2 steps forward...2 steps back!

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VenusLady
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20 Years

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If you can't remember my history, me and this cancer have been making up to break up for the past year! So the last time we saw each other was Memorial Weekend, after that he done his usual disappearing trick. So he sees me on online last week and sends me an email saying "I see your busy talking to your new friend". So i send him one back saying "yes i am!". He then decides to call me and demand to know who i'm talking to and who i've been sleeping with (can you believe it—). I tell him quite clearly its none of his business and that he needs to concentrate on his own life and not worry about mine. This goes on for a while until i end up putting the phone down. This was Monday...since then he has not stopped calling, texting me, trying to get me to come see him. Well HELL NO! i've played this game too long..once again he only wants me because he can't have me but i know as soon as i make myself available, he'll be gone again. Well not this time, i'm tired of the games, he gets me, has me, makes me feel like we're together and then surprise surprise...he's gone again! What is it with you cancers? Why does it hurt to see someone you couldn't give a butter about getting on with their lives?
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krobe03
@krobe03
18 Years1,000+ Posts

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I tell him quite clearly its none of his business and that he needs to concentrate on his own life and not worry about mine. This goes on for a while until i end up putting the phone down. This was Monday...since then he has not stopped calling, texting me, trying to get me to come see him. Well HELL NO! i've played this game too long..once again he only wants me because he can't have me but i know as soon as i make myself available, he'll be gone again. Well not this time, i'm tired of the games, he gets me, has me, makes me feel like we're together and then surprise surprise...he's gone again! What is it with you cancers? Why does it hurt to see someone you couldn't give a butter about getting on with their lives!

Reverse this back on him, and U will have a winner. I know how U feel. Except I just don't let mines completely HAVE me like he begs! I do this 2 him. I make him think I am interested, (I AM) but, he simply does not know exactly how much. So, when I disappear. He crys U act like U want me, then U don't want me know more. Nope. I got U and now U have bored me. Next! give him some space each time U give him some attention.
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krobe03
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18 Years1,000+ Posts

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Well not this time, i'm tired of the games, he gets me, has me, makes me feel like we're together and then surprise surprise...he's gone again! What is it with you cancers? Why does it hurt to see someone you couldn't give a butter about getting on with their lives!

I really don't think it is games. They just get bored really easy. U have 2 know and find a way how 2 make it last. U can believe me.