Help With Aqua/Scorp Charts and Compatibility

Hello,ill get straight to it. Just been viewing mine and my partners birth charts, according to popular belief I an Aqua sun and my Scorp partner are a no go, I don't understand this is possibly the most stable, fun and interesting relationship I've been in. is this to do with our charts? or are we eventually doomed?. more so I am interested in knowing what planets bring us closer together? need insight .Here's our charts, :

His

Sun Scorpio 16.13 Ascendant Leo 3.12
Moon Leo 7.59 II Leo 18.39
Mercury Scorpio 26.47 III Virgo 8.52
Venus Scorpio 18.03 IV Libra 7.18
Mars Gemini 11.56 R V Scorpio 17.18
Jupiter Leo 12.52 VI Capricorn 0.32
Saturn Capricorn 20.27 VII Aquarius 3.12
Uranus Capricorn 6.51 VIII Aquarius 18.39
Neptune Capricorn 12.23 IX Pisces 8.52
Pluto Scorpio 17.41 Midheaven Aries 7.18
Lilith Sagittarius 11.12 XI Taurus 17.18
Asc node Aquarius 1.09 XII

and mine ...

Sun Aquarius 24.59 Ascendant Gemini 18.57
Moon Capricorn 10.06 II Cancer 5.48
Mercury Aquarius 17.52 R III Cancer 21.42
Venus Aries 5.50 IV Leo 10.11
Mars Sagittarius 24.39 V Virgo 6.46
Jupiter Aries 25.34 VI Libra 22.11
Saturn Capricorn 0.03 VII Sagittarius 18.57
Uranus Sagittarius 29.59 VIII Capricorn 5.48
Neptune Capricorn 9.20 IX Capricorn 21.42
Pluto Scorpio 12.35 R Midheaven Aquarius 10.11
Lilith Leo 19.58 XI Pisces 6.46
Asc node Pisces 23.28 XII Aries 22.11



just curious.. thank you.