Know What You Want From People

its a funny statement ma mom always use to tell me that as a kid i'm really starting to understand what she meant cuz its like y waste ur time blah blah just spit it out and tell tha person wat u want and if they can't offer it to u there not meant for u at tha moment move on on to tha next one.

Virgos dont really want nothing from people but happiness and being free and doing they're own thing.

dats just me i like doing ma own thing getting ma life in order owwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww

Posted by moon_eyes
I want people to be honest and decent.

i kno rite its hard 2 find people like dat nowadays

Posted by ianthefish
i find most people to be honest and decent... with a select few who are not..

u ever heard of fake honest people i have they fake it to make it hiding their true intentions with a mask and u have 2 be real good to sense it.


its a game some people play it very well u wouldn't kno they are lying the honest game till u catch them in it.

Agree with Ian on all points.


"i dont think its something horrible... its just the nature of humans.."


Indeed. It does get exhausting to always hear people complaining about how terrible humans are. We are what we are. It is incredibly naive to wish to be any other way, imo. I find the human species rather amazing as is, actually.

I don't believe in good vs. bad in regards to human behavior, just as I don't believe those labels apply to all the other *animals* out there.

I agree. It seems that nowdays alot of people 1. don't know what they want (which is part of the reason they never get what they truly want) & 2. Once they know what they want, they don't know how to demand that from the RIGHT people and/or let go of the people that have told OR shown them that they can't fulfil those demands. It's very important to let a person know up front what you are looking for. Once you do that, that person will take it all in & make a conscious decision (they will know IMMEDIATELY) if they can provide that for you. Some may know up front that they cannot, but b/c they are selfish or do not yet know what they want or what they deserve, might still try to keep you around. BUT at that point, it's up to you to be able to decide if that person is fulfilling your desires. And if not, it's also up to YOU to move away from the person who isn't giving you what you want.

My mother used to tell me this all the time & it's FINALLY making sense: Most people want the person they USED to be, WISH that person WOULD BE &/or who that person will NEVER be. Most of us aren't in love with and/or don't actually admire the person they actually ARE being at the present time.

Posted by krysrenee7
I agree. It seems that nowdays alot of people 1. don't know what they want (which is part of the reason they never get what they truly want) & 2. Once they know what they want, they don't know how to demand that from the RIGHT people and/or let go of the people that have told OR shown them that they can't fulfil those demands. It's very important to let a person know up front what you are looking for. Once you do that, that person will take it all in & make a conscious decision (they will know IMMEDIATELY) if they can provide that for you. Some may know up front that they cannot, but b/c they are selfish or do not yet know what they want or what they deserve, might still try to keep you around. BUT at that point, it's up to you to be able to decide if that person is fulfilling your desires. And if not, it's also up to YOU to move away from the person who isn't giving you what you want.

My mother used to tell me this all the time & it's FINALLY making sense: Most people want the person they USED to be, WISH that person WOULD BE &/or who that person will NEVER be. Most of us aren't in love with and/or don't actually admire the person they actually ARE being at the present time.

wow u go lady u rock lmfao owwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww

ur right in everyway it will be wrong to say ur weren't right lmfao

Posted by moon_eyes
I want people to be honest and decent.

I agree, not only that, people without "Hidden Agendas" i really can't stand ppl that do.

Plus, alot of people kill me when they get angry when it takes them a long time to find what they are really looking for. The truth is, so many of us don't even know what we're looking for, thus we can't really say that we haven't found what we're looking for if WE don't even know. Furthermore, it's selfish of us to assume that we can't find happiness when others don't fulfill the desires we don't even know we had OR the desires we're not demanding others to fuflill. Hell there are BILLIONS of people on this earth! It should be expected that it'll take 10,000 frogs before you get to the final princess. That's the best part about LOVE! It's about finally finding something that is so rare, so unique, thus it gives us all the reason to cherish what we have even more. Most people aren't the best they can be, so it's no wonder they're not attracting the "best." And I believe nature's being fair in the way it handles love. Plus, it always comes to expectations. Some of us LOWER our expecations, some of us take what we can get (for all the wrong reasons) & some of us have too high expecations (b/c we purposely set it up that way so that others can fail, so that we can avoid even longer, looking in the mirror)...so it's no wonder there is unhappiness & single people all over the place.
Plus, for most of us, it's hard to find out exactly what we want through experiencing exactly what we do NOT want. BUT, the key is though..that once we're aware of not only what we WANT, but also what we DESERVE, that we demand that from others as early on as possible. No don't wait to discuss needs way after the commitment has been established. That's the same as hiring someone before interviewing them for a job. It's backwards. Idk why but it seems that people are afraid that their desires are too much to ask for..and if that's the case, that's fine but don't be mad when people don't give you what they didn't know you wanted.

^LMAO!!