Smitten with a libra man. How to express this?

Oh, libra! He's smitten me so, charmed me in all the right ways. I'm a pisces female, hesitant at first but warmed up to him more and more - now I can't seem to pull myself away. We have not become official, though I very much sense that he is moving in that direction. Our conversations are filled with banter and humor, compliments flow freely, the sex is incredible and kinky, and my heart seizes when I think of the way he'll brush my hair back and lock eyes. I recognize that this mutual affinity is likely something transient, but I wish to enjoy it fully and ride this wave as long as I can.

More importantly, I want him to enjoy it too! How do I keep this going? I haven't put much thought into it until now, but I so want let him know how much I adore him.

((Note: I know, I know. There's a how to date a libra topic... but all the answers are about dating girls.))

If you have to ask how to keep it going, you're going to fuck it up.

What's wrong with it now? Why are you looking to potentially sabotage this? Things have gone well so far. Why do you think you have to really think about it? What's wrong with "keep doing what you're doing?"

Also, I'm not sure what the eff you're reading when you say the dating Libra topic is mostly about the women. Like 99 percent of the topics here are about Libra men.

Posted by rockyroadicecream
If you have to ask how to keep it going, you're going to fuck it up.

What's wrong with it now? Why are you looking to potentially sabotage this? Things have gone well so far. Why do you think you have to really think about it? What's wrong with "keep doing what you're doing?"

Also, I'm not sure what the eff you're reading when you say the dating Libra topic is mostly about the women. Like 99 percent of the topics here are about Libra men.

Oh nothing is wrong at all, I am quite happy and I am sure he is too. I just think I could make him happier, and if I can do that -- I will!

Why the fuck does < 3 turn into

Please don't be an idiot and fall head over hills for a fucking libra.

Jesus christ.

Libra men are community dick, so wear a condom and don't get too emotionally involved.

I'll give it a month before he switches up n you see how homie gets down. Be careful with your heart. His cheap compliments and swagger are a facade.

Us fuckin Libra's are all the same and all so terrible so be careful! The men are a whole other species in itself researchers have yet to discover why so many fall victim to their shit.

Wear gloves and make sure you have pepper spray and a mace. He could bite you!

Just post his full chart. Basically 99% of all libra men are going to be lumped into the same category and labeled as the same, not all of them are like this but it seems to be few and far between with finding a good one.

(Although I know a few libra men that are absolutely opposite of the fuckmonkeys the anti libra brigade talks about) Thats okay, according to others here your a Cookie Monster because Neptune rules your ass. Just post his chart and we all can decipher it some more.

Who knows, he might turn out completely opposite of what's expected. Just don't get your hopes up... 🙂

lolz Illa and Magenta.

I wasn't going to say it because she already sounds like she's overthinking things.

I agree though, the "honeymoon" phase in all this is fine and nice. Give it a few months. Just be aware, some Libra dudes will change on you in an instant, leaving you utterly confused. That's what happens when air signs live with their heads in the clouds.

As for worrying about "making him happier" stop. Just keep doing what you're doing. You start going overkill and trying too hard, you're going to speed up the process in which he may totally back out on you. Just be cautious of all the big talk. Unfortunately, all too often, this type of Libra is all talk and no action. :/

Btw, just saw the thread you were referring to. You are not going back far enough. THIS is the thread you should be reading.

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/libra/in-love-w-libra-listen-up-3110930/

So.. "Don't do anything different." Well, that seems easy enough, though (obviously) not what I expected to hear.

I appreciate all the warnings. I myself am not looking for anything serious, though I wouldn't be wholly put off if that came to be. As a pisces, I am perfectly content to stay in a dream and (secretly) quite robust at dealing with the fallout when reality decides to rudely show up. Again... going to ride the wave as long as I can, and when I see that it's about to crash into the shore, I'll simply swim back out to sea.

Posted by Magenta_Azure
Please don't be an idiot and fall head over hills for a fucking libra.

You're right. Falling over hills is usually quite painful. (Sorrrryyy I couldn't resist.)

lolz

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Posted by twelvepiecesofpisces
Oh, libra! He's smitten me so, charmed me in all the right ways. I'm a pisces female, hesitant at first but warmed up to him more and more - now I can't seem to pull myself away. We have not become official, though I very much sense that he is moving in that direction. Our conversations are filled with banter and humor, compliments flow freely, the sex is incredible and kinky, and my heart seizes when I think of the way he'll brush my hair back and lock eyes. I recognize that this mutual affinity is likely something transient, but I wish to enjoy it fully and ride this wave as long as I can.

More importantly, I want him to enjoy it too! How do I keep this going? I haven't put much thought into it until now, but I so want let him know how much I adore him.

((Note: I know, I know. There's a how to date a libra topic... but all the answers are about dating girls.))

Lol so cute you actually think a libra charming you means something.

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I thought the same thing. They try to charm anything with a pulse.

Posted by virgoyum
Allow yourself to be courted and don't worry about a thing until you're his girlfriend or feel sure enough about the relationship to assert where your relationship stands.

I guess... that is now. He asked me to be his girlfriend today, and was incredibly sweet about it. I was quite delighted to say yes.

How long have you two been dating?

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Posted by twelvepiecesofpisces
So.. "Don't do anything different." Well, that seems easy enough, though (obviously) not what I expected to hear.

I appreciate all the warnings. I myself am not looking for anything serious, though I wouldn't be wholly put off if that came to be. As a pisces, I am perfectly content to stay in a dream and (secretly) quite robust at dealing with the fallout when reality decides to rudely show up. Again... going to ride the wave as long as I can, and when I see that it's about to crash into the shore, I'll simply swim back out to sea.

Posted by Magenta_Azure
Please don't be an idiot and fall head over hills for a fucking libra.

You're right. Falling over hills is usually quite painful. (Sorrrryyy I couldn't resist.)

Lies. Pisces perfectly content to stay in a dream lol? No they just pretend like everything is no big deal but are probably the most sensitive of the entire zodiac. They also have an innate ability to be incapable of dealing with rejection hence riding the wave of something ridiculous indefinitely. A least you were truthful about the wave riding 😄

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You seemed to have missed her play on the word "hill." Instead of "heels" being the proper word used, it was "hills."

Posted by rockyroadicecream
How long have you two been dating?

Oh, I didn't really keep track of that. I guess maybe it had been maybe a month and a half? Talking for a bit longer.

So many maybes in that sentence.

Lol @ hills. I agree with virgoyum. Pisces are so sweet in love...shame the rest of the world can't oblige to play nice 🙂