why don't you men get our clues!!! argh!!!

just checking..hehehe..

What's the story... ?

yes, what clues.

You see jaya they are clueless.

hehehe..man!!
hmph..sometimes I think some guys have fallen from the sky.....yesterday...hahahhaha.

It's the suttle hints that women send to men that are completely missed sometimes, unless there are finely attuned watchful (attentive) ones nearby..

and other women ofcourse! Actually, women pick up these subtle signals when they aren't even sent by their way..It's like some sort of secret language or something requiring an inbuilt tracking decoder device..

ah yes..the language of women.. has been perfected over generations, wouldn't you say? Except someone forgot to deliver a translation manual to the men!!! hahahaha... we're screwed!! hehehhe..

Proof in the pudding..
Have any of you ever gotten yourselves into arguments with your girlfriends over...what appears to you.. to be..
hahahhaha...
you've missed out on a signal man!! egad!!

When this happens..turn your decoder ring once to the left, twice to the right, and then spin it all the way to the green..and then..my friends.. your problems for the night will be over..
hahahaha..it's just the static preventing you from decifering the language..that's all it is..


And then,
PS.*suttle= subtle **sorry

= absolutely nothing..
don't know what happened there..

Its like I always say, when the sun goes down and the lights go out, and there's not another living soul around I'LL chat you up and tell you how much I love you.

I have a bit of advice! As my husband tells me, and I quote
"I'm not a mind reader!!" So guess what I just blurt out what's on my mind and sometimes that doesn't even work! So I try making him think it was his idea in the first place and that works. So believe me, even if you are married, or just getting to know one of them, men are just very basic and I mean that in a good way. That's why they can wear suits, ties, baseball caps. We need to be complicated, we wouldn't wear brown socks with blue shoes! HAHAHAHA!

Ok.. I'll climb in here with all the ducks..

My older sister explained it "thusly".. whenever she's had it rough (for whatever reason) and is talking to her husband, invariably, he immediately goes to work "fixing" it.. it's a task, a job, a thing he can do..(out pops advice, etc.) Then she screams (well.. "wails" more like it) "Don't FIX me.. just Listen to me." Perhaps that's the difference (one of many) between the genders.

Thank You All for your Time.

That is so true Espernaut! If I say the 'bloody thing' is annoying, he tries to figure out away to fix the 'bloody thing'. At times it is wonderful though!!!!
And Thank you too!!!!

Candle Girl and Jaya, I can sympathize (or empathize) with you both.

Take, for example, my last boyfriend (a Leo with Leo Rising?)...a very typical actual conversation:

Me: I really like horror movies.

Him: Me too.

Me: I hear there's a new one that just came out. It's with {insert one of my favorite actors here}.

Him: Wow.

Silence......

Minutes later:

Me: sigh.

Him: What?

Me: It's nothing.

(I've turned away from him now and am staring out the window)

Him: What, I said.

Me: Whatever, Mike. God.

Him: Did you like, want to see a movie or something?

Me: No. I hate you.

🙂

Then we'd "make up", and have the same fight but over something else the next day....and the day after that...and the day after that....

Just my personal account of a relationship with a clueless man.

Can I also add, that he had a hard time ever looking me in the eye? It used to really, really, really piss me off during fights when he would break my gaze. It's like, "do you have any balls whatsoever? Are you afraid to fight with a woman? Pansyass!"

lol. But I never really said that.

But I *so* should have.

grrrrrrrrr

He would talk my ear off, I mean really, this guy loved the sound of his own voice (and it wasn't that pleasant of a speaking voice). SO LOUD. Why, why do you have to be so damned LOUD all the time— I would always think to myself. So....I got tired of it, I mean, this had been going on for like a year...and I would just literally start tuning him out. Not even listening. I would literally look at him, nod my head, murmur "uh huh...yep...yeah...uh oh..." etc....totally bored out of my mind, it was always, always, always only stuff about HIM. The most self-absorbed person EVER.

Him: Everyone loves me at work.

Me: Yeah? (whispered under breath--I wonder why...

Him: Oh yeah. I sell better than everyone. People come to me, Mikey, when they need to know how to do something. Everybody wants a piece of me. Because I know everything there is to know. In fact, the President of the United States of America envies me.

(okay, that last part he didn't actually say, but he would want to, trust me)

Me: wow.

Him: Yeah. Today, I had seven people tell me how smart and cool I am. And I got to thinking about it, and I really am a good catch.

(he actually said that once)

Me: And humble, too.

Him: Yeah. And everyone says I'm really funny, and that I look like that guy from "Scream". The one with the cool hair.

Me: Who said that? I don't see that at all.

Him: A lot of people. Four of the girls I manage.

Me: Isn't that a little bit inappropriate, for your underlings to be commenting on your looks?

Him: uh, well...no....I mean....not all of them actually *said that*.....I mean, they kinda said that.

Me: Do they know you have a girlfriend you've been with for a long time?

Him: Oh, yeah. I told them. They said you were lucky.

Me: I don't need fifteen year olds telling me I'm lucky, thank you.

Him: They're not attractive. They're all fat. They just think I'm attractive.



And that is a snapshot of the joy of my ex relationship.

Ego, ego ego.....never again, never again.

And....SURFACE! NO DEPTH.

I was in misery, I tell you.

... Ergh.. ( treads lightly ) Wanna know how my movie outings "go"?
( Sreeech.! Tires on pavement..)
Bail! Bail! Bail! Head for the ticket booth you, while I park the car!
Varroomm..skid.. etc.. much noise and fun sounds...
Pitter~pat Pitter~pat Pitter~pat (s'me runnin' back to the front lobby.. takes me awhile too) where you've already got the tickets and have reserved a place for me in the popcorn line. (plus a napkin, if it looks like I need it..or the day was hot,etc.)
Enter darkened theatre in time for all previews (cuz we're paying for it anyhow.. so enjoy).. Middle Middle Center Row.

Of course.. this is just my scenario.. your's could be different. (Never did Rocky Horror either.. but I'd wanna.)

I think.. knowing Luz.. has affected me "permanently". 🙂

"It's a &^% $ *I)@@ Bear!!"
If you guys don't know what I'm referring to.. never mind. I enjoy knowing something hysterical that ya'll don't.

Phoenix!
How did you EVER put up with this guy??!!!!

I hate him already! I don't even have to meet him--Oh my GODDD--talk about self absorption--he's in love with himself!! The ego on him is OVERBLOWN. I'm surprised you didn't put him in his place more often--sh**, I WOULD OF!

What will happen is this: some day, someone's gonna come into his work place, your ex will mouth off something shallow or pretentious and then he'll get his a** kicked. Yup. Beleive it. I'm getting mad just reading this. I would of punched him out.

For me, this is discouraging about male leos becuase I really like a male leo-freind of mine--thinking of starting something with him but I can see the massive ego which is TOTALLY OFF-PUTTING. WHY THE HELL CAN'T THY SE E THIS? LEOS NEED TO BE TOLD THEY ARE AS MEDIOCRE AS THE NEXT!

LIKE J FRIGGIN LO!

hey, you know..it's like I'd mentioned earlier on another thread..my bro is a Leo..and so i really don't have that much to go on to give an unbiased comment on them (and mum always reminds us to remember to say something delicate or to keep it zipped, doesn't she?)..hmph.. although, i will let you all in on this secret, while she isn't looking..i did so often want to strangle my brother sometimes for not being one of the more tastefully considerate leo persons more often,,hehehe.. (as guilt rolls in), hmm ok..ok, so actually, i do like leos..i think they are pretty cool.. and pheonix, I do hear you and identify with you on their need to roaaaaarrr really loudly!!! hahaha.. it's true..
but we managed to keep my brother's maine well stroked for him anywayz.. i think he likes it.. ^_^

Now..this one's for us..Imagine in general... for moment of truly sweet, overwhelming satisfaction with me.. it would be soo nice, if all of our men were able to sweetly sweep us up &away when they'd just finished cue-ing in on our slightly discreet messages wouldn't it? hmm..how glorious imagery brings the feminine smile and perhaps the feathery charm...
please sign here gents, if you'd really like to be recipients of this extreme goodness.. hehehe..lol🙂

oooh *signs* 🙂

i always seems to spell phoenix with the e in front of the o... guess i'm spelling it mindlessly the way that i hear myself say it, huh.

seems= seem..
that's it.. i give in to spell check..
(she types too d*mned fast)

hmm.