So my ex and I have been broken up for a year and6 months now and I was making terrific progress throughout the time. She had found herself a new bf while her and I were talking about us. In short terms, she basically kept me as her 2nd option, and when she found the guy she wanted she tossed me away. Throughout the one year and 6 months we had been broken up she was going out with her new bf but replied to me when I wished her a happy new year. Then in the beginning of this year we started to slowly talk more and more until we finally met up in person. Well she had told me that she was still with her new bf so we agreed to not see each other. Then she contacted me layer and we met up, talked, and then she told me that this was the last time we were ever gonna talk or meet because she was gonna start a famity with her bf. I respectfully told her I accept her decision and just hugged her and left. Then recently, she called me from a private number (which is how she contacted me before). Funny enough though, I had been thinking about her too so I was kinda shocked when I picked up the phone and heard her on the other side. Well, again we met up and she basically told me she had NOBODY she can confine in, and that she had been dreaming about me, thinking about me, and that she would catch herself almost calling her bf by my name. We only got to talk seriously for like an hour but the matter at hand was that when I asked her why she called, she basically told me that she missed me, she realizes that she took me for granted and that she is tired of her relationship because her bf is an asshole to her and never wants to do anything. But weirdly enough, she told me that even if she were to break up with her bf, that she wouldn't go back out with me. So I'm fairly confused how she can ell me that I'm always on her mind but that she's not willing to give us another shot. Can any Virgo women give me some insight. I've tried to contact her but she still has me blocked off every social media app and I don't remember her ##
My ex Virgo gf and Gemini ol Me

"she is tired of her relationship because her bf is an asshole to her and never wants to do anything."
- This is all you need to know. She's just using you for the time being bcuz she needs to feel important. Sje has no plans of being with you so tell her to have a good life and walk away.
- This is all you need to know. She's just using you for the time being bcuz she needs to feel important. Sje has no plans of being with you so tell her to have a good life and walk away.

bruh. BRUH.
the feels are real. been there done that like literally couple days ago. I posted about this a couple days ago.
she trying to keep you as an option. don't be surprised after a while if she contacts you.
and people say us gems have commitment issues :S
There are more fish in the ... damnit thats a pisces pun ... um ... something something let-(her-go) (virgo)
(ill see myself out...)
the feels are real. been there done that like literally couple days ago. I posted about this a couple days ago.
she trying to keep you as an option. don't be surprised after a while if she contacts you.
and people say us gems have commitment issues :S
There are more fish in the ... damnit thats a pisces pun ... um ... something something let-(her-go) (virgo)
(ill see myself out...)
@Greentea, thank you, I guess you're right

Awe I'm sorry it didn't work out. Hope you find the one that brings you happiness and peace of mind, and one that you don't have to worry maybe or maybe one day to keep you as a sideline. Just in case. But she won't change her mind she told you not going back to you though.
Why doesn't she feel the same way? Did something happen while you guys hanged around each other a few times?
Why doesn't she feel the same way? Did something happen while you guys hanged around each other a few times?
FirstDecanTaurianWoman
She told me that she wouldn't go back out with me because the way we ended our relationship as a whole caused too much damage to repair.
She told me that she wouldn't go back out with me because the way we ended our relationship as a whole caused too much damage to repair.

Oh okay and do you think it can be repaired and you can change the? Compromise, adapt, and communicate better?
Where's your moon, mercury, and mars at?
Where's your moon, mercury, and mars at?

This is an astrology section come on. Lol
FirstDecanTaurianWoman0428
I mean she told me that she doesn't see a future with her new bf because he's too much of an asshole and she's tired of he constant fights with him. She also made it pretty clear she had nobody to confine in and that's why she looked happy to talk to me and see me.
But..... our relationship, friendship-wise, went down the drain after she cast me aside for her new Asshole Bf. I'm just confused as hell because I don't want to take too long to make a move.
I mean she told me that she doesn't see a future with her new bf because he's too much of an asshole and she's tired of he constant fights with him. She also made it pretty clear she had nobody to confine in and that's why she looked happy to talk to me and see me.
But..... our relationship, friendship-wise, went down the drain after she cast me aside for her new Asshole Bf. I'm just confused as hell because I don't want to take too long to make a move.

Calm your tits man. You can't rush into this it isn't meant to be right now. And the way you present is she doesn't want to, or even try to work it out meaning maybe you are a hard person to talk to or compromise to or feel comfortable with.

I just want to know your chart to why are you holding on?
FirstDecanTaurianWoman2408
At this point, I was a fool. She hasn't replied to the last message I tried to send her so I'll just leave it at that. No need to has somebody that's too confused to know what they want
At this point, I was a fool. She hasn't replied to the last message I tried to send her so I'll just leave it at that. No need to has somebody that's too confused to know what they want

Posted by AlantheGeminiLook just keep changing to better yourself and one day it will pay off. Looks like you are on the gemini board as well. You have so things to work on like any other person needs to do about one self.
FirstDecanTaurianWoman2408
At this point, I was a fool. She hasn't replied to the last message I tried to send her so I'll just leave it at that. No need to has somebody that's too confused to know what they want
Hopefully you'll start dating again, and compromise and talk to a new one, and this one is done. Sorry.
@FirstDecanTaurianWoman2408
I actually was dating. 2 days before my ex called me my gf had broken up with me beside she moved away to fresno. That's the only reason it's hard for me to let go of my ex. She comes in contact with me at the wrong times
I actually was dating. 2 days before my ex called me my gf had broken up with me beside she moved away to fresno. That's the only reason it's hard for me to let go of my ex. She comes in contact with me at the wrong times
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