Why do I like them so much?

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I always love people with sagitarius in their chart (particularly moon) and Scorpio (particularly Mars). It's a pattern I see over and over with friends and relationships - They're always the ones I feel most comfortable with.
But why is this?
My chart is

Saggitarius rising
Sun - Cancer (7th house)
Moon - Gemini (7th house)
Mercury - Cancer (8th house)
Venus - Gemini (7th house)
Mars - Cancer (8th house)
Jupiter - Aries (4th house)
Saturn - Saggitarius (1st house)
Uranus - Saggitarius (1st house)
Neptune - Capricorn (1st house)
Pluto - Scorpio (11th house)

I have no idea why Scorpios and Saggys are so interesting to me. I like Virgo suns too and often feel very comfortable with them but mostly as friends.

And why do Leos annoy me so much when I have no Aquarius or Taurus and only one Scorpio?
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well, you probably like sags because they're fun and usually optimistic and friendly. makes sense. they don't talk about feelings, but they do have a lot of feelings, and they're usually very sweet. they make you feel wanted and welcome.

you probably don't like aquarians much because they're usually cold and businesslike and not at all interested in feelings, and might not even have them. if you're sad, they might humor you for a bit, but they'll try to fix it, and if you don't let them they'll just shrug and tell you to grow up. and they can just generally be total jerks.

you probably don't like leos because they're often pretty full of themselves. they care about their feelings, but they could care less about yours. they might not notice when you totally change something about yourself, but they'll go on for hours about the way they parted their hair on the other side today. it can feel very belittling. and cancers have a problem feeling not good enough anyways, they don't need to be treated like they aren't good enough too.
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Posted by curious visitor

you probably don't like leos because they're often pretty full of themselves. they care about their feelings, but they could care less about yours. they might not notice when you totally change something about yourself, but they'll go on for hours about the way they parted their hair on the other side today. it can feel very belittling. and cancers have a problem feeling not good enough anyways, they don't need to be treated like they aren't good enough too.




Funny, one of my best friends is a Cancer. We get along awesome. I guess if he didnt like me I probably wouldnt notice anyway and based on this description, I wouldnt give a fuck either. If I really had the power to make someone not feel good enough about themselves as a human being then I should be full of myself cause that's a damn powerful thing aint it!

Psshhhht! WTFE!
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It's not like Leo's are completely horrible to me, it's just the drama and how everything has to be about them - like if someone else has a problem it becomes about them and how much they're upset about it, and how they take over it trying to help. It's just too much.
Aquas are ok as friends because they're more laid back. I can have a lot of fun with them and enjoy their POV. I never want anything deeper than friendship form them so it works.

I noticed this in my chart though and don't know if it means anything.
My Pluto in Scorpio only has major aspects with 4 of my planets (3 trines and a sextile) and apparently I've heard that makes it important, especially because it only has easy flowing aspects.
And my Jupiter aspects everything but my Pluto (even my rising sign) so I have a lot of Jupiter energy and Jupiter rules saggitarius (and is my ruling planet since I have a Saggy rising)

Maybe that's why I like Saggis and Scorpios so much - because I have easy flowing Scorp in pluto energy and my Jupiter is so prominant and rules Saggitarius.
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It's not like Leo's are completely horrible to me, it's just the drama and how everything has to be about them - like if someone else has a problem it becomes about them and how much they're upset about it, and how they take over it trying to help. It's just too much.



You have to take more than just the Sun sign into consideration. I am the friend that all my friends come to when they are having a problem. I NEVER make it about me and I do not feed into drama AT ALL and their problems do not upset me personally. Yes, I hate to see my friends upset so THAT upsets me, however I am the one that takes their mind off of it and cheers them up. Maybe it's my strong Air sign influences or my Aqua rising, but your quote does not ring true with me personally. You cant just generalize it to sun sign.
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Posted by CancerKitten
It's not like Leo's are completely horrible to me, it's just the drama and how everything has to be about them - like if someone else has a problem it becomes about them and how much they're upset about it, and how they take over it trying to help. It's just too much.



You have to take more than just the Sun sign into consideration. I am the friend that all my friends come to when they are having a problem. I NEVER make it about me and I do not feed into drama AT ALL and their problems do not upset me personally. Yes, I hate to see my friends upset so THAT upsets me, however I am the one that takes their mind off of it and cheers them up. Maybe it's my strong Air sign influences or my Aqua rising, but your quote does not ring true with me personally. You cant just generalize it to sun sign.
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Of course any chart will be changed by the elements and aspects within it. Whenever I generalise it's just how I most often see it. I am always welcome to exceptions and wouldn't judge a Leo out right. I know a few Leos that aren't anywhere near as bad as I've made out but out of all the things that annoy me in people's personalities that tends to aggravate me most and I most often see it with people with strong Leo placements (particularly Leo rising or Sun)
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Posted by ninjamu
aw, don't get too upset ladyleo. they have a right to their opinion. a lot of ppl do love us but we shouldn't expect them all to. it's cool. their loss, eh?



LOL! Im not upset. Everyone is entitled to their opinion. I was just stating my POV. I dont get upset about much especially from someone I dont even know. And yes, their loss! 😄