Understanding the Male Crab.. help please?

What does it mean when a Cancer guy tells you that and I quote..

"That I(me ofcourse)intimidate/make him nervous.."

I think I might of come on to strong and chased him alittle to hard. Maybe now I should be more stand-offish or something.. and try an forget about him? 😢

wow - that was actually pretty bold for a cancer - guess that's what Cansir meant when he said if a cancer doesn't like you you'll know it ! LOL

sorry - can't help you here, even if you back off...he might just breath a sigh of relief !
try a scorp.

No, no, no, no.... He likes me IS the problem! He is shy, tells me HE really likes me but that I make him nervous and he has blushed quite a few times in front of me. Then he retreats again. I think I might of come on to strong, I have done everything (chasing wise) but tie myself to the front bumper of his car in the morning before he leaves to go to work!

Is it true that if you make yourself "easy to catch" the Male Crab will then retreat & play mind games?

He is NOT playing mind games. Back off and give him time 2 think. He is a MAN 4 Christ sake. Men don't process feelings like us women do. Give him some time 2 come back around. I have a Gemini moon, and I know I do my Cancer friend some damage. But, I give him what he gives me. When he retreats, give him some time and space 2 think. He will come back around. And U R a Gemini, U know we manipulate them just as much as they try 2 manipulate us. That is imtimidating, when U R a step ahead of someone else and they don't know how 2 take U. Just back off.

depending on the mood and context of when he told you this it means exactly what he is telling you. you are probably being to direct for him which is making him feel uncomfortable. we cancers aren't very direct or forceful people.

i beg to differ i can be very forceful in a romantic way,he he he. jus be open and honest. manipulation,hmmmmm,lol.i do not have that in my body. but being influential that is what i am.

I've been honest with him from the start. He knows my feelings and thoughts, I tell him everything, except one little thing and im not so sure I should "spill the beans" persay. That is that I have deeper feelings for him than he knows. But then look at yesterday, all my friends tell wish me a happy 4th of July and call... message ect with thoughts of me. These are just friends, but not the GUY I wanted to hear from. Still nothing today silence.... 😢

I miss him! I hate this!

was he specific on what you actually do that makes him intimadated and nervous? maybe he doesn't have a lot of experience with women and doesn't know how to act around you..

"sorry - can't help you here, even if you back off...he might just breath a sigh of relief !try a scorp. "

lol xangel, don't try to dump a gemini on any scorps okay...gemini's are evil

Lady Scorp....you took the words out of my mouth. I can be friends with famale Geminis but the men....not a good match at all!!!

I think Scorp/Gem match could be a little tricky. But I am just speaking from a female Scorp perspective.

It's weird that the Cancer is saying to Gemini that she is coming on too strong for him. Normally, Scorp woman and Cancer men are really good together...and Scorp woman are anything but shy! LOL. So I would think he would be able to definitely handle a Gem woman.

Good luck Gemini...they are definitly interesting. I am learning how to do with them myself. LOL

"It's weird that the Cancer is saying to Gemini that she is coming on too strong for him. "

lol no its not. i'm sure he's confused by the gemini and can't figure out her motives and senses the manipulation. they are evil i tell u...so evil that from now on i'm staying far away from any thread Gemini is in.

((holding up a cross and sprinkling holy water all over)) i'm not even sure that will be enough

LOL - lady scorp...but remember men and women of the same sign can be TOTALLY different - I get along great with scorpio women - but scorpio men [in my experience] are completely insane !! really intense and amnipulative...crazy bastards....

Feeling is mutual Lady Scorp.

gemini and scorpio both have strong personalities - that is not usually a good combination, too much territorial behavior..... don't take it personally

oh good lord, here's lucky again with that wannabe scorpio talk...lol, i swear i will tease u till the day i die

yeah....i guess u did say libra...but u always throw in the scorp rising....lol

what's ur birthdate anyways? are u even close?

and i know there's more to astrology than just sun signs....i just like teasing u :-)

all I know is that Gemini men are CRAZY!!!!!! LMAO!!! When I meet a Gem or Sag man I run the other way!!! LMAO!!!!

"all I know is that Gemini men are CRAZY!!!!!! LMAO!!! When I meet a Gem or Sag man I run the other way!!! LMAO!!!!"

Good girl

*checks over shoulder to see if mystic fish is listening* actually....flighty would probably be pisces...... "flighty" is sort of scatter-brained - I think you meant more like energetic and constantly changing and moving - more that sort of thing right? that's gemeni alright...always coming and going - never standing still....definately not a cancer friendly way to be....

First, I guess I never realized just how shallow some people can be.. even while on a online forum. Oh, wait I forgot I don't spend my life on one!

Second, don't make me go to my dark side. 😉

I've read the compatibility results for gemini & cancer, actually on may different sites. But I feel as there is much more to a person than what just what sign they were born under.

And excuse me, but from day one.. all I have seen on here is slandering of everything to do with Geminis in general. I ask a simple question about a Cancer and I get insults in return (or smirky comments) and told basicly how bad my sign is. I'm not the rude type either, and I don't judge people by what sign they fall under. So what I meant by dont make me go to my "dark side" is that I haven't been rude to anyone yet. But that could change in time if need be. Basicly, I just want to be treated like everyone else.

Also, the Gemini forums even baffle me. So frankly I choose not to spend much time over there.

people often ask me "so which are the "bad" signs?" and I always tell them there are no good and bad signs - it's just a matter of being compatible with each other. There's nothing wrong with gemeni's - but some people just won't mesh with the energetic outgoing personality - some people find it exciting, others find it nerve wracking - in your particular case - you've said that this guy does like you - but I don't think he can handle your energy. He's telling you that from the start. You can like someone - you can even like them A LOT - but that doesn't necessarily mean you'll be compatible - in fact what excites him about you and draws him to you in the begining will probably be what drives him away in the end.

Oh Gemini, relax yourself sweetie. you're right, this is just an online forum and most of the time, people say things on here to get a reaction out of you and keep things interesting.

any sign combo can work out, astrology is just a guideline in helping you understand other people.

i wish u the best Gemini and don't take things on here so seriously. I tease Luckystar all the time about being a wannabe scorp and u don't see her threatening to bring out her dark side and i'm sure with her being a wannabe scorp, she really does have a dark side.

with that said ((sprinkling twice as much holy water as before))

holy water ?? where di you get holy water?? I would think that with your perpetual coating of negativity dust you would MELT if you touched holy water !
;0)

lmao Xangel

Yea Gem..you CANNOT take anything that anyone says on this forum personally. Us girls who have had our "encounters" with Cancer men always come on here asking for advice. And half the time its advce that we dont want to hear.....whether it be correct or incorrect. And that's just b/c ppl really dont bite their tongues. Not to be rude...just to be honest and keep it real. And LS can vowge for me on that one LOL.

Bottom line, its all good! Dont take it perosnal. We ALL know that there is so much more to a person than their sign...duh. LOL. This forum just so happens to be based on a zodiac sign...so you kinda get whatcha' get. LOL. But its all LOVE! 🙂

don't laugh at me !
*splashes around in wading pool filled with holy water and sticks tongue out at lady scorp*

Hey Lucky....how are you and your cancer?

My feathers got alittle ruffled, sorry! I'm over it! 😉

Hmmm maybe you should send him a quck text wishing him happy bday. But you shod read the thread that I posted.....Katica was going through some drama as to if she should wish her Cancer happy bday and krobe and redrover gaver her some REALLY good advice. Check it out, if you have not already. These dang men!

Yea....maybe you should lay low for a while and see what happens. If I have not learned anything else from everyone...its best to just let these men persue us...not so much for the man but for ourselves. My dad used to always tell me "if a man wants to be with you hes going to be with, come hell or high water". Unfornately sometimes, I forget that.



Good luck Lucky and keep me posted! 🙂

Dancing Bread, did I ever tell you that you are the wind beneath my wings? 😉 LOLOL

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