should i run

This topic was created in the Libra forum by passonate99 on Sunday, June 28, 2015 and has 13 replies.

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@passonate99
11 Years

Oh libras libras libras. my current situation-------> I'm always getting chased down by libra men. This guy is no different. He's been chasing me for 3 years, and finally i gave him a chance. He had told me before entering into the relationship that he was done with his crazy ex and that she was still inlove with him whereas he wasn't with her. Told me she was going off to school in three months and that they had separated from 3 months ago. Said they only spoke as friends and that he loved me. Told him to prove his level of seriousness and he came to meet my family. Yaddie Yaddie Yah......., i fell for him and we had sex. Only to find out he tried to plant a seed in me after i mentioned me having my period. He was upset told me he wanted that baby, said he was going to marry me and he mainly did it because he really loves me and didn't want me to give up on him. Then came the ex-factor" that he so happens to claim is only his friend. I tested the waters and post his picture on instagram and she sends a request. I refused to accept it and then post my suppose to be libra boyfriend picture as my display picture. She post on his FB i love you and i tell him to remove it and he does. she repost again only this time hes claiming he loves her.

He now admits he's messed up and he tells my friend he loves us both. But saying to me he's happy with me and loves me and only cares for the other. Told him to leave me alone and i wanted nothing to do with him (though broken when said) but he's begging for me to wait on him.........ummm wait (where they do that at——?) NOT ME! he won't leave me alone he keeps saying he's the one for me i'm the one for him, he can't let me go. I've blocked him on everything i know and then he finds his way at my friends. I'm very confused about his feelings and if he really was genuine about me. He tells my friends he is willing to do anything to get me back. So guys advise me on this. Help me on this. What do you think?

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@passonate99
11 Years

Posted by beautifuldiaster
Let him prove it. Let time pass and see how he responds.

But he had this, "I want her, I want you, I don't know and I want both"... maybe he doesn't know what he wants.

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I totally agree but i feel like he wants me to play back up don't you? and he ask me to "wait" on him........ummmm for what—? it's now or never boo

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@passonate99
11 Years

Such a confusing situation, i hate to play the blame game but it's his fault. To give a second chance —— Is there really a possibility for a guy to change?

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@passonate99
11 Years

Posted by Binota
And also tell that friends of him that you don't want him anymore nor even give him second change for it. Plus that you want them to leave you alone. If they don't respect you for this, delete those fatherfuckers.

I'm totally feeling you on this

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@passonate99
11 Years

Posted by Binota
Plus while you are there, make an restraining order! Collect every evidence about his behavior in case it get worse. Then send it to the police station!

This is a bit too much don't you think?

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@rockyroadicecream
14 Years10,000+ Posts

Posted by passonate99
Such a confusing situation, i hate to play the blame game but it's his fault. To give a second chance —— Is there really a possibility for a guy to change?

WHY do you want to keep someone like this around?

WHY aren't you considering finding someone else? Why do you need to keep this guy in particular?

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@LIb4Life
12 Years500+ Posts

Sooo help me to understand why are you even entertaining a clown that does not know what he wants, not to mention that he says he's in love with you and the ex? That doesn't even sound like it makes sense. I'm not understanding why there's even a question. How can you be in a relationship with a man where you have to question his love and commitment. The both of you are feeding into his mental illness and his ego. MY ADVICE since it appears that you have already started the process of moving on, is to keep right on moving......right out of his misery.