ROLLER COASTER from CANCER MAN

I have a gemini & cancer man friend/co-worker overseas. Gemini is very vocal in his feelings towards me, but being Straight forward capricorn, i told him that i dont like him and i see him just a close friend. But he still asking me even i rejected him more that 10x. The 3 of us were always hang out we drink alot.,

And just happen, me and cancer guy had sex. Actually drunk sex. Which im the one who initiates maybe my hormones or i was just drunk. After we talk about that we can be FRIENDS with benefits we both agreed. But i notice something to him that after we had sex he's acting weird and shy, but when our friends around he acts normal, (like talking to me). He’s not into sex, if i will not tell him iwant, he’ll not going to ask me.

But when our gemini friend went for his vacation. He do the moves. Like being sweet, non stop calling even we’re at work. Calling me for his joke, telling his family problem, hes making me jealous using our co-worker. His blushing evertime he looks at me. And he blooms everytime we’re together, he even tell to his friend we were dating, when i heard that i actually tell him that i like him but he said HE DONT LIKE ME or not his type of girl, and we dont have a relationship and dont assume..thats lasted for 1month.

He change when gemini cameback from vacation. He gets easily annoy with me, he become mean, rude and

Always wanted to get argued with me even we dont had a problem or i dont know whats the reason what he acted. Nobody knows what happen to him but he already give a hint to our friends that we have something.

And now hes acting distant, hes avoiding my call/text. Not talking to me when we had a staff bonding..

I feel that the FEELING IS MUTUAL.

By the way hes married (complicated situation) he and his wife only talks regarding about their child and child support.

HELP ME I DONT WHAT TO DO TO HIM. Im trying to understand him