Scorpio Men? ADVICE PLEASE

I don't understand them. If you're a male and a scorpio, please give me some insight...

I dated this scorpio last spring and I'm still sprung. He chased me and chased me until I gave in. I wasn't attracted to him at first. I became attracted to him chasing me. Once I surrendered, it just continued to get better and better. We spent every extra minute together. I don't do that, I like my space. But with him it was different. He gave me confidence, structure, insight, completeness. I gave him adventure, playfulness, and attention.

I disappointed him once when I ditched him for dinner. My best friend was going through a breakup and the Aries I am... I just chose to deal with it later instead of being respectful and telling him my change of plans.

He withdrew, built walls, became cold, completely changed his behavior and hasn't been the same since.

I tried discussing my concerns and mentioned solutions. I took his harshness and closed off behavior as him no longer being interested So, the aries in me started acting out and sought attention else where.

We are not together, barely see each other, but still talk often. He's the only guy that I feel, I have been completely into. He told me the same. His harshness hurts my feelings so in order to maintain myself emotionally, I avoid him. I am really trying to get over him and move on. I just can't.

I tried avoiding him for about a month. I recently started talking to him again, (almost every day) and he asked why I wasn't talking to him. I told him the reason and he laughed it off.

I've told him how I feel, what my needs are, and all he says is just give it time. I can do that, if only I knew he honestly felt like time is what its going to take. He makes no initiative, other than doing the inviting, to spend anytime together. I think, all it would take is a few hours spent together to get the feeling back again.

Now talking, almost everyday, we make plans to hangout but they always seem to fall thru, (usually because of him). I don't know if he is just over me or if he is fearful of my intentions.

I truly love him but am at the point of my life that I want more from someone. I don't want to move on if there is still hope but I don't want to continue to wait either.

Just be completely honest with him. It sounds like he's either punishing you or being very careful. Trust doens't come easily to a Scorp and when you blew him off without telling him first you hurt him. You made him feel less important then your friend. Scorps are sensitive and very self absorbed. We want you to put us before everyone else.

If you want to be with him know that you will have to "check in" and let him know your every move for awhile until he sees your patterns and the trust between you is built up. It's exhausting I know😢 But if anyone can do it an Aries is that person.

Keep persistant about hanging out if you think that's all it'll take to get you guys back on track. If you SHOW him he will see you mean it.

One major rule... BE HONEST AT ALL TIMES! Scorps HATE Liars and people they cant trust. When you think you know it all, you dont! If you blow them off or lie to them, consider the relationship OVER, Unless you guys have kids and have been together A LONG TIME and he has already had your trust. Which i am guessing that doesnt apply to your situation. Good luck!

I apologized for everything, through a text. Maybe not the smartest way of handling it but I didn't want to interrupt him in the middle of the night. I'm waiting to hear back from him... I don't know if he will even reply back or call. But at least I got the guilt off of my chest.

I appreciate all the reply's and advice.

Thanks!