Virgo male / Gemini female: underrated match?

This topic was created in the Virgo forum by BoomShakalakaBoom on Friday, May 15, 2015 and has 15 replies.

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@BoomShakalakaBoom
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Its been half a year now that I've been in a relationship with my Gemini, everything is going sooooo well, I'm gonna go on and say she's the first woman I could totally see myself marrying and be totally happy with it. Also I find myself surrounded by more and more Geminis as time pass and I really like most of them. I honestly feel this is one of the most underrated matches for a Virgo, especially Gemini females with Merc in Taurus would likely suit a Virgo pretty well. Any thoughts/experiences?

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@Weeds
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Eeh ive always seen gemini women as the unstable version of a sagittarius.
they can get a bit "crazy". If you guys do get hitched how bout some updates through the yrs?

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@Teena
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I've seen virgo male n Gemini male relationship! They make it work pretty well! Seems inseparable! But then it can be different for a male gemini n female Virgo or vice versa

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@GeminiGem
11 YearsGemini

We flow pretty well. We both like me time, and analyze everything. I'm a pretty calm Gemini. We communicate well and have fun together. All relationships are give and take and only you both can decide what you will/won't put up with.

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@Gemini74
11 YearsGemini

Hey Boom. I think the match is good but I'm having issues with my Virgo guy. I think we are both bad at communication when it comes to our emotions to it's tough to find out where each other stand. He's a workoholic and has 2 kids so we don't spend much time together. That causes huge issues for me. Emotionally I feel I have 1 foot out the door and I'm a bit over it. It's not fair. But I have tried to be understanding with him and I know work and kids come first. Yeah we love each other but love doesn't mean your compatible or happy in the relationship.

I'm very happy for you and gem.

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@lisabethur8
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Posted by LadyOfRebirth
Her moon conjunct your Venus/mars is probably what's making it work so well. Your mercuries trining is also a bonus.

maybe, my gemini step mother inlaw is an aries moon 8th house, cancer venus, virgo mars.

and double virgo father in law is scorp venus/ and Scorpio mars/mercury.

i see it more her mars to his moon, her cancer to his Scorpio. He is definitely happier with the gemini than he was with cappy mother in law (Because cappy mother in law had aqua venus sadly --- i had to look into their charts and saw that cappy mother in law has virgo mars too. Which gets his double virgo-ness. But unfortunately, for personal relationship, the aqua venus is no good.

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@Damnata
16 Years25,000+ PostsVirgo

I hope you have the same luck as my uncle, Shaks.

I think I mentioned on here before how they met in the most unexpected place ever, miles from home. Love at first sight for them. Strong family, and as a result of that I have an awesome Cancer cousin. He'll probably be in the olympics for swimming one day and I will be all over dxp bragging πŸ˜„.

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@duchesslibro
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I'm a Gemini Moon, not Sun, but I love the hotdamn out of my Virgo man, hooked for life. I'm very airy and I love his stability and high intellectual capacity. Sometimes he can be emotionally distant but as our relationship goes on that is gradually fading away. His biggest issue with me is that I can be unpredictable. I appreciate that he points this out to me as a negative thing because for me, my life is a constant quest to improve. I see it as constructive criticism. Him and I have definitely grown into more positive individuals together and we continue to grow in positive ways. It's fantastic.

Actually, I just realized something kind of interesting.. Our charts are not really what would be considered highly compatible by traditional astrological notions so I often try to figure out why we have been so drawn to one another and strongly bonded.

So here's the thing-
Me: Libra/Venus Sun & Gemini/Mercury Moon
Him: Virgo/Mercury Sun & Taurus/Venus Moon

So our Suns/Moons are cross related (in a way) after all. Thanks for asking this question because it led me to this realization. Cool.