Disregard what I sent before. I was dumb to think there would be something with an ex. I’m so stupid to have even hoped for something. I can’t believe I did it to myself again. I’m such an idiot for even thinking it would work. I’m too dumb to have even thought it might happen. Thank you for the advice guys but I’m a lost cause and should’ve listened. I’m sorry for making you guys listen to my ramble
It’s an unusual friendship tbh. She told me that I should’ve looked for her in the 3 years that we didn’t talk because now she’s unhappily married and only likes to be around me because I don’t give her money or material things(her man just gives her money to make her leave him alone) I just give her my time attention and little affections of love. When I do that she tells me I’m perfect, that any girl would be lucky to have me, but then goes to saying how she hoped things could’ve been different. Idk I think she’s just stuck between love and pride while still wanting what he has to offer. Not to mention, she wants to start a family and her guy went from being all in(when they first started dating) and now that she’s trying to get him documented into the US he’s backing down even more, so idk what the hell is going on in this woman’s head
So my ex has me confused because first she says we’re better off as friends but goes on saying she loves me and I’m her everything and that I make her so incredibly happy. What is up with her ? Are all virgos so indecisive and selfish ?
@J-Hay I can totally understand that. She already has a man with all that and they already bought a house together but she always tells me that she’s not happy with him, that he’s abusive and that she feels bad for him or his family if they get divorced because they might get deported. She also doesn’t want her family to think she failed so she’s embarrassed. I’m feeling a game of her unravel the further we hang out sometimes because I’m always feeling hidden by her. Red flag already, and I’ll be damned if I treetrunk myself up just because she’s too confused on what she’s rather have.
@GemiAwesomeAss You don’t even know anything dude. Yeah we treetrunked up by rushing things and having sex but that was something that we were hiding deep within us. I know it’s treetrunked up saying I regret it now but better now than later down the line. She’ll never take the step to leave him and I can’t keep torturing myself being at her every beck and call. So you need to check yourself first and foremost buddy. If she’s unhappy then what can I do about it? I’m trying to be there for her and let her know that if she leaves him I’ll still be here to cheer her on. But if she stays with him then that’s what was really meant to be
I’ve given it a lot of thought and I originally told her that I simply only wanted to be friends and we agreed having sex was a mistake but we were honest enough to su that it did cross our minds at some point in the night. She’s told me that she’s never stopped thinking of me and she tried contacting me even after I kept deleting her requests and messages. The first month she married the dude she regretted it because she found out that he lied to her about the type of person he was and what he wanted in life. It’s difficult for her to leave because she fears to look like a failure in front of her family and peers. I can understand that but ultimately I feel like I need to distance myself away bit by bit from her until Im gone again. Unless I give her an ultimatum to choose but I wouldn’t want to pressure anybody into doing something they’re not entirely ready for. She loves me but fears our friendship will kindle some deep feelings between us. It’s a dangerous road I’m trying to walk down but I know I have to take the exit soon.
They’ve been together 5 years but married 2 and they sort of just tolerate eachother. Not to mention this guy is TOXIC! what pisses me off is that he’s undocumented but treats her like butter, he’d lock her in a room like a dog in a cage and when they’d walk in public he holds her by her neck as if she’s his property. She’s over him and idk what this means but she said “if you decide to never talk to me again I think I’d just divorce my husband and move away because I’d have nothing left for me to stay here for” so I’m not entirely sure what she’s playing at
@MyStarsShine I want to say yes for him but she cried to me last night while she was a little buzzed telling me that she hates her marriage and that she always missed me and looked for me and never understood why I never looked for her back because I guess that was all she really wanted but the more times I would reply she’d feel more discouraged and confused as to why I hate her. I told her I NEVER stopped loving her but that I knew that our paths just weren’t meant to cross and when they do I just wish and hope I’d be ready for it.
We went out 4 years ago during and after high school and we unfortunately had a falling out that resulted in her being with an older guy and me being stuck alone. She tried keeping contact with me but always talked about herself and how things were going with her BF(now husband). I eventually just cut her off and did my best to ghost her completely but recently this year if 2020 she’s been REALLY trying to come in contact with me. Well a couple days ago on Saturday, we met up and *clicked* and just vibed to a point where it felt like the good old days but more mature because were actually listening to eachother and being reasonable. She told me how she basically was the man in the marriage and that’s it’s only for his papers,(Which she is doing all the work) and she regrets it also because he’s not ready for everything she wants like he said he was. Anyway! We ended up having sex later that night but neither both of us regret that it happened but know that we shouldn’t be doing it. She’s
She’s explained to me that she just wants me in her life and that she regrets getting married. Although last night she literally told me she loved me and always thought that I got too good for her as a person and that she doesn’t want me felling sorry for her.
Need some help deciding the female Virgo. She was my longest relationship and we recently met up and had a beyond great night filled with laughter smiles and surprisingly love. What does she want if she’s already married
So this Scorpio ive been talking to, has in a sense just gone MIA on me ? I don't know why although it maybe because both her and I have opposite work schedules. Maybe I was just too boring for her? ? I'm a gem btw