So, how does one win you over and does it mesh with your sun, moon, and venus? What is the key to reaching your heart? I'm curious how this varies with the different signs, or if it really does. Human nature vs. individual personality.
The Key to Your Heart
Posted by MoonArtist
What is the key to reaching your heart?
Based on some of my exes... be a lunatic whack job lol.
Cap Sun/Taurus Moon/Pisces Venus
I have no heart to win
Lots of people are weak. They project this weakness, indulge in this weakness and pray upon the weakness in others.
This heart doesn't have faith in people. Basic compassion and decency is becoming more uncommon daily. Others will hold you to their standards, their needs and demand you full fill their wants. When looked to reciprocate, they will insult you, shame you for needing them and leave you to suffer or your own.
This childish weakness is something all humans must deal with, but I can't stand to have someone that selfish and weak to stand anyway near my heart.
In the end, I give freely with as little to not expectation as possible. This world owes you nothing. People don't have show you any sort of compassion or mercy. Either you learn to give yourself the love you need or you suffer the hell known as "other people."
I am a weak soul, yet am strong enough to see how I really am. Others run from that kind off reflection till they die.
I have no heart to win
Lots of people are weak. They project this weakness, indulge in this weakness and pray upon the weakness in others.
This heart doesn't have faith in people. Basic compassion and decency is becoming more uncommon daily. Others will hold you to their standards, their needs and demand you full fill their wants. When looked to reciprocate, they will insult you, shame you for needing them and leave you to suffer or your own.
This childish weakness is something all humans must deal with, but I can't stand to have someone that selfish and weak to stand anyway near my heart.
In the end, I give freely with as little to not expectation as possible. This world owes you nothing. People don't have show you any sort of compassion or mercy. Either you learn to give yourself the love you need or you suffer the hell known as "other people."
I am a weak soul, yet am strong enough to see how I really am. Others run from that kind off reflection till they die.
Posted by arietteheart2Posted by TMVPosted by MoonArtist
What is the key to reaching your heart?
Based on some of my exes... be a lunatic whack job lol.
Can I get a amen!!!!!!!!click to expand
rofl...ok, and now that you're wiser?
Interesting, it seems the earth signs do have a good representation that matches the sign personality.
Posted by MoonArtist
Interesting, it seems the earth signs do have a good representation that matches the sign personality.
Let it sink it catlady astrologers pair water off to earth.
I think water signs treetrunked really bad and that was her revenge.
Posted by CluelessCancerPosted by SirHorns
Let it sink it catlady astrologers pair water off to earth.
I think water signs treetrunked really bad and that was her revenge.
Water signs only want to devote themselves to you....
while controlling you.
what's the problem with this?click to expand
...how do these signs get action again and not die alone?
Posted by SirHornsPosted by CluelessCancerPosted by SirHorns
Let it sink it catlady astrologers pair water off to earth.
I think water signs treetrunked really bad and that was her revenge.
Water signs only want to devote themselves to you....
while controlling you.
what's the problem with this?
...how do these signs get action again and not die alone?click to expand
What, water signs? lol
SirHorns....not aimless, just not as uptight.
Banter/Wit/Sarcasm/Dark humor/Any type of humor
I bond through humor first. Then quality time...fun experiences. Let's run together in the rain etc. Teach me something, I'll teach you something. Let's trade stories. I'm interested about what makes you, you..what experiences you had, what are your passions..what keeps you alive. If we're vibing on the same wave length, it will come naturally.
With me, things just click or they don't. It's mostly organic, I feel it within. I just..stumble into love. Like I get along so well with this person and they're kind and considerate and suddenly it hits me that I want their company in my life. So I stick around and we'll see where it goes.
I bond through humor first. Then quality time...fun experiences. Let's run together in the rain etc. Teach me something, I'll teach you something. Let's trade stories. I'm interested about what makes you, you..what experiences you had, what are your passions..what keeps you alive. If we're vibing on the same wave length, it will come naturally.
With me, things just click or they don't. It's mostly organic, I feel it within. I just..stumble into love. Like I get along so well with this person and they're kind and considerate and suddenly it hits me that I want their company in my life. So I stick around and we'll see where it goes.
Posted by MoonArtist
SirHorns....not aimless, just not as uptight.
No tension = no energy = no action.
Cardinal Signs are instigating signs after all.
If all four lost that edge, they would be miserable.
Posted by SirHornsPosted by MoonArtist
SirHorns....not aimless, just not as uptight.
No tension = no energy = no action.
Cardinal Signs are instigating signs after all.
If all four lost that edge, they would be miserable.click to expand
This is true, but I think each of the cardinals is focused in instigating and driving in different areas.
Oh and the Sun deals with the humor but my Moon plays a role in the whole action that unfolds. A huge one. Cancer Venus nails my feelings..the moment I'm going...omg-I-think-you-caught-a-cold-I-am-going-to-your-house-and-preparing-you-the-best-chicken-soup-ever..you'll know I'm smitten.
Posted by CluelessCancerPosted by Damnata
Oh and the Sun deals with the humor but my Moon plays a role in the whole action that unfolds. A huge one. Cancer Venus nails my feelings..the moment I'm going...omg-I-think-you-caught-a-cold-I-am-going-to-your-house-and-preparing-you-the-best-chicken-soup-ever..you'll know I'm smitten.
I think your moon makes you more approachable and more willing to engage then passive. What Moons can Virgos have?
Which one is the lame one?click to expand
All the moons.
Well let me put it like this..the Virgo Sun/Taurus Moon chick I knew...completely destroyed my Scorpio friend. He was into her 100% (Scorpio Sun/Scorpio Moon) and she cheated and left this country with items of his and money. So..yeah, not thrilled on Virgo Suns/Taurus Moons.
It just dawned me my 2 longest relationships...both had Sun trine Moon. Cap Sun/Taurus Moon, Aries Sun/Sagittarius Moon. Both had fiery charts.
I think you'd do really well with a Fire Moon..you have as much fire in your chart as I do. Taurus and Scorpio men really really like Cancer chicks so one of those signs with a fire moon? Or at least some fire in their chart.
Posted by MoonArtistPosted by SirHornsPosted by MoonArtist
SirHorns....not aimless, just not as uptight.
No tension = no energy = no action.
Cardinal Signs are instigating signs after all.
If all four lost that edge, they would be miserable.
This is true, but I think each of the cardinals is focused in instigating and driving in different areas.click to expand
They do.
You rob a controlling person of their power by not obeying or submitting to them.
Unlike being at the mercy of Fixed sign stubbornness and watching mutables leave you.
Cardinal signs only have as much power as you give them.
Posted by SirHorns
and watching mutables leave you.
No.
I dated more cardinals than any other group. I kept things going more than they did, which is not me implying they don't put forth energy into it. Then again my chart is almost 50-50 between cardinal and mutable energy. With my lack of fixed, I should cheat like no tomorrow lol.
Surprise, surprised..I don't.
Cardinals are smooth operators though, especially cardinal earth and water 😄. I got your number.
Cap can also work, it's your fire moon having fun running into a wall. Again and again.
I get the appeal of the challenge with Capricorn Men.
I get the appeal of the challenge with Capricorn Men.
Posted by DamnataPosted by SirHorns
and watching mutables leave you.
No.
I dated more cardinals than any other group. I kept things going more than they did, which is not me implying they don't put forth energy into it. Then again my chart is almost 50-50 between cardinal and mutable energy. With my lack of fixed, I should cheat like no tomorrow lol.
Surprise, surprised..I don't.
Cardinals are smooth operators though, especially cardinal earth and water 😄. I got your number.click to expand
Then call before me cardinal placements call you.
I have to spin them around til they get dizzy and pass out to keep them from doing things and starting stuff.
Also, ha. Goats and Crabs as smooth operators? They're the parent axis of the zodiac. Tch, probs all in bed by 9 (and not home till midnight).
Posted by MoonArtist
So, how does one win you over and does it mesh with your sun, moon, and venus? What is the key to reaching your heart? I'm curious how this varies with the different signs, or if it really does. Human nature vs. individual personality.
Libra Sun /Taurus Moon / Scorpio Venus
1) I love pleasure and I love sharing it. (Taurus?)
Although that reads as very ambiguous, it's really not. If a man's words/gestures/actions bring me pleasure (emotional, physical, intellectual) I'm going to like him. BUT it's important he takes pleasure -- genuine pleasure -- in the same.
2) I need to be able to trust and respect a man before I can love him. (Libra?)
THAT'S a toughie and many men probably can't measure up because I take a long time getting to know a person before I even think of him as more than a casual acquaintance. A few dates just isn't enough time/space for me to decide if someone is loveable and if there's a place for him long-term in my life, etc.
3) I need to feel emotionally bonded with a man before I feel comfortable expressing love or becoming physically intimate (Scorpio?)
Honestly, if I don't feel emotional "chemistry" with someone, they're never going to "fit" in my personal circle even on more casual terms. Emotional chemistry and closeness leads to sexual desire for me.
Posted by TMVPosted by MoonArtist
What is the key to reaching your heart?
Based on some of my exes... be a lunatic whack job lol.click to expand
Oh Yeah DEF! ^^^^
Posted by CluelessCancerPosted by SirHornsPosted by MoonArtist
Interesting, it seems the earth signs do have a good representation that matches the sign personality.
Let it sink it catlady astrologers pair water off to earth.
I think water signs treetrunked really bad and that was her revenge.
Water signs only want to devote themselves to you....
while controlling you....
click to expand
lol I noticed.
🙂
Posted by SirHornsPosted by MoonArtistPosted by SirHornsPosted by MoonArtist
SirHorns....not aimless, just not as uptight.
No tension = no energy = no action.
Cardinal Signs are instigating signs after all.
If all four lost that edge, they would be miserable.
This is true, but I think each of the cardinals is focused in instigating and driving in different areas.
They do.
You rob a controlling person of their power by not obeying or submitting to them.
Unlike being at the mercy of Fixed sign stubbornness and watching mutables leave you.
Cardinal signs only have as much power as you give them.click to expand
Well, that makes for a pickle. Most guys don't want to give control to a woman, and fixed signs are very stubborn.
Posted by scorchedearth
venus in aries is very hard on venus in scorpio. everything about us makes you guys insecure and feel bad about things. and worry we're always going to take off and leave you. and a lot of times we break venus in scorpio hearts. and once we're gone it takes forever and a day for you guys to move past it. and it seems like we never really cared at all. which isn't true. i avoid dating venus in scorpio girls because i know i'd just hurt them. water venus in general is a bad idea for me though.
I totally understand that. This happened to me when a lady with the same Venus wanted exactly the same thing from me, but I was more inclined to have our friendship. At this time, I made a synastry and guess what? My Mars (in Aries) was in a tight quincunx with her Venus. Then I've decided not to bother her exactly for that reason. I really wanted nothing more but friendship. Unfortunately, however, she was too selfish and egocentric (Scorpio in the 1st house stellium), and she chose to be a slave of her desires instead. Then I made my own choice and I moved forward to another direction.
Posted by scorchedearthwater venus in general is a bad idea for me though.click to expand
Same here. That's why I'm with an Airy-fairy Venus lady. I really appreciate rational and logical approach even in relationships. Spontaneity as well.
Btw, I have a very good opinion about Venus in Aries. A friend of mine has this and she likes it when we're playfully fighting with each other, lol.
Posted by Impulsv
Wierd his bride venus is in scorp too
She is sag sun n moon n mars.
Maybe tha mars in sag helps.
They do. Especially if they semi-sextile her Venus.
This would explain why my ex Taurus sun/gem moon/aries venus didn't mesh with my cancer sun/moon/leo venus. Also, he has zero water in his chart and I have zero earth.
Apparently by being completely unavailable while saying absolutely little and giving almost nothing. *Sigh*
Posted by Impulsv
What I told Taurus is after the chase what do u have when u settle down u can't keep chasing n running whole married he'll be bored
Might just be me I don't get bored but others would get bored of me.
I've always been looking for my father-artistic (he was a visual artist/now in spirit), highly intelligent, political (grew up discussing politics over the dinner table) and manly (likes to take control and solve problems). Problem is those are some huge shoes to fill and I know it's not reasonable to expect for all that from a man, unless he's certifiably crazy. Crazy could work if he wasn't poor as a church mouse LOL. Seriously, what attracts me is very odd and it's one of those "know it when I feel it" moments. Of course even then....🙂
why would u tell complete strangers ur most personal information
Posted by staelz
why would u tell complete strangers ur most personal information
So they can seduce you and steal your heart away.
Don't got one, so I'm safe. 😄
Posted by MoonArtist
So, how does one win you over and does it mesh with your sun, moon, and venus? What is the key to reaching your heart? I'm curious how this varies with the different signs, or if it really does. Human nature vs. individual personality.
Too vague Madame Crab 😛
I'm just teasing, but I honestly can't answer this question as it stands. The people that have been close enough to my heart actually surprised me when they did it. They gave me something I didn't even know I needed, so....
Posted by Damnata
...suddenly it hits me that I want their company in my life. So I stick around and we'll see where it goes.
*nod head*
Posted by PhoenixRisingPosted by MoonArtist
So, how does one win you over and does it mesh with your sun, moon, and venus? What is the key to reaching your heart? I'm curious how this varies with the different signs, or if it really does. Human nature vs. individual personality.
Too vague Madame Crab 😛click to expand
rofl....I shall endeavor to be MORE vague 😉
Posted by GGPosted by MoonArtist
So, how does one win you over and does it mesh with your sun, moon, and venus? What is the key to reaching your heart? I'm curious how this varies with the different signs, or if it really does. Human nature vs. individual personality.
Hmmmm... how is individual personality different from human nature?
click to expand
Simple, we all have human nature at our core: the need to be loved, to give love, to have basic needs met. We all react to pain, feeling good, stimuli. Our individual personalities are what make us different in how we react to things, what importance we place on certain traits, etc.
Posted by staelz
why would u tell complete strangers ur most personal information
It isn't the most personal information, but it does allow people to learn and grow, to think and to expand their understanding.
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