How do you know Libra has moved on?

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I was seeing this Libra guy on LDR and he was wishy washy giving me mixed messages, and being hot and cold. Typical Libra behavior right? Well, when we last saw each other while he was being sick, he'd act like a gentleman but he'd make some comments that would make him look like a jerk. He was acting detached and distant. So I asked him if he'd not like to see me anymore. He said that he's not sure anymore about the distance at that moment perhaps because he was sick but he might feel differently when he feels better. I thought he was done with me so I shut down emotionally at that moment until we parted and then we haven't talked for a week now. I heard that Libras eventually swing back and get in touch with you to stay friends the least. I tried very hard to get over him and it's working. He's a really cool guy and I'd like to keep him as my friend since we connect well platonically. Should I wait for him to come around? For how long would I wait? Do I have to write him off altogether or shall I eventually get in touch with him? I'm an Aquarius with Sag rising, moon in Gemini, Mercury in Aqua, Venus in Cap, and Mars in Libra.
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I hear what you guys are saying, and you are right that I'm not over him yet but I am almost there. And no, I have not contacted him and I certainly won't until I'm absolutely over him. In fact, I deleted his phone number so I won't call him on a whim. Though I still don't want to contact him until he's also completely romantically over me. I'll know when I'm over him but I won't know when he's over me (maybe he is already over me). I keep in touch with almost half of my exes because I wouldn't start anything with anybody unless they are friends with me first. Friendship to me prevails after all the romantic and sexual things are gone. The other half were the ones who couldn't respect my boundaries or those who despised me in order to move on. So I just don't want to lose another friend.
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I keep in touch with almost half of my exes because I wouldn't start anything with anybody unless they are friends with me first. Friendship to me prevails after all the romantic and sexual things are gone.
This is an Aqua trait that I both very much admire yet at the same time can't relate to. I'm a Libra Sun and friendship with an ex is not something I am even remotely interested in until years after a breakup.
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I keep in touch with almost half of my exes because I wouldn't start anything with anybody unless they are friends with me first. Friendship to me prevails after all the romantic and sexual things are gone.
This is an Aqua trait that I both very much admire yet at the same time can't relate to. I'm a Libra Sun and friendship with an ex is not something I am even remotely interested in until years after a breakup.
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i'm sorry this is NOT an aqua trait.

I don't stay friends with ex's EVER. and i still would NOT go and be friends with them YEARS later.

only people in my opinion that do that are DESPERATE to have someone in their lives and can't find someone else.

If i'm harsh, so be it. but there's NO fucking need to go back there, once the line is broken.

There are some aquas like this girl (OP) who does that, because well, she is DESPERATE in my opinion.

if that hurts, then it hurts, but you dont go chasing after a man.

it's BETTER to be ALONE but some women can't deal with being alone if they have NO other men chasing them.


honestly, truthfully!!! if you have TONS of admirers you dont have to worry about some dude who doesn't want you. LAME.
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I keep in touch with almost half of my exes because I wouldn't start anything with anybody unless they are friends with me first. Friendship to me prevails after all the romantic and sexual things are gone.
This is an Aqua trait that I both very much admire yet at the same time can't relate to. I'm a Libra Sun and friendship with an ex is not something I am even remotely interested in until years after a breakup.
i'm sorry this is NOT an aqua trait.

I don't stay friends with ex's EVER. and i still would NOT go and be friends with them YEARS later.

only people in my opinion that do that are DESPERATE to have someone in their lives and can't find someone else.

If i'm harsh, so be it. but there's NO fucking need to go back there, once the line is broken.

There are some aquas like this girl (OP) who does that, because well, she is DESPERATE in my opinion.

if that hurts, then it hurts, but you dont go chasing after a man.

it's BETTER to be ALONE but some women can't deal with being alone if they have NO other men chasing them.


honestly, truthfully!!! if you have TONS of admirers you dont have to worry about some dude who doesn't want you. LAME.
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I'm just saying friendship seems to typically be a priority for Aquas before and after a relationship.. unless the destructive forces had come into play. lol. I should add that I am actually not friends with any of my ex's for various reasons. Much of it is that I tend to burn bridges, probably because I'm not into the breakup-try-again game. I was just trying to convey to OP that it's just not even an option for a very long time after. I get over the bs and wonder if they're alive and well long after but idk, maybe my ex's don't.
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I keep in touch with almost half of my exes because I wouldn't start anything with anybody unless they are friends with me first. Friendship to me prevails after all the romantic and sexual things are gone.
This is an Aqua trait that I both very much admire yet at the same time can't relate to. I'm a Libra Sun and friendship with an ex is not something I am even remotely interested in until years after a breakup.
i'm sorry this is NOT an aqua trait.

I don't stay friends with ex's EVER. and i still would NOT go and be friends with them YEARS later.

only people in my opinion that do that are DESPERATE to have someone in their lives and can't find someone else.

If i'm harsh, so be it. but there's NO fucking need to go back there, once the line is broken.

There are some aquas like this girl (OP) who does that, because well, she is DESPERATE in my opinion.

if that hurts, then it hurts, but you dont go chasing after a man.

it's BETTER to be ALONE but some women can't deal with being alone if they have NO other men chasing them.


honestly, truthfully!!! if you have TONS of admirers you dont have to worry about some dude who doesn't want you. LAME.
I'm just saying friendship seems to typically be a priority for Aquas before and after a relationship.. unless the destructive forces had come into play. lol. I should add that I am actually not friends with any of my ex's for various reasons. Much of it is that I tend to burn bridges, probably because I'm not into the breakup-try-again game. I was just trying to convey to OP that it's just not even an option for a very long time after. I get over the bs and wonder if they're alive and well long after but idk, maybe my ex's don't.
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no it's not. I've seen plenty of OTHER sun sign where friendship is priority.

I've seen it more with Aquarius venus though (case in point, my capricorn mother in law and my Aries sister who is ma
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I was seeing this Libra guy on LDR and he was wishy washy giving me mixed messages, and being hot and cold. Typical Libra behavior right? Well, when we last saw each other while he was being sick, he'd act like a gentleman but he'd make some comments that would make him look like a jerk. He was acting detached and distant. So I asked him if he'd not like to see me anymore. He said that he's not sure anymore about the distance at that moment perhaps because he was sick but he might feel differently when he feels better. I thought he was done with me so I shut down emotionally at that moment until we parted and then we haven't talked for a week now. I heard that Libras eventually swing back and get in touch with you to stay friends the least. I tried very hard to get over him and it's working. He's a really cool guy and I'd like to keep him as my friend since we connect well platonically. Should I wait for him to come around? For how long would I wait? Do I have to write him off altogether or shall I eventually get in touch with him? I'm an Aquarius with Sag rising, moon in Gemini, Mercury in Aqua, Venus in Cap, and Mars in Libra.



you know that he moved on if he started seeing someone new .. for me as a libra its either a relationship or nothing..
try and date a sagittarius and you'll get over this libra so quickly haha
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(case in point, my capricorn mother in law and my Aries sister who is married to a libra sun male

also interestingly enough, the Pisces sun male uncle we know, he has Aquarius venus and Aries mars and taurus moon and he married a double Libra!!!

what the hell is that all about??
Hmm.. well I personally think mature, evolved both Pisces/Libra energies go together nicely. Pisces has the ability to deeply understand life from different perspectives and therefore can appreciate Libras need to see both the positives and negatives of any given situation. Both spend lots of time in their minds. Your uncle's T moon likes that Venusian energy. The Mars Aries may make for fantastic sexual chemistry oppo. Libra. (Idk, i dont have any experience with it. But theoretically.)
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(case in point, my capricorn mother in law and my Aries sister who is married to a libra sun male

also interestingly enough, the Pisces sun male uncle we know, he has Aquarius venus and Aries mars and taurus moon and he married a double Libra!!!

what the hell is that all about??
Hmm.. well I personally think mature, evolved both Pisces/Libra energies go together nicely. Pisces has the ability to deeply understand life from different perspectives and therefore can appreciate Libras need to see both the positives and negatives of any given situation. Both spend lots of time in their minds. Your uncle's T moon likes that Venusian energy. The Mars Aries may make for fantastic sexual chemistry oppo. Libra. (Idk, i dont have any experience with it. But theoretically.)
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Krasinsky and Blunt share these energies? Interesting. Do tell?
why dont you go look it up yourself.

jesus christ.

i'm not your teacher.

you just said pisces/libra so i remember them.
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LOL. I've noticed you seem to enjoy "pouring knowledge." I'm slightly intrigued but not enough to do it myself. Chill. Thanks for the info. I'll remember for future research.
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Krasinsky and Blunt share these energies? Interesting. Do tell?
why dont you go look it up yourself.

jesus christ.

i'm not your teacher.

you just said pisces/libra so i remember them.
LOL. I've noticed you seem to enjoy "pouring knowledge." I'm slightly intrigued but not enough to do it myself. Chill. Thanks for the info. I'll remember for future research.
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wtf?? You've been clearly reading alot of "symbolism" on astrology. I'm LEARNING just like you are. No one taught me shit. I did it myself by reading and also observing and also doing charts of my relatives and friends/neighbors.

and just like many of you all, share information.

If anything, your fellow libra sun Alyssa Sharpe POURS knowledge all over YouTube and her Facebook. She should be the water bearer.
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no one taught me shit, so you to TEACH YOURSELF.
Lol again. I'm not begging you to teach me. I just thought you liked sharing info.. not based on astrological stereotypes, just based on my actual perceptions/observations of seeing you post elsewhere on dxp. I've learned a lesson today. Don't ask Aqua to share knowledge or they may feel boxed in and rebel. Knowledge sharing must be voluntary. Got it.
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no one taught me shit, so you to TEACH YOURSELF.
Lol again. I'm not begging you to teach me. I just thought you liked sharing info.. not based on astrological stereotypes, just based on my actual perceptions/observations of seeing you post elsewhere on dxp. I've learned a lesson today. Don't ask Aqua to share knowledge or they may feel boxed in and rebel. Knowledge sharing must be voluntary. Got it.
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so?? what's wrong with sharing—

sharing is Caring.

it doesn't mean i'm gonna make YouTube videos like Alyssa Sharpe and TEACH you all how to do it.

What about the other people around you who are NOT aqua suns? they're not sharing much are they? Only sharing how miserable they are.

well that's sharing......at least.