The Truth about Venus

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In love, Venus to Venus shows how you consider the other person and how they consider you. Their actions may not be in sync with your perception of them.

For instance, when Venus is trine Venus, there is unmistakable love between these people. They see who they want to see in each other and just settle into it.

When Venus is square Venus, there is a love-hate quality that drives them both up a wall.

Venus opp Venus hardly find each other attractive in the first place.

Barring all other influences, that is.
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In the natal chart, it shows quite a lot of things. Whatever Venus touches or wherever it is located might show how you intend to succeed.

Venus in the 12th might mean that you think, maybe, nursing will make you a success. It might not be true for the current business world and material ideal, but hey...

Sometimes, people with Venus in the 12th might continue to strive for something that remains elusive to them all their lives. Usually love. Their notion of it is unsatisfiable by any living human being.
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A few astrological facts.

Venus doesn't make you do anything. Its an inactive planet.
Scorp Venusians will bury me alive for this, but Venus is inactive in astro.

As Mars is the opposite of Venus, mars does where Venus does not do.

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In the natal chart, it shows quite a lot of things. Whatever Venus touches or wherever it is located might show how you intend to succeed....
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Interesting stuff. 🙂

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Venus is very very strong as a planet. It's inaction but inside it's SMOULDERING.

if you look inside the planet of venus, it's hot, and super tropical, you'd die of the intense heat inside, it's what's called a hot house of a greenhouse. all enclosed and explosive, you can feel it's energy, it's very powerful. (what i've learned in my astronomy classes too)

it doesn't need to pursue like mars, (assertion) because the energy itself is so strong you can feel the heat.
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A few astrological facts.

Venus doesn't make you do anything. Its an inactive planet.
Scorp Venusians will bury me alive for this, but Venus is inactive in astro.

As Mars is the opposite of Venus, mars does where Venus does not do.

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In the natal chart, it shows quite a lot of things. Whatever Venus touches or wherever it is located might show how you intend to succeed....

Interesting stuff. 🙂

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Make that 'how' 'where'

Mars will show 'how' rather.

Thanks for drawing my attention to that. :-)
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IThey see who they want to see in each other
...this sounds like a breeding ground for delusion. How much of it seeps into actual love...especially since love has an element of fantasy to it. There needs to be a check with the reality of how the other person is...and not how you feel they are.

I see this a lot with water venus. Projections all the way.

At its best, it's soothing and in sync. Every small thing is meaningful, the je ne sais quoi is strong. Good emotional flow/bonding.

At its worst...the reality of both partners gets completely lost in the fog of all the romance. You end up loving someone in spite of their reality to continue the fairytale, not because of their reality.

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IThey see who they want to see in each other
...this sounds like a breeding ground for delusion. How much of it seeps into actual love...especially since love has an element of fantasy to it. There needs to be a check with the reality of how the other person is...and not how you feel they are.

I see this a lot with water venus. Projections all the way.

At its best, it's soothing and in sync. Every small thing is meaningful, the je ne sais quoi is strong. Good emotional flow/bonding.

At its worst...the reality of both partners gets completely lost in the fog of all the romance. You end up loving someone in spite of their reality to continue the fairytale, not because of their reality.

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Venus is a benefic. Its doesn't concern itself with practical / Saturnian matters.

But, I don't mean that statement as becoming delusioned... Which is why I gave the example. You like red, you see red, you like it. If you both like tones of red, it flows easily. Yeah?
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IThey see who they want to see in each other
...this sounds like a breeding ground for delusion. How much of it seeps into actual love...especially since love has an element of fantasy to it. There needs to be a check with the reality of how the other person is...and not how you feel they are.

I see this a lot with water venus. Projections all the way.

At its best, it's soothing and in sync. Every small thing is meaningful, the je ne sais quoi is strong. Good emotional flow/bonding.

At its worst...the reality of both partners gets completely lost in the fog of all the romance. You end up loving someone in spite of their reality to continue the fairytale, not because of their reality.
Venus is a benefic. Its doesn't concern itself with practical / Saturnian matters.

But, I don't mean that statement as becoming delusioned... Which is why I gave the example. You like red, you see red, you like it. If you both like tones of red, it flows easily. Yeah?
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Gotcha.

Yeah, tones of red made more sense. 🙂 (i am a virgo sun, one can only ask so much from me lol)

Since they feel like you, but are not actually you.
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In love, Venus to Venus shows how you consider the other person and how they consider you. Their actions may not be in sync with your perception of them.

For instance, when Venus is trine Venus, there is unmistakable love between these people. They see who they want to see in each other and just settle into it.

When Venus is square Venus, there is a love-hate quality that drives them both up a wall.

Venus opp Venus hardly find each other attractive in the first place.

Barring all other influences, that is.
This is with natal charts, correct?
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Yes.
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I don't see my venus in gemini in relationships.
I think my mars in aries is more important. I know what I want in a man. When I meet a man I can see myself with I have no reservations about pursuing them. When I really like someone, I like them in the most purest sense. I don't really care if they're super ambtioious or not, You live with your parents? Np unless you don't have a job. You're the spawn of rednecks that wave confederate flags and probably have inbreeding in your blood? Well you're nice and sensitive but let's just adopt instead of having kids, okay?
I just want to be with them, I hate when I hear lets slow down.. Especially when they get me invested gah.

I meann JUST LET ME LOVE YOUUUUU.
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jynja don't make me feel bad about my stupid detriment venus. 😐
aw don't worry! Abraham Lincoln had a ton of detriments, and he had Aries Venus and they still reverred him one of the greatest Presidents of the U.S, and even made a Lincoln Memorial of him as a grand symbol of freedom.
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He also was assassinated.

Js
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not really. i'm exactly the opposite of what these women would want. they're all playful and carefree and funny. and i have a little emo raincloud of doom over my head. i explain it like i'm an eeyore dating tigger's. no clue what it is about me that they like. you'd assume nothing. but attraction is not rational. so it is what it is.
They are attracted to the gloomy cloud. The eighth house Venus is attracted to the mystery. Perhaps, they wonder why you are not happy go lucky like they are.
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jynja don't make me feel bad about my stupid detriment venus. 😐
aw don't worry! Abraham Lincoln had a ton of detriments, and he had Aries Venus and they still reverred him one of the greatest Presidents of the U.S, and even made a Lincoln Memorial of him as a grand symbol of freedom.

He also was assassinated.

Js
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Let's not even get into his drunkard ass and his hypocritical interpretation of slavery.
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jynja don't make me feel bad about my stupid detriment venus. 😐
aw don't worry! Abraham Lincoln had a ton of detriments, and he had Aries Venus and they still reverred him one of the greatest Presidents of the U.S, and even made a Lincoln Memorial of him as a grand symbol of freedom.
Lincoln - Venus in Aries 7.28
United States - Venus in Cancer 3.05

Orb - 4.23
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US was a smothering keep-you-in-chains type, lincoln wasn't a fan. had a complicated relationship.
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the venus in aries venus in cancer square makes me cut myself at night. please god no more. no placement except MOON in cancer makes me feel more like an overly aggressive asshole. both are attracted to me though for god knows what reason.

i actually feel bad a lot of the time because of moon in cancer. i have to be extra super careful. because just talking will make them cry.

it's my mercury that does it. probably.
I had the pleasure of a short liaison with an Aries moon. God! Such energetic interactions. But, yeah, I felt like I caused him to walk on egg shells. Moon sq moon.
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the thing is aries placements shouldn't go off half cocked anyway. we should be more aware of what we're saying and how we're saying it.

but most signs give us a pass.

it's just with cancer placements it's like there's a magnifying glass to all of our worst qualities. stressful for me. but i do enjoy them and am friends with a bunch. i just feel bad when i'm a little too excited and cause them to get their feelings hurt.
We are made of sterner stuff, you know? 🙂
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jynja don't make me feel bad about my stupid detriment venus. 😐
aw don't worry! Abraham Lincoln had a ton of detriments, and he had Aries Venus and they still reverred him one of the greatest Presidents of the U.S, and even made a Lincoln Memorial of him as a grand symbol of freedom.

He also was assassinated.

Js
Let's not even get into his drunkard ass and his hypocritical interpretation of slavery.
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pff you naysayers. no one is perfect. George washington was also reverred as the one of the best presidents too.