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I wanna be a young mum
I'm an Aries sun, Cancer MC. I've certainly felt the pull of wanting to have children, be around children and just naturally make that a large part of my life. I do believe that's my Cancer midheaven. However, I won't allow myself to have children until I know it's absolutely solid. I've found it quite difficult to maintain a trustworthy relationship in this day and age. So I'm honestly just focused on my self-care, my personal growth process. You HAVE TO take care of you and get to know yourself before you choose to become a mom. It should be a careful decision, that you make with someone you're so in love with. And I can't stress enough how much easier it'll be if you wait until you're older than 21.
Oh right now are you in a stable place in life to do that?.. if yes then live life to the fullest...
If you want to become a mom I hope it's a mutual friendship, relationship and then a marriage partnership..., And he is the right person for you and the both of you are suitable for each other and not one sided where you want to keep someone..
Yeah I argee with at least 25. That gives you 3-4 years of educational background, stability, and whether or not he is the one, and of course career.
If you want to become a mom I hope it's a mutual friendship, relationship and then a marriage partnership..., And he is the right person for you and the both of you are suitable for each other and not one sided where you want to keep someone..
Yeah I argee with at least 25. That gives you 3-4 years of educational background, stability, and whether or not he is the one, and of course career.
When I was your age I wanted the same as you. But things changed and a reality check hit me big time. I got on birth control and lucky I did at that age. Turns out it just wasn't happening for me.
I told myself I never wanted to be like my mom when she had me. I fixed my thoughts on that seriously. And of course my ex didn't help change my approach to this.
I told myself I never wanted to be like my mom when she had me. I fixed my thoughts on that seriously. And of course my ex didn't help change my approach to this.
I worl with children , so i know how to take care of them. Obviously at the same time i do want an stable relationship (marriage) before bringing a child into this world. So like @xomelindabelle , my fear is to nt be able to matain a relationship with the father of the child because i never seem to find comfort in anybody. But those saying that its selfish and that i should wait until im 30 - thats your opinion , but if we get serious, age means literally nothing , because if youre waiting till "youre mature" , thats a life time process. You are never mature enough cause were always growing and learning. I do appreciate the feedback anyway. Its good to see things from a diff perspective sometimes & thats why ive asked.
To the person asking why. Because i work with them and they give meaning to this life . Everything they do, the way the look at you - its so pure it makes you wanna work harder to protect them.
To the person asking why. Because i work with them and they give meaning to this life . Everything they do, the way the look at you - its so pure it makes you wanna work harder to protect them.
Have you owned any dogs in your life?
Pretty much the same deal. Just feed it table scraps and let it lead when you walk it. Flawless.
Pretty much the same deal. Just feed it table scraps and let it lead when you walk it. Flawless.
Posted by notafollowerI'm an Aries and I started in my late teens.I have two kids 3 years apart. My oldest just turned 18 and I wouldn't change a thing. I'm ready to have another. You give up a lot, but I gained alot more from them. Being a young mom for me was awesome.
Whats your sign & what dyou think about being a young parent?
21 yr old cancer.
Excellent choice @ Soul. You must own a pet before having a baby.
Posted by KsamCanceralways trolling. Lmao - just shush oreo looking bob marley. my daise lolPosted by RumiLoveMay in introduce you to doc johnson?
I'm 21 . I want a baby by the time in 24-25.. Or else I'm gonna adopt! 😢click to expand
my Taurus friend had her first child at 24.. It is a beautiful thing but if you are not yet stable in your career, you'd feel like your life is over. It will be hard getting back on the job hunt if you got a child.. IMO
Posted by Sage50Nope. I just want to raise my own kids, maybe adopt, travel and help the less fortunate. Thats about it.lol
I think you should wait. It's a huge responsibility. Do you have a list of goals that you want to check off before becoming mom?
Posted by KsamCancerright - just because you smoke pot, sing in the shower & youve attempted to copy his hair style dosent mean youre getting somewhere love. hahahaha :pPosted by notafollowerYour daise? I am the reincarnation of bob marleyPosted by KsamCanceralways trolling. Lmao - just shush oreo looking bob marley. my daise lolPosted by RumiLoveMay in introduce you to doc johnson?
I'm 21 . I want a baby by the time in 24-25.. Or else I'm gonna adopt! 😢click to expand
& its actually "my days" - but i like to personalize my ish inni lmaooo
Posted by KsamCanceryou dont smoke? your oreo looking appearance makes me question your credibility . lolPosted by notafollowerReincarnations dont always mean carbon copies 😛. And I dont smoke pot, nor sing, and sureeeee bob marley invented the afro. I just share the same quest for natural happiness as him. Youre making up languages now?Posted by KsamCancerright - just because you smoke pot, sing in the shower & youve attempted to copy his hair style dosent mean youre getting somewhere love. hahahaha :pPosted by notafollowerYour daise? I am the reincarnation of bob marleyPosted by KsamCanceralways trolling. Lmao - just shush oreo looking bob marley. my daise lolPosted by RumiLoveMay in introduce you to doc johnson?
I'm 21 . I want a baby by the time in 24-25.. Or else I'm gonna adopt! 😢
& its actually "my days" - but i like to personalize my ish inni lmaoooclick to expand
& well if you want to consider a couple of made up words a language, sure 😛
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