really wanna win back a scorpio bf ...LDR

i really love him....

my bf broke up with me 2 weeks ago. it was only a month ago that he said he'll come visit me in May. And we were talking forver too just two months ago before i went visit him. he's scorpio. we went out for about a year. we talked about the future, even marriage, start a family. We were in long distance relationship.

Ever since i came back home, i felt he neglected me. He said he was really busy, with full time work and MBA course. And i didnt understand his stress, complained too much. I thought i'd give me some space , but he got mad at me for not calling him one night. (i always do). He calld me the next morning and said "if u dont call me, dont expect me to call you". so i was confused...We had a fight and then it led to the breakup. He said i gave him the wrong information and made him look like an idiiot in front of his friends. And i whined about how he doesnt take our relationship seriously too often. he said i've just pushed him to his limits and walked out on him before. i kept saying sorry after he broke up with me. (my side of the story is "he told me before if i feel insecure just tell him. he'll comfort me. i am an insecure person. i need constant attenion from him. but i always let him fucation freely. )

isent some apology gift to his office, he was very happy and called me. He called me baby too(he only calls gf that).so i thought we were okay. past 2 weeks, it's been on and off.. sometimes he'd volunterily tell me where he's going to put me at ease, sometimes he calls me. but he'd go "i appreciate for what you're doing. but you've just gone too far, with the bad thigs u said to me, and you walked out on me many times... u had ur chance". He says he want to play by ear now, yet he promises that he will not date anyone. He said i can always call him and he'd love to chat. but he doesnt wanna talk about "us".
I asked him "how long will it take for him to get over the anger caused by me?" he said "i dont know,weeks, months maybe years...." I just dont know what to do ~~ 😢

I would keep your options open.
LDR's sound so exhausting to begin with, and according to your story, yours seems to have alot of extra issues making it even more of a struggle. Maybe not even worth it? Honestly. It might benefit you to take some time away from the situation and weigh everything out.

Plus, if you're insecure and needy, a LDR is clearly not for you.

he says that i have random temper tantrums.

Like most scorpios, he's brutaly honest so if he doesnt want to have anythng to do with me, he would just say it. I've just been pretnding that we're still together, i still tell him that i miss him and he's everthing to me. I asked him when is he coming to see me, he says "i dont know". and i asked him "do u see the possibility between us" he didnt say no.. am i being over optimistic or that's really a good sign?

so is there any specific suggestions that i can do to try to patch the trust he had in me? i really love him, moving on wouldn't be an option for me 😢

appreciate the advices. thanks guy.

Steph,

He seems to like you but is loosing faith in you. I personally think that you're still in his heart as I don't see why he would promise not to date anyone. He's also very available to you which to me shows that you're in his heart somewhere. Trust means a lot for a Scorpio so until he feels that he can fully trust you again, he is not going to want to talk about your situation but will sure keep an eye your doings, basically observing. I also think that long distance is not the best setting for Scorpios.