, will he text me back? or what?



LOL, this is what unevolved Pisces men can do regardless of what they think you did on them - they punish you by playing the martyr and victim - you are now getting the silent treatment, expect it to only get worse each time he does it, your leo heart won't be able for it, take it from one who has been there. Besides that, delete him for speaking to you so badly.