Met him unexpectedly out late one night we started talking and never stopped. (I spoke to him 1st) I drove him home went up played around a bit then I ran home in a rush. The next day he texted we met talked for hours went to eat, had sex. He asked me to stay the night but I went home. The next night he came over for dinner met my kids said I want to hang out with the kids but I could tell they were acting up so we went outside on the patio. After that he quit texting went quiet. Didnt return texts. next weekend he texted me around 8 had me meet him. had a drink waiting for me. we went for fries back to his house I stayed the night but rushed out the next a.m. to church. he ignored my texts all week again. following wknd I texted him after 9 we met had food went back to his house i stayed the night till the next morning he was cuddly shy etc.said he had to get to the gym. changed pants twice mumbled didnt have clothes for gym his phone was going off. no texts rest of day. I tried to call no answer so i sent a text. stating how I can see how it might seem im ok with a booty call but im not. that i value myself & wont give my body to someone who doesnt want to spend time getting to know me. he replied: ok I understand. I then told him "i want you. I want to hangout with you have fun with you get to know you and fuck you on a very regular basis be there when needed & vice versa. can I have that with you?" He replied he was sorry but he doesnt think he's the right guy for me & what im looking for. I told him he didnt know me that I was looking for someone to spend my life with a family a committed relationship but that I didnt want to rush into anything and im sorry for the adventures we are not going to share. I hadn't told him I wanted those things he assumed im happy being single. he just bought a big house never married no kids. Im pretty sure he has a girl at the gym communication was tough im a pisces. He hasnt unfriended me on facebook. whats the outlook. Im not unhappy I stood up for my core beliefs. I let him know I want him. Im just wondering if I passed the test. He literally shook with nervousness when he was with me. The sex was phenomal long lasting and very passionate.
