Mr. Capricorn 4

We ended up staying together but it isnt perfect( this all happend a little over a year ago) This year we moved to an apartment with Tina and another girl. Mr. Cappy and i still aruge about the past and i cry periodically because it hurts a lot to think about all that i had been through. I always feel that he is keeping something from me even when i have proof that he isnt, i just assume that he is. I ask him if there is something that he hasn't told me and he gets annoyed and assures me that i know everything. Am i waisting my time...is this how my life will always be...is this relationship a lost cause?

First of all let me say I am sorry for the pain you are going through at the moment. But I also believe love shouldn't be this hard. If its this hard, I believe its best to walk away.

a relationship is really hard when the other has destroyed your trust in them. it really takes a long time to get that trust back. especially in your case cuz now you will be looking over your shoulder constantly. wondering who is there that he's been with. he will never be honest with you if he isn't being honest to begin with. also, now that you've taken him back, he will think the next time is ok, that you will just take him back every time.

i'm so sorry you are going through this. i am a gemini and had learned the same lesson years ago with a capricorn. they aren't all like that. it took alot, to just walk away. but i did manage to do so, and couldn't be happier for doing it! time heals all wounds until the next one sweeps us off our feet! 🙂

Posted by misslissa
a relationship is really hard when the other has destroyed your trust in them. it really takes a long time to get that trust back. especially in your case cuz now you will be looking over your shoulder constantly. wondering who is there that he's been with. he will never be honest with you if he isn't being honest to begin with. also, now that you've taken him back, he will think the next time is ok, that you will just take him back every time.

i'm so sorry you are going through this. i am a gemini and had learned the same lesson years ago with a capricorn. they aren't all like that. it took alot, to just walk away. but i did manage to do so, and couldn't be happier for doing it! time heals all wounds until the next one sweeps us off our feet! 🙂

Thank you both for your input...if you dont mind me asking what do you mean you learned the same lesson? What was his personality like?

Mr Nice it's good to see someone with a good perspective on knowing Capricorns and understanding them. Sorry for ms gem's troubles but I've never read that we get along with gemini's either

Yah thanks guys for the advice...i have always had a deep interest in astrology and regardless of how many books,websites i have visited they have said the same thing...i am not compatible with a Capricorn. However,the characteristics of a Gemini doesn't fit me at all...i was born June 11th so its not like i am a cusp...i never really understood this. For example my Cappy b.f has a lot of the characteristics of a Capricorn , along with other people in my life they fit the descriptions of them under their signs,except for me. I know im supposed to be very out-going, flirty, and indecisive but im the complete opposite...i would rather say home then go out most nights,there are days when i feel like it but prefer to be with a few ppl or alone. Plus im very goal orientated and organized...is that a gemini trait...i haven't found anyplace that says im suppose to be like that.

Get out, get out, get out!! You don't sound happy at all, and I think you are wasting your precious life with this fucking loser, yeah i said it. Cheaters are scum of the earth end of story.


Did he cheat on you like even ONCE?, $ # $ *, well, I am an aries so I would probably be in jail if a man did that to me, but ya know...I don't think happening to me twice would be an option 😉


On another note, my Gemini cousin was involved in a VERY dysfunctional relationship with a cap for a few years, who was constantly spinning A web of misery... raining on gemini's parade, and JEALOUS of this gemini's positive outlook on life.

Not to say the gemini was not at fault either because they both cheated on each other more than once, but the cap definently made the gemini feel like he was trying to swim with concrete boots on! After it was over, Gemini is HAPPIER THAN EVER, and has lost 15 pounds without even trying (was overweight before).

However, their are so many factors that probably make your situation different.

Are they compatible with anyone?

didn't think so ... what's up with that?

One of my best friends is an Aries , its weird she said the same thing " don't think happening to me twice would be an option" . I don't want to leave him because right now...well for a year he has been "good" , it's just i get insecure about the future. I randomly think, if he was able to do this before how do i know that( if we stay together) in twenty years he wont have a mid-life crisis and do it again?

^^ I needed to reread before I posted >😢 damn grammar.


Let's forget about astrology for a second because I know Caps who would NEVER cheat on their SOs (two I've met compare cheaters to gum on the sidewalk, the trash in a dumpster. One is the epitome of a Capricorn and he is a Cap/Aqua cusper!! Cheating is an INDIVIDUAL thing. It has nothing to do with sign).

Yes, you are wasting your time, I believe your relationship has reached its end. There is insecurity, jealousy, deceit. That is not a healthy relationship. I think you should end this for your own good because let's be honest, you guys won't make it to the alter anyway (harsh but true, you're 22!!!).


There are other men that will treat you so much better (I know you know this but you have to believe it) and you could have an even better relationship. The first step is always the hardest and that is leaving.

If he cheated on you once, he will do it again, without a doubt. I don't believe in once a cheater always a cheater but I do believe in once a cheater WITH YOU, always a cheater WITH YOU. You forgave him once, he thinks you'll forgive him again. By leaving him, you're telling him that his behavior is unacceptable and trashy. By staying, he think he has you by the ovaries. It's almost as if your giving him even more power, "Wow, she forgave me when I cheated on her, I could pretty much get away with anything!! Sucker!!" Once trust has been shattered, IT WILL NEVER BE THE SAME.