Virgo and Sag traits conflicting?

Sun Virgo
Rising Sign Sagittarius
Moon Leo
Venus Leo
Desc. Sign Scorpio


I am a Virgal but my Sag traits seem to be very dominant. I hate routine, everyday is a new adventure, I'm always trying something new (especially when the Virgo in me screams "No!" Sag goes "Why not? It's fun chill out!"). It maybe fun, exciting or even dangerous but appealing just the same. Not big on follow through... i eventually do with some things. I also have a lot of squares and conjuncts in my chart. People either fall in love with me or decide they don't like me right away for whatever reason. People always seem to know my name even if I have no idea who they are. I'm spontaneous sometimes impulsive. I'm loud, playful, funny independent. People have expressed feeling intimidated before they got to know me. I am restless in mind and body. If I had a motto it would be "what next?"

Sometimes Virgo will make me pay with stupid guilt trips but only for a moment. My Virgo traits seem to be expressed at the core of my personality. Being a good listener, caring, loyal, dependable, opinionated, analytical etc. I'm not a neat freak but I don't like seeing a big mess. Can't stand anyone who is a total slob especially since I'm not the domesticated type. I'm not gonna cook dinner most days, I won't scrub anywhere with a toothbrush and laundry gets done when it needs to be done (usually when I can't find my fave shirt or jeans and I realize they r with the dirty laundry). I don't like cleaning very much ( I could be doing something else), so I don't make big messes in the first place or I just fix it right after.

See if y'all can guess anymore personality traits. I'll confirm em

Where are your Mercury and Mars?

It's funny actually as I am a Virgo (obviously) and my ex is a Sag but there seems to have been some kind of "role-reversal" thing going on between us as she is SUCH A KILLJOY (like people think Virgos are!) I actually have Sag rising and she has Mars in Virgo so I don't know if this is anything to do with the role-reversal thing. She bugs me if I leave the bathroom in a less-than-perfect state, and also bugs me (very tediously sometimes) about what I should and shouldn't eat and drink (like I don't know!) Recently we spent a few days away together for the sake of our son and she kept on whining at me to slow down as we sped along the country roads. 😢

My Mercury is in Leo... conjunct Jupiter and conjunct Venus. My Mars is in Libra... semisquare Pluto and sqaure Uranus.

Our charts sound quite similar.

Ditto to most of what you said virgal. They rhyme with moi and we would play nicely in a sandbox. Saggi moons and hard aspects make everything difficult. That combined with your strong indie and self expressive traits make you quite a misfit and maverick. It's okay, domestication is for parakeets.