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Hey, I am a 25 year old Scandinavian girl (please excuse my writing), who wants some tips on following; What do you men want/see in your (dream) woman/find attractive/how should she behave/look like - outside/inner qualities etc.? I am beeing pursued by a 35 year old libra male who seems very fascinated by me, because I seem so real he says (scorpio I'm afraid)! But he makes me a little unshure of him (I have now withdrawn myself a bit, but this he just seem to like even more!). Therefor I would appreciate som tips on this (please just answer my questions the best you can)... Also want to know how a typical libraman acts when he is inlove... Just want to add that I'm not afraid of beeing just me, but in this state of mind, I'm a little confused/curious/insecure... You know, love does that to people:-) Thank you everybody in advance:-)

Hello, i read your post before. If you are being 'pursued' by the guy he must really like you!!!

Ok, Im not a libra male but Im a libra female with a few libra male friends along the way so i will help as much as possible.

I think you should be yourself. If you are a scorpio they are strong and provide the strength a libran needs be.

Librans also like comedy and humour so if you have these, which most scorpios do, then let it rip in a big way. Make him smile.

Librans can come across as aloof at times, this may mean he has something on his mind. Librans are a 'mental' sign so can get quite involved in their own heads; all it means is that he may be fixated on something else such as work, home or he may be analysing plain old life.

What a libran male likes in a female/partner? They like strength, vivacity, confidence and yes, reality. Just be yourself, you sound sure of yourself, confident and strong; you shouldnt have anything to worry about.

If he is telling you you are 'real' then you are on the right track. He's letting you know he likes you. I am a libran and i like 'real' people...!

If you want to go the extra mile, turn on that scorpio charm and give him one last dazzle. Let him know you mean business and that you wont take 'no' for an answer.

The bottom line is if it 'feels' right then go for it. If it doesnt, there will be someone else waiting for you.

Good luck and let us know how you go.

Also, hopefully some scorpois will see this and answer.

Thank you very much for your attention and advices!

Yes, we (I) do use a lot of humour in our realationship, so that part is working just fine... guess I am on the right track than, but more tips are wanted... even things/subjects that you libras dont like in other people (maybe that I should avoid doing now in the beginning). :-)

Your a Scorpio—

1.DON'T GET JEALOUS!!
2.DON'T SHOW ANY FORM OF JEALOUSY IN FRONT OF HIM OR HE WILL RUN
3. DON'T BE SECRETIVE--HE'LL HATE THAT
(Librans like communication)
4.DON'T PLAY WITH HIS EMOTIONS!! (i.e. don't be manipulative)
5.DON'T GIVE HIM THE "SILENT TREATMENT" IF HE UPSETS YOU. RELATIONSHIPS TAKE TIME.
6.DON'T LIE!
7.DON'T CRITICIZE HIM.
8.DON'T FLY OFF THE HANDLE IF SOMETHING UPSETS YOU OR IF A PLAN YOU MAKE WITH HIM DOESN'T WORK OUT.
9.DON'T BE VINDICTIVE (YES I HAVE TO ADD THIS ONE)
10. DON'T BE UNKIND.
11. BE TRUE AND HONEST WITH YOURSELF AND HIM AT ALL TIMES.

Hello

I read your message and all the replies. I wish I had a chance to read them before my relationship with a Libra man. They love laugh and a vivid kind of life including sports and especially art events. They tend to be on a quiet side sometimes, involved with their thoughts but they really do not mean anything personally. They are just laied back and at easy and if they look that way a simple humour would bring them back. My best friedn is a Libra female and she knows a lot about Libra. They love relationships even if sometimes they do not seem involved with the person they have a relationship with. They have many friends and they are very at easy with anything. When they are up to their best they have incredible energies. They are also very good lovers and they will try to please the other person if it takes all night. The tend to flirt with other women but is just a sense to be constantly approved and praised and nothing to worry about. They like to persue their relationships and if they like who they found they will go to any extent to reach for that person, even if the relationship is a long distance relationship, they will drive the distance. A journey with a Libra is alot of fun.

Yeah, id like to reinforce what 64 said.

Dont be secretive, we hate that. Be open and communicate as much as you can. Librans genuinely like to help people and if you dont say what is on your mind, he won't be able to fix it for you.

what 216 said about the arts, this is true. We love artistic stuff, art galleries, good films etc...

I say keep the sense of humour up, we love that. If you want a really good tip, look stunning next time you see him (i know this is superficial but librans of both sexes love their mate to look stunning).

What to talk about? Current issues are a good one, his past, his childhood, what he was like at school (this always gets us going!!!), what his childhood dreams were, what his dreams for the future are, what he would love to do tomorrow...

We love music too; it is an integral part of our lives so if you are dining at home with him pay particular attention to the music. It may also be a good point of discussion (his favourite bands, music style etc...).

Wow, if i think of anymore i will let you know.

He's pretty lucky having someone go this far out of their way for him 🙂

Again; thanks everybody for exciting and interesting advices!

There are still a few things I'm curious about, and that is TEASING... can it be to much of this (positive way)? As said before we both have the same humour, but espescial I use irony/sarcasm alot when i flirt, so do you people get easylie offended? Again, please excuse my language - hope you understand what I meen:-) Also want to add that we have a longdistance realationship - so far so good, we seem to have an amazing "connection/chemestrie" - wrong spelling, I now (we will soon be meeting again - only met two times before), so there are much talking on the phone, lots of excitement, so now we really miss each other (yes, we have had sex - couldn't get any better)............ all I want to do (if/when I find out that he is really serious about this/me - I'm a little sceptic by nature), is to make him totally crazy and inlove with me!!!!:-) What do you people think; can his feelings run deep / is he in contact with his emotions / would he bother having contact with me, or even see me again if he wasn't in love, or is he just plain and simple a little bit interested and nothing more? Everything is so fresh and new now, so it's not easy to really know for sure about these things, yet... looking forward to everbodys replay - more "love-tips" are wanted!:-)

Its funny but Libra men seem to break all those rules.

i know..lol well..the libra man that i knew..lied, was secretive, jealous, and mostly all those things..funny how that is. lol.

Yes... they can be assholes too.

HAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA!!! GOOD ONE!

I CAN BE TOO! BUT USUALLY I'M JUST TRYING TO TELL IT LIKE IT IS!

Damn it, I am at the wrong site again!!! This is suppose to be about Libra men!!!

I don't know where the hell I am anymore! Oh, tough s**t does anyone really care?
Lib chic

Hey libras... play nice.
ahem =)

OK! We were having fun; we were not being mean! Did it really come off that way?? If it did, it was not at all intended!!! Hope you have a great weekend!!!!
Lib chic

Who is this 'we' I meant me! I am being driven crazy! I am going outside to play!!! C U later and love to everybody!!!!!!

Ok. I am a Virgo female and I really like a Libra male. I am the jelous type and he's seen this side of me...he, unfortunatley says that I'm not the one for him now and he's dating other people. I also did something horrible lately and went into his email account. Needless to say, he is pissed! We kind-of dated for five years and there were so many good times too. He is also living long distance. Is there anything I can do to get him back? Please help.

Everyone is "unregistered" because back in the day you were allowed to post without a user name (boy am I glad that changed! lol)

just thought I'd jump in and let ya know 🙂

Hey virgo-tlh, im a libra female and i have deep feelings. It depends where his other planets are. Look for his moon and his venus (that was 'venus', not 'penis', hehe). Oh well, look for his penis too, im sure that will help.

But seriously, his venus and moon are the two planets that rule the emotions.

The thing about librans is that we do love the chase but i, for one, am getting too old for that. We like strong, dominating people, who are sure of themselves.

Best of luck,
Libragirl.