How to attract a Virgo make if you're a Aqua female?

Qualities about myself: Slightly spacey, slow, independent, hard worker/ determined, not very intelligent, stubborn, messy, shy, quiet, good fashion sense, dense, nice, mood swings, observer,workaholic
Virgo crush: pragmatic, intelligent, organized, eloquent, quiet, hard worker, formal, nice, helpful, values knowledge, workaholic, observer

I have been crushing on him for months now but it's difficult to read him. He compliments me now and then but I wonder if he only does so just to please me. We don't talk about his work only what I'm doing because I'm not well versed in politics or his work. He I thinks he likes this Scorpio woman being that they're on the same wavelength (intellectually) and he seems eager to talk to her.
I just wonder if I'm being delusional to have a guy like him to fall for me. I don't know why I develop a crush on him. It just happened. I admire and respect this man.

What's a Virgo make?

Virgo male.

Posted by firebunny
What's a Virgo make?

Lmaooo

Posted by Dopeydoodaa
Qualities about myself: Slightly spacey, slow, independent, hard worker/ determined, not very intelligent, stubborn, messy, shy, quiet, good fashion sense, dense, nice, mood swings, observer,workaholic
Virgo crush: pragmatic, intelligent, organized, eloquent, quiet, hard worker, formal, nice, helpful, values knowledge, workaholic, observer

I have been crushing on him for months now but it's difficult to read him. He compliments me now and then but I wonder if he only does so just to please me. We don't talk about his work only what I'm doing because I'm not well versed in politics or his work. He I thinks he likes this Scorpio woman being that they're on the same wavelength (intellectually) and he seems eager to talk to her.
I just wonder if I'm being delusional to have a guy like him to fall for me. I don't know why I develop a crush on him. It just happened. I admire and respect this man.

I vote don't do it. It takes a lot of work to make the Aqua-Virgo relationship work. It's easy to make friends, but Virgos are really really frustrated by Aqua stubbornness. I believe my ex said that was one of my least charming qualities. Virgos have their own sense of success and they do try to encourage or change you to meet this standard. It kinda depends on the rest of his chart.

If your Virgo has a lot of earth qualities, he's going to look at all your habits as if you stepped off the Mothership and it's going to be rocky.

Posted by aquanib
Could you perhaps explain a little on why you think you are "not very intelligent, dense".
You say this because you are not well versed in politics? If so, this can be easily fixed with some time and determination. At least the basics....

We both work in similar fields but I'm not good at my job as he is. It takes a while for me to understand and I only have a general understanding of things. Compared to the Scorpio woman, she knows far more than I do. Virgos value intelligence in their partner and I'm afraid I don't fall under his criteria. I considered myself to be more incline in some topics but it's not enough. Jack of all trades, master of none reference?

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Posted by Dopeydoodaa
Qualities about myself: Slightly spacey, slow, independent, hard worker/ determined, not very intelligent, stubborn, messy, shy, quiet, good fashion sense, dense, nice, mood swings, observer,workaholic
Virgo crush: pragmatic, intelligent, organized, eloquent, quiet, hard worker, formal, nice, helpful, values knowledge, workaholic, observer

I have been crushing on him for months now but it's difficult to read him. He compliments me now and then but I wonder if he only does so just to please me. We don't talk about his work only what I'm doing because I'm not well versed in politics or his work. He I thinks he likes this Scorpio woman being that they're on the same wavelength (intellectually) and he seems eager to talk to her.
I just wonder if I'm being delusional to have a guy like him to fall for me. I don't know why I develop a crush on him. It just happened. I admire and respect this man.

I vote don't do it. It takes a lot of work to make the Aqua-Virgo relationship work. It's easy to make friends, but Virgos are really really frustrated by Aqua stubbornness. I believe my ex said that was one of my least charming qualities. Virgos have their own sense of success and they do try to encourage or change you to meet this standard. It kinda depends on the rest of his chart.

If your Virgo has a lot of earth qualities, he's going to look at all your habits as if you stepped off the Mothership and it's going to be rocky.

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Would you say that Virgos know best though since they're so analytical? I read that us Aquas value intelligence but it doesn't necessarily mean that we are. I'm easily influenced by people but I have my own rigid morals.

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Posted by Dopeydoodaa

We both work in similar fields but I'm not good at my job as he is. It takes a while for me to understand and I only have a general understanding of things. Compared to the Scorpio woman, she knows far more than I do. Virgos value intelligence in their partner and I'm afraid I don't fall under his criteria. I considered myself to be more incline in some topics but it's not enough. Jack of all trades, master of none reference?

Ya, but this isn't intelligence. This is merely different education and the consequence of her working in the same field (does she?) as him. By default she will have more to talk about it because she's in and around it daily.

I also understand the "jack of all trades, master of none" reference as you are able to talk about a wide variety of topics but not at depth about any of them, save your field of work. This also isn't some measure of intelligence, it merely means you have been negligent with the quality of information intake, perhaps less reality shows and more Discovery Channel is in order?

As for politics, the jack of all trades is useful. If you want to talk at a slightly higher level than casuals, you need to know history, basics of economy, some psychology, geography, sociology etc etc....

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Thank you for the feedback. I don't watch reality tv by the way. Yep she works in the same field as him. It's just that many things interest me but I don't go in-depth.

Posted by Dopeydoodaa
Qualities about myself: Slightly spacey, slow, independent, hard worker/ determined, not very intelligent, stubborn, messy, shy, quiet, good fashion sense, dense, nice, mood swings, observer,workaholic
Virgo crush: pragmatic, intelligent, organized, eloquent, quiet, hard worker, formal, nice, helpful, values knowledge, workaholic, observer

I have been crushing on him for months now but it's difficult to read him. He compliments me now and then but I wonder if he only does so just to please me. We don't talk about his work only what I'm doing because I'm not well versed in politics or his work. He I thinks he likes this Scorpio woman being that they're on the same wavelength (intellectually) and he seems eager to talk to her.
I just wonder if I'm being delusional to have a guy like him to fall for me. I don't know why I develop a crush on him. It just happened. I admire and respect this man.

only if there is pisces 12th house and virgo /6th house in your chart. opposite energies AND same energies, plus trines.

that's the only way. lol

because once you have those energies, it's EFFORTLESS.

Posted by Gennie

Posted by Dopeydoodaa
Qualities about myself: Slightly spacey, slow, independent, hard worker/ determined, not very intelligent, stubborn, messy, shy, quiet, good fashion sense, dense, nice, mood swings, observer,workaholic
Virgo crush: pragmatic, intelligent, organized, eloquent, quiet, hard worker, formal, nice, helpful, values knowledge, workaholic, observer

I have been crushing on him for months now but it's difficult to read him. He compliments me now and then but I wonder if he only does so just to please me. We don't talk about his work only what I'm doing because I'm not well versed in politics or his work. He I thinks he likes this Scorpio woman being that they're on the same wavelength (intellectually) and he seems eager to talk to her.
I just wonder if I'm being delusional to have a guy like him to fall for me. I don't know why I develop a crush on him. It just happened. I admire and respect this man.

I vote don't do it. It takes a lot of work to make the Aqua-Virgo relationship work. It's easy to make friends, but Virgos are really really frustrated by Aqua stubbornness. I believe my ex said that was one of my least charming qualities. Virgos have their own sense of success and they do try to encourage or change you to meet this standard. It kinda depends on the rest of his chart.

If your Virgo has a lot of earth qualities, he's going to look at all your habits as if you stepped off the Mothership and it's going to be rocky .

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my husband is virgo dominant, and i have no problems.
but he's water dominant too, and if you're both water dominant, you love eachother anyway. through the fat and the thin and the messy and the ordered life.

i'm glad i am not with that type you're mentioning, the one that is too anal retentive.

EDIT - also...HABITS?? wtf??

what about HIS habits?? jeeez It's like only ONE way street here.

@aquanib

It sounds like you need a Virgo in your life.