Help With a Scorpio Man

Hi All,

I'm new here and was hoping to get some advice from any of you who have had experience dating a scorpio man. I myself am an aries, virgo rising; he's a scorpio sun, libra rising. We dated twice over the course of a couple of years and he broke my heart each time -- and quite suddenly without much of an explanation. I am not the type of woman to let a guy get me down for long; my Aries optimism usually has me saying, "Next!" as soon as the dust has cleared, but this man (the only scorpio I've ever dated I should note) has really done a number on my heart (and more importantly, my head).

It's been several months (five or so) since things came to an abrupt halt for the second time and he suspiciously stopped returning my texts and calls just days after we'd spent several nights together and things seemed to be going quite well (we live a few hours apart). Dating this man was an emotional roller coaster ride and though he was almost never affectionate, his intensity made up for that somehow and when he'd look at me with those sideways scorpio glances I thought I'd melt into a puddle on the floor right in front of him. He always seemed to be holding back emotionally, and at times, I was quite sure there were other women in his life (something I've never tolerated in another relationship) but the fact that he never let me get close actually hurt worse than his disloyalty, so I somehow tolerated it. The lack of affection made those special moments when he'd say he loved me or reach for my hand feel like finding a diamond in my pocket. He's of the typical mysterious, bad-boy variety, and I'd foolishly thought he just needed time to open up. I think time was far from the issue and there was something he was waiting for me to prove to him, which I failed to do, but for the life of me, I can't figure out what it was! If any of you have had experience dating scorpios, you may understand what I mean when I say that the persistent feeling that I was being constantly tested by him was exhausting.

I've recently met a sagittarius sun / libra rising man who is much more affectionate and emotionally available, but I find I can't move past my scorpio who has ceased all contact. I'm tempted to write to him, but I'm hoping to get some advice before doing so. I can't help feeling like this is still a game and it's my move. Do scorpios just move on and forget? Any advice is appreciated.

Sorry guys, just realized there's a specific place to post this!

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Shuddup.

You should know by now, that 80% of the time I'm not being serious.

If you look closely, he's pointing directly at you.😛

*condescending laughter

Yeah, the mirror usually gives me a good chuckle.😄