Need Some Advice About Capricorns :)

Hi everyone Im new here.


Im a scorpio lady who has had a little bit of a thing for a lovely capricorn man for a while now. I never pursued it as I felt he was uninterested and so have been more like a friend. Basically this weekend we bumped into eachother and ended up having a bit of an encounter hehe. He made the first move and kissed me, I know it was a bit hasty but after a couple of drinks we went back to his place and sparks flew, but I honestly felt a connection..I know what its like to have a one night stand and this felt different, there was a lot of kissing and cuddling and eye gazing (ooooo!).

The next morning I was a little embarrassed and thinking maybe the wine had something to do with what had happened, but he woke up and cuddled me for ages, chatting and stroking my hair and holding hands, it was bliss.

Now at this stage I just want to say as a scorpio I am a realist and I understand maybe it probably meant nothing to him at all, maybe was just for fun. Anyway he didnt want me to leave and I ended up watching movies with him and chilling out until the afternoon!

He has my number and I asked if he had a nice time and would want to see me again and he said "definately" and that he will get in touch to arrange something. He really seemed into me which is so out of the blue as I didnt expect it, he is usually so aloof!

However, this was 2 days ago now and I am yet to receive any form of contact. Now I know cappys like to take things slow which is why it shocked me that he was so impulsive and made all the first moves that night, and that behind closed doors he was so gentle and sensual.

Im a little shell shocked, and to be honest starting to think he is probably not that into me afterall. Are capricorn men usually very very slow movers? Do you think that it sounds like he is likely to be in touch, or does he just see himself as some kind of Don Juan? I dont really get it! And I never usually connect and feel right with someone like that. It scared me how comfortable it felt.

I just hope Im not wrong, us scorps HATE being wrong lol...or wronged in any way 😢

What is it with Caps and hair stroking...they did to get a cat already.

But anyways, I don't think one-night-stands are really their thing so I'm sure he'll call. He's probably just busy. I'd give it until the weekend before you start worrying about it.

But then again, if he doesn't ever call I wouldn't feel disspointed given the circumstances..."like what do you expect?" sort of thing.


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I know I know, its my own fault, I shouldnt have jumped in like I did!

Im not usually like that and I am worried that its made him lose some respect for me, but I did read somewhere that Caps arent into one night stands which is why it seems strange to me.

I know I should have waited 😢 lol...Im tough though and able to switch my emotions off like a lightbulb when I have to, though I do brood under the surface.

Damn scorpio that I am!

I guess what Im wondering, is I know its specific, but has anyone experienced similar and had a cappy get in touch later?

Im already getting ready to forget about it and never look back, I mean Ive had one night stands before in my youth unfortunately which I regret but usually thats different, and you sense that it means nothing. This was weird.

Caps are weird lol.

God Im obsessive! And as for the hair stroking...I KNOW! lol

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I've had a bunch pursue me but I really wasn't into it so it didn't get very far. But I will say I thought they were pretty forward/agressive. They made their intentions pretty clear. But they do get busy.

& when they're busy you won't hear from them

Posted by brianafay
What is it with Caps and hair stroking...they did to get a cat already.

But anyways, I don't think one-night-stands are really their thing so I'm sure he'll call. He's probably just busy. I'd give it until the weekend before you start worrying about it.

But then again, if he doesn't ever call I wouldn't feel disspointed given the circumstances..."like what do you expect?" sort of thing.


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i know, right? my cap male friend/love interest used to stroke my hair as well! we even talked about him getting a cat because of it.

about the one-night stand thing... i will say that all the caps i know aren't into them but i'm pretty sure they're not above it either. actually, the younger and less mature ones i'm sure will dive right in especially if it's during their college aged years. my cap friends have told me that's when they experimented with all kinds of things because i think they were going along with what is expected from kids that age. a cap will engage in FWB deals though. i do know that much. they're not all gung ho about serious relationships until they get their act together in other areas of their life. maybe not so much the girls but the males definitely.