VENUS in Virgo ...

VENUS in Virgo ...

Anyone else have this placement?

I've had a tendency to ignore certain aspects of my chart that I considered less than exciting.

This was one of them.

BUT I'm beginning to reconsider, and take a little time to do some investigation.

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Venus in Virgo

These individuals tend to express their adoration by simple comforts ... through mindful acts and gestures of service.

Venus in Virgo creates a love for the mundane (omg, really?); the small things that we often don't appreciate, but make our life amazing.

They are happy when someone appreciates the little things they do.

They ... pay attention to your needs, and don't like overbearing/superficial people.

... but it takes little to please them. They attend to all of the practical details of the relationship--

They have a lot of integrity, are a loner, don't play mind games, and are very trustworthy.

They are meticulous about their appearance....

They usually look great in very restrictive and form fitting clothing like business attire, leather, and dresses with corsets.

(Ok, that last one was a little random) 😛

However--

Do not take your Virgo friend or lover for granted

Virgos are fiercely loyal, dedicated and give 100 percent to their loved ones, but they won't be used or abused.

Once Virgos make up their minds that they've been egregiously wronged, they will promptly show you the door with little drama.

If they suspect they are in a one-sided relationship or friendship, you will get a one-way ticket out of their lives.

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All true, as far as I'm concerned. 🙂

But-- more often that not, I find that toward the end of a relationship, I'm carrying about 95% of the responsibility-- people just take advantage.

That's no fun-- it's supposed to go both ways.

Any other Venus in Virgos identify?

What Venus (or Mars) signs have you found to be most compatible?

My Venus cusps on Virgo so I identify with a lot of the descriptions, possibly more so than Libran ones. But I don't look anything at all like Sophia.

Posted by Neurotoxin
So does my wife.

It works out well.

So it's pretty balanced, between the two of you-- one doesn't do more than the other.

Sounds lovely 🙂

Posted by cowpuncher
I don't. However, if it makes you look like Sophia, we need to talk.

Alas, no-- I don't favor Ms. Loren.

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Posted by Montgomery

Posted by cowpuncher
I don't. However, if it makes you look like Sophia, we need to talk.

Alas, no-- I don't favor Ms. Loren.

Pics or you're lying.

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Oh I don't have a problem being envisioned as Sophia. 😄

Carry on!

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Posted by Neurotoxin
So does my wife.

It works out well.

So it's pretty balanced, between the two of you-- one doesn't do more than the other.

Sounds lovely 🙂

Exactamundo.

Plus we both have Libra Mercury, so we're good at talking things out too.

All in all pretty good match.

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Sounds like it-- you're fortunate. 🙂

I've dated two Virgos, who had Venus in Virgo-- one took advantage (Merc in Virgo), the other was the exact opposite-- really good to me (Merc in LEO).

I'm sure there's more to it than that, but still-- that's pretty interesting.

Posted by narbil
In the 11th.. Kill this prude now, please lol.

Am quite a slave in relationships, focused too much on the SO's needs and have some perfection issues that fail to sustain. Need a golden locked goddess to be satisfied..

Sounds drastic-- mine's in the sixth, conjunct Pluto.

I do stuff for the SO, but I expect it to be reciprocated; if it isn't, I leave (because *nobody* is happy, at that point).

So you have perfection issues, like what-- no one measures up in the end?

I'll be the first to say that blonde is the way to go, but I'm biased. 😄

No way, Josie.

I'm not posting pics in DXP.

I've heard stories. 😕

Posted by TMV
My Venus cusps on Virgo so I identify with a lot of the descriptions, possibly more so than Libran ones. But I don't look anything at all like Sophia.

You find people would attempt to take advantage of you?

Or that you were the proverbial glue that held it all together--

And neither do I.

Posted by charliebears
When do you wear corsets monty? Inquiring minds want to know. 😉

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I'm sure. 😉

Posted by Montgomery

You find people would attempt to take advantage of you?

Or that you were the proverbial glue that held it all together--

Both at times. I have a terrible pleaser streak.

Posted by TMV

Posted by Montgomery

You find people would attempt to take advantage of you?

Or that you were the proverbial glue that held it all together--

Both at times. I have a terrible pleaser streak.

I hear you.

But it only goes so far-- I'm grateful for that, I guess.

It just sucks that it has to happen that way.

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Posted by CluelessCancer
Throws in a gold chain and a blood diamond.

Pulls out crossbow, ties chain and diamond to the bolt and shoots toward top of Scrooge pile.

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*watches them soar*

Nice shot 😄

Posted by xdimplez
mistterrrr crabs has a venus in virgo. lol i enjoy it. he spoils me ^_^ . never been spoiled before or had my needs catered to so its quite nice

my venus is in cancer, so i guess that meshes well with his venus. since its all about the home and security and what not

Idk how I missed this, dimpz. 😢

I would not have put this combo together, but I've done some reading and I think you're right.

Venus in Virgo/Venus in Cancer

Both of you... crave security and dependability in partnership, and you are both very capable of delivering these things to each other. You and your Venus in Cancer lover come alive in a safe environment—exactly the kind of atmosphere you enjoy creating. You value the sincerity of your partner's approach to love, and he or she senses your willingness to put effort into making your relationship work.

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