Scorps, do you think I've made a BIG NO-NO?

Posted by Rabbit

Hahahahahaagoaaagaha

Feeling it

haha fuck you all people really! that's so much for expecting compassion you bitches! 😐 but I feel like a little better it's more funny than mortifying 😢

Posted by Rabbit

you asshole!!! fuck you!! grrrrrr >_

@degenerate_ingenue

it could go either way. it depends. if people try to get pity out of me i am automatically turned off and find them repulsive. if you somewhat maintained composure and didn't sound like you were wallowing in self-pity and seeking his pity then you are fine.

Fraternizing with a married man is foolish though. Don't play with fire if you don't want to get burned. Unless he has an absolutely dreadful and terrible marriage, it is futile to chase him. Any man can go astray when married no matter the sign, but if the marriage is alright they usually go back to it if they are loyal and care about their spouse, leaving whatever person they used when going astray behind. You are inducing your own pain.

I understand your statements to him as I have felt that at many times in my own life regarding love and not finding love. Never lower yourself for anyone and don't allow yourself to be used. You will find the love you deserve but right now you are definitely NOT looking in the right places. Look for someone who is single who can actually give you what you want and need. This guy will never be able to fully give you what you want while he is married.

@Wynter

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That was your big sag mouth talking

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@Lyse

I honestly cant believe you expected sympathy from Scorpio men and women in a situation like this. My aunt is a Scorp and she would've ate you alive the minute you mentioned him being married. Remember this sign is alll about loyalty. You are demonstrating you have no loyalty, to yourself. And if you aren't loyal to yourself, how can he ever trust you to be loyal to him.
Scorps like strong, sweet, independent women. She should not be too strong to challenge his masculinity, but strong enough to stand up for herself and respect herself. He does not like sluts, or whores (not saying you are one, just saying). A woman that's not easily touched, smooth and polished with a hint of mystery is sure to send his heart singing. You start becoming too predictable, emotional, and weak annnnd sorry to say but he steps right over you.

Posted by degenerate_ingenue
it could go either way. it depends. if people try to get pity out of me i am automatically turned off and find them repulsive. if you somewhat maintained composure and didn't sound like you were wallowing in self-pity and seeking his pity then you are fine.

Fraternizing with a married man is foolish though. Don't play with fire if you don't want to get burned. Unless he has an absolutely dreadful and terrible marriage, it is futile to chase him. Any man can go astray when married no matter the sign, but if the marriage is alright they usually go back to it if they are loyal and care about their spouse, leaving whatever person they used when going astray behind. You are inducing your own pain.

I understand your statements to him as I have felt that at many times in my own life regarding love and not finding love. Never lower yourself for anyone and don't allow yourself to be used. You will find the love you deserve but right now you are definitely NOT looking in the right places. Look for someone who is single who can actually give you what you want and need. This guy will never be able to fully give you what you want while he is married.

it's a smart answer. yeah I made it clear I was never gonna make it physical or anything else. I always was clear he was like a friend to me but he always pushes his limit and tries to talk dirty to me. I think I've been having a rough year and kinda frustrated with my love life so I thought this would be like a guilty pleasure, not proud of it, but just feels nice to have someone adoring you know.

Posted by Lyse
I honestly cant believe you expected sympathy from Scorpio men and women in a situation like this. My aunt is a Scorp and she would've ate you alive the minute you mentioned him being married. Remember this sign is alll about loyalty. You are demonstrating you have no loyalty, to yourself. And if you aren't loyal to yourself, how can he ever trust you to be loyal to him.
Scorps like strong, sweet, independent women. She should not be too strong to challenge his masculinity, but strong enough to stand up for herself and respect herself. He does not like sluts, or whores (not saying you are one, just saying). A woman that's not easily touched, smooth and polished with a hint of mystery is sure to send his heart singing. You start becoming too predictable, emotional, and weak annnnd sorry to say but he steps right over you.

as much as I hate your answer I agree with it .I don't care any more of what he thinks, after all this is the only call I've even talked to him, even when he begged to talk. I never did, also he should stop trying to stray, after all it's his fault too and we all have our crosses to bear.

Thanks for a life lesson though. it's true not just for scorp I guess all men like strong women that respects herself, mysterious and smooth unfortunately I'm not gonna be able to be all that for a good while now that I lost my job, my friends are away, no love and I'm getting fat so sheesh I can fuck my finger till then, sorry it's not me, my frustration talking here.

YES I've made a big no-no, but I'M GONNA LIVE WITH IT! PEACE.

Posted by Lyse
I honestly cant believe you expected sympathy from Scorpio men and women in a situation like this. My aunt is a Scorp and she would've ate you alive the minute you mentioned him being married. Remember this sign is alll about loyalty. You are demonstrating you have no loyalty, to yourself. And if you aren't loyal to yourself, how can he ever trust you to be loyal to him.
Scorps like strong, sweet, independent women. She should not be too strong to challenge his masculinity, but strong enough to stand up for herself and respect herself. He does not like sluts, or whores (not saying you are one, just saying). A woman that's not easily touched, smooth and polished with a hint of mystery is sure to send his heart singing. You start becoming too predictable, emotional, and weak annnnd sorry to say but he steps right over you.

Um... the married Scorpio guy hanging out with single

women is demonstrating loyalty?

lol

I bet there are plenty of Scorp men who like sluts. 😄

Posted by Rabbit
This isn't an attack on you...really it's not....but you'll never attract a (good) Scorpio with that attitude.

It's too defeatist.

Grab life by the scrotum and make it your manbitch.

hmm I understand that rabbit. hahaha lol manbitch,

Oh, the Scorpio board isn't so bad 😄

Posted by princessacancersagittaire

Posted by Lyse
I honestly cant believe you expected sympathy from Scorpio men and women in a situation like this. My aunt is a Scorp and she would've ate you alive the minute you mentioned him being married. Remember this sign is alll about loyalty. You are demonstrating you have no loyalty, to yourself. And if you aren't loyal to yourself, how can he ever trust you to be loyal to him.
Scorps like strong, sweet, independent women. She should not be too strong to challenge his masculinity, but strong enough to stand up for herself and respect herself. He does not like sluts, or whores (not saying you are one, just saying). A woman that's not easily touched, smooth and polished with a hint of mystery is sure to send his heart singing. You start becoming too predictable, emotional, and weak annnnd sorry to say but he steps right over you.

as much as I hate your answer I agree with it .I don't care any more of what he thinks, after all this is the only call I've even talked to him, even when he begged to talk. I never did, also he should stop trying to stray, after all it's his fault too and we all have our crosses to bear.

Thanks for a life lesson though. it's true not just for scorp I guess all men like strong women that respects herself, mysterious and smooth unfortunately I'm not gonna be able to be all that for a good while now that I lost my job, my friends are away, no love and I'm getting fat so sheesh I can fuck my finger till then, sorry it's not me, my frustration talking here.

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Your poor finger 😢

Scorpions are big cheaters, sex sex and more sex ya know?

Don't be used, you deserve better I'm sure.

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Posted by princessacancersagittaire

Posted by Lyse
I honestly cant believe you expected sympathy from Scorpio men and women in a situation like this. My aunt is a Scorp and she would've ate you alive the minute you mentioned him being married. Remember this sign is alll about loyalty. You are demonstrating you have no loyalty, to yourself. And if you aren't loyal to yourself, how can he ever trust you to be loyal to him.
Scorps like strong, sweet, independent women. She should not be too strong to challenge his masculinity, but strong enough to stand up for herself and respect herself. He does not like sluts, or whores (not saying you are one, just saying). A woman that's not easily touched, smooth and polished with a hint of mystery is sure to send his heart singing. You start becoming too predictable, emotional, and weak annnnd sorry to say but he steps right over you.

as much as I hate your answer I agree with it .I don't care any more of what he thinks, after all this is the only call I've even talked to him, even when he begged to talk. I never did, also he should stop trying to stray, after all it's his fault too and we all have our crosses to bear.

Thanks for a life lesson though. it's true not just for scorp I guess all men like strong women that respects herself, mysterious and smooth unfortunately I'm not gonna be able to be all that for a good while now that I lost my job, my friends are away, no love and I'm getting fat so sheesh I can fuck my finger till then, sorry it's not me, my frustration talking here.

Exercise will help you feel better ie endorphins and help you lose weight therefore feeling attractive and able to attract the opposite sex of single men. It does not cost a thing. When I was unemployed, walking saved my sanity and helped me lose weight!! I got my sexy figure back and now I'm hot again... You can do it!!

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oh god then I should get and out do that! if life had a gun it's point blank at me now!

sexy figure, good for u busyeyes 😉

Your poor finger 😢

Don't worry it was only a figure of speech, I'm not gross. and I'm learning scorpio aren't really that bad when you need them 🙂 look at this board, when the first comments arrived I was convinced this was gonna be a verbal hell.

@scorpiothebadass

Posted by aquapiscescusp
Scorpions are big cheaters, sex sex and more sex ya know?

Whats wrong to want sex.
Sex is where life is created isnt it?
If you know how to enjoy sex you know how to enjoy life

Posted by Reincarnation

Posted by princessacancersagittaire

Your poor finger 😢

Don't worry it was only a figure of speech, I'm not gross. and I'm learning scorpio aren't really that bad when you need them 🙂 look at this board, when the first comments arrived I was convinced this was gonna be a verbal hell.

I seem to recall that you stated somewhere that you hate Scorpio men.

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yeah bitch and now read what it says, "I'M LEARNING scorpio aren't really that bad when you need them " so what now I'm not allowed to like them?
fuck you I like them! lol 🙂

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Posted by Reincarnation

Posted by princessacancersagittaire

Your poor finger 😢

Don't worry it was only a figure of speech, I'm not gross. and I'm learning scorpio aren't really that bad when you need them 🙂 look at this board, when the first comments arrived I was convinced this was gonna be a verbal hell.

I seem to recall that you stated somewhere that you hate Scorpio men.

yeah bitch and now read what it says, "I'M LEARNING scorpio aren't really that bad when you need them " so what now I'm not allowed to like them?
fuck you I like them! lol 🙂

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Wow.

What a disgusting attitude.

Posted by aquapiscescusp
Oh, the Scorpio board isn't so bad 😄

It makes my browser shut down spontaneously.

Posted by Reincarnation

Posted by princessacancersagittaire

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Posted by princessacancersagittaire

Your poor finger 😢

Don't worry it was only a figure of speech, I'm not gross. and I'm learning scorpio aren't really that bad when you need them 🙂 look at this board, when the first comments arrived I was convinced this was gonna be a verbal hell.

I seem to recall that you stated somewhere that you hate Scorpio men.

yeah bitch and now read what it says, "I'M LEARNING scorpio aren't really that bad when you need them " so what now I'm not allowed to like them?
fuck you I like them! lol 🙂

Dumb slut.

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stupid fucking bastard, you maybe that last bad scorp around 😄

Posted by KaptainKhaos

Posted by princessacancersagittaire

Posted by Reincarnation

Posted by princessacancersagittaire

Your poor finger 😢

Don't worry it was only a figure of speech, I'm not gross. and I'm learning scorpio aren't really that bad when you need them 🙂 look at this board, when the first comments arrived I was convinced this was gonna be a verbal hell.

I seem to recall that you stated somewhere that you hate Scorpio men.

yeah bitch and now read what it says, "I'M LEARNING scorpio aren't really that bad when you need them " so what now I'm not allowed to like them?
fuck you I like them! lol 🙂

Wow.

What a disgusting attitude.

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no, what's disgusting is yours. up ur ass loser. I said good things about people and you complain like a bitch. shush.

@duchesslibro

Posted by princessacancersagittaire

Your poor finger 😢

Don't worry it was only a figure of speech, I'm not gross. and I'm learning scorpio aren't really that bad when you need them 🙂 look at this board, when the first comments arrived I was convinced this was gonna be a verbal hell.

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I was going say, "Yeah well, you haven't said anything to piss them off yet.. but then you went ahead and did! HAA! 😆 You lose.

@duchesslibro

(Please excuse my missing 2nd quotation mark, you can easily figure out where it belongs, thanks.)

Posted by duchesslibro
(Please excuse my missing 2nd quotation mark, you can easily figure out where it belongs, thanks.)

Ahh...

Sun = Virgo.

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Posted by princessacancersagittaire

Your poor finger 😢

Don't worry it was only a figure of speech, I'm not gross. and I'm learning scorpio aren't really that bad when you need them 🙂 look at this board, when the first comments arrived I was convinced this was gonna be a verbal hell.

I seem to recall that you stated somewhere that you hate Scorpio men.

yeah bitch and now read what it says, "I'M LEARNING scorpio aren't really that bad when you need them " so what now I'm not allowed to like them?
fuck you I like them! lol 🙂

Wow.

What a disgusting attitude.

no, what's disgusting is yours. up ur ass loser. I said good things about people and you complain like a bitch. shush.

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Why don't you take your patheric ass else where and stop trying to fuck on married men your hideous piece of rat shit.

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Posted by princessacancersagittaire

Your poor finger 😢

Don't worry it was only a figure of speech, I'm not gross. and I'm learning scorpio aren't really that bad when you need them 🙂 look at this board, when the first comments arrived I was convinced this was gonna be a verbal hell.

I seem to recall that you stated somewhere that you hate Scorpio men.

yeah bitch and now read what it says, "I'M LEARNING scorpio aren't really that bad when you need them " so what now I'm not allowed to like them?
fuck you I like them! lol 🙂

Dumb slut.

stupid fucking bastard, you maybe that last bad scorp around 😄

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Funny you're calling ANYONE stupid or a loser when you're the dumb bitch talking to a married man.

Hey shit face. Look in the mirror if you dare. You got 5 fingers pointing right back at you, FUCK FACE.

Get some fucking dignity, scumbag.

He's probably enjoying dinner with his WIFE and you're on the internet being a bitch and making threads about a man you'll never have.

😆

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He's probably enjoying dinner with his WIFE and you're on the internet being a bitch and making threads about a man you'll never have.

😆

he's still thinking of me and shags every night like you shag away about the girl you'll never have in your loser life 😄

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Your poor finger 😢

Don't worry it was only a figure of speech, I'm not gross. and I'm learning scorpio aren't really that bad when you need them 🙂 look at this board, when the first comments arrived I was convinced this was gonna be a verbal hell.

I seem to recall that you stated somewhere that you hate Scorpio men.

yeah bitch and now read what it says, "I'M LEARNING scorpio aren't really that bad when you need them " so what now I'm not allowed to like them?
fuck you I like them! lol 🙂

Dumb slut.

stupid fucking bastard, you maybe that last bad scorp around 😄

I have had run ins with him and found out he has small dick syndrome!

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hahahaha I'm so glad you are around busy eyes, I wanna grab him by his small dick and hurl him out lol

Since OP has hidden her post, can someone give me a brief synapse of what happened?

Posted by princessacancersagittaire

Posted by Lyse
I honestly cant believe you expected sympathy from Scorpio men and women in a situation like this. My aunt is a Scorp and she would've ate you alive the minute you mentioned him being married. Remember this sign is alll about loyalty. You are demonstrating you have no loyalty, to yourself. And if you aren't loyal to yourself, how can he ever trust you to be loyal to him.
Scorps like strong, sweet, independent women. She should not be too strong to challenge his masculinity, but strong enough to stand up for herself and respect herself. He does not like sluts, or whores (not saying you are one, just saying). A woman that's not easily touched, smooth and polished with a hint of mystery is sure to send his heart singing. You start becoming too predictable, emotional, and weak annnnd sorry to say but he steps right over you.

as much as I hate your answer I agree with it .I don't care any more of what he thinks, after all this is the only call I've even talked to him, even when he begged to talk. I never did, also he should stop trying to stray, after all it's his fault too and we all have our crosses to bear.

Thanks for a life lesson though. it's true not just for scorp I guess all men like strong women that respects herself, mysterious and smooth unfortunately I'm not gonna be able to be all that for a good while now that I lost my job, my friends are away, no love and I'm getting fat so sheesh I can fuck my finger till then, sorry it's not me, my frustration talking here.

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I don't know what happened but I see you are down on yourself.
We all make bad choices.
Suck this up as one of them and wave it off.
Don't be so down on yourself, you didn't kill anyone.
Your first priority should be on self improvement.
Find a passion in life and live it to the fullest.

Don't focus on Scorpio males, there are 11 other viable males to choose from who will make good matches or better.
Your romantic life is at a standstill, this can get anyone down. I have been there.
Cancer women are made to be in loving passionate relationships.
Get out and mingle with no expectations other than to be respected and treated well.

Treat yourself to a delicious steak dinner and mojito.

Posted by busyeyes88
OP. Was "messing" with a married scorpio. But nothing physical happened. The OP seems young and a little depressed as just lost her job and is out of work and taking to eating and generally unhappy. She probably thought the scenario would the Scorp would enliven things a little...

This explains it a bit more.
Thank you.

I am confused as to why a single woman is getting more heat than the married man who chose to step out of his marriage?
He is the only disloyal one in this scenario.
I wonder what his wife's sign is?

Posted by LunarMaiden
He is the only disloyal one in this scenario. I wonder what his wife's sign is?

I mentioned that... no one bit.

@Lunarmaiden:

busy's version sounds so much better, had you read my rant you'd wanted to have strangled me lol
ah! us cancerians and dinner and drinks! bonvivre! thank you lunarmaiden.
I don't blame the scorp, he just acts like any man would, I should've known better. he cheats or not I can't do stupid things because I was bored ryt!
don't know his wife's sign but she looked like an air sign or maybe a cancerian.

I was crying most of yesterday, my god, I'm glad I posted here and I think now all I need to care about is to try to follow all you guys' advices. XO

whew! after multiple attempts of failed quoting! dxp why wont u let me quote!

Posted by Montgomery

Posted by LunarMaiden
He is the only disloyal one in this scenario. I wonder what his wife's sign is?

I mentioned that... no one bit.

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haha so cute, no one bit?

@duchesslibro

Posted by Impulsv
Ok
I'll bite,
I can't stand single women who say he's the married one
I'm doing nothing wrong . He's the cheat I'm not for getting involved with a married man.

It takes two to tango

I also don't agree that the single woman is scotch free in any situation like this. Sure, she has no personal obligation to the man's wife but attempting to kindle a flame with a married man is a dick move no matter how you look at it. Not to mention there are definitely women who are turned on by thr idea of stealing a "taken" man.

LunarMaiden, basically they have a non-physical friendship. They text dirty jokes and he allegedly desperately desired to have phone conversations with her. He pined for verbal exchange she claims. So one day she gives in, spills her guts about how she's lonely and maybe will be single forever and now she's embarrassed and nervous that he doesn't think she's hot anymore and won't cheat on his wife with her.

Did I miss anything?

Posted by Impulsv
Ok
I'll bite,
I can't stand single women who say he's the married one
I'm doing nothing wrong . He's the cheat I'm not for getting involved with a married man.

It takes two to tango

They're both wrong... I totally agree.

But the posts gushing about the Loyalty of this guy,

when he clearly is not, are just silly.

OP doesn't owe the wife loyalty, but he does.

Bleh.

Posted by busyeyes88

Posted by princessacancersagittaire
@Lunarmaiden:

busy's version sounds so much better, had you read my rant you'd wanted to have strangled me lol
ah! us cancerians and dinner and drinks! bonvivre! thank you lunarmaiden.
I don't blame the scorp, he just acts like any man would, I should've known better. he cheats or not I can't do stupid things because I was bored ryt!
don't know his wife's sign but she looked like an air sign or maybe a cancerian.

I was crying most of yesterday, my god, I'm glad I posted here and I think now all I need to care about is to try to follow all you guys' advices. XO

whew! after multiple attempts of failed quoting! dxp why wont u let me quote!

Please look after yourself. You are young these things happen.

You are out of work and that can play havoc with your mind and life. Take time to go for walks, cut out some of the bad eating, and on no time you will have your sexy figure and mojo back and the positive energy will bring a wealth of positivity to you which will open up your networking circles of meeting new people hence new job opportunities!! Go team PCS. Come back here in a month and let us know your progress?! How does that sound?! €

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sounds like my calling! see you all in this thread in a month! XOXOXO

@DwellingOnMove

17 Years10,000+ Posts

strange

Posted by Montgomery

Posted by Impulsv
Ok
I'll bite,
I can't stand single women who say he's the married one
I'm doing nothing wrong . He's the cheat I'm not for getting involved with a married man.

It takes two to tango

They're both wrong... I totally agree.

But the posts gushing about the Loyalty of this guy,

when he clearly is not, are just silly.

OP doesn't owe the wife loyalty, but he does.

Bleh.

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They are both wrong but not equally so. Depending on the circumstances.
A single woman SHOULD but is not more or equally obligated to respect his marriage more so than he is.
IF she decided to pursue an emotional or physical relationship she will be a source and interfering factor in a marriage but the primary responsibility is on the husband. IT'S HIS MARRIAGE!!

He decides the man he wants to be, he chooses the type of husband he wants to be.
This is not the wife's responsibility nor is it the single woman's responsibility.

Posted by duchesslibro

Posted by Impulsv
Ok
I'll bite,
I can't stand single women who say he's the married one
I'm doing nothing wrong . He's the cheat I'm not for getting involved with a married man.

It takes two to tango

I also don't agree that the single woman is scotch free in any situation like this. Sure, she has no personal obligation to the man's wife but attempting to kindle a flame with a married man is a dick move no matter how you look at it. Not to mention there are definitely women who are turned on by thr idea of stealing a "taken" man.

LunarMaiden, basically they have a non-physical friendship. They text dirty jokes and he allegedly desperately desired to have phone conversations with her. He pined for verbal exchange she claims. So one day she gives in, spills her guts about how she's lonely and maybe will be single forever and now she's embarrassed and nervous that he doesn't think she's hot anymore and won't cheat on his wife with her.

Did I miss anything?

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No one said single women are scotch free.

Meh, my sympathies are with OP, sounds like she was used by this married man to get an ego boost, then discarded.
Chalk it up to experience and now she knows the signs of what to look for with males of this ilk.

@Lyse

Posted by Montgomery

Posted by Lyse
I honestly cant believe you expected sympathy from Scorpio men and women in a situation like this. My aunt is a Scorp and she would've ate you alive the minute you mentioned him being married. Remember this sign is alll about loyalty. You are demonstrating you have no loyalty, to yourself. And if you aren't loyal to yourself, how can he ever trust you to be loyal to him.
Scorps like strong, sweet, independent women. She should not be too strong to challenge his masculinity, but strong enough to stand up for herself and respect herself. He does not like sluts, or whores (not saying you are one, just saying). A woman that's not easily touched, smooth and polished with a hint of mystery is sure to send his heart singing. You start becoming too predictable, emotional, and weak annnnd sorry to say but he steps right over you.

Um... the married Scorpio guy hanging out with single

women is demonstrating loyalty?

lol

I bet there are plenty of Scorp men who like sluts. 😄

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You misunderstood my comment so i'll re-write it, read it slowly.... I said she demonstrated no loyalty to herself by entertaining a married man and becoming emotionally attached about it. Dating a man you know upfront is married, or even messing with him on any type of level other than friendship means you have no loyalty for yourself. Now if he lies about his status and you find out after you've fallen, thats a bit different and more complicated.
And yes, ANY man Scorpio or not will like a slut, to SLEEP with her, but date her and take her seriously...Yea NOPE.

@Lyse