Venus in virgo retro?

I seeing a guy with this, it was so funny because it was so intense emotional and sweet.. We simulated a relationship.
So many mixed signals he was very scared to call us something more...
Venus is in virgo is its fall but also retrograde? Yikes.
I feel I can forgive him just because of this placement and I have avoided more hurt in the future.

Are venus in virgo the type to lie about how they feel ? I think he feels as strongly as me but is afraid...
It was frustrating because he wants to take it slow but acts says things that are very different than something casual.
It's gone past the point of being casual, something I am open for if the situation was right.
It's just confusing. I'm a taurus moon and want to feel secure in whoever I'm emotionally investing. He claims to not be a player but when I see apps like tinder on his phone it does not help. it matters because it feels disrespectful to me.

are you guys forgiving? his sun/moon seems forgiving about idk about the virgo.
I pulled a raging bull act and probably ruined it... He took it pretty hard but I don't I was so bad 😛

leo/ gemini.

He told me I was flipping out and I told him that he does not even care about me and he got really mad.

Do people tell you're freaking and you just feel like you're expressing yourself? Why do people even ask how you're feeling when they can't even take it lol
You're probably right about being more intellectual.
It just felt like a dream, you know? I just woke up from it and reality set in and I realized we moved too fast to the point it was confusing my emotions.
The only problem is that he is an actual person and I should not have reacted that way.
I did apologize this morning through a text... if he does not respond it just lets me know that I scared him off and was not on the same page as me so maybe it's better to know this now than later. I feel like this my subconsciouses self-destructive way to test what this is..

I only said that based on all things he told me so I guess it's not a crazy assumption unless it is true that men lie 😛
I like talking to one person at a time. He knows that, his response was he was not a player.
I have 3 gemini personal planets, I like friendship...This is not strange concept to me.
If he wanted to start slow than he should of restrained himself, but he pushed it and I was open to this. What we did is something friends don't do.
I'm not talking about sex, we were actually waiting...
I was talking about all the signals and feelings... Being exclusive is actually what I wanted to here.