After 2 years is this Cancer Man still interested? *mature content* PIsces girl

I'm going to try keep this short and simple 😛 *sorry mature content*

I've known a cancer man for the last 2 years. Initially I asked for his number, and to me his responses were to dry and distant to consider him mutually interested. Thus I backed off. Yet he always came back, then ran away again. We slept together only once. Our friendship has always been very flirty, with inside jokes, and sexually based.

About a year into knowing each other he saw me out with another man (we were nothing offiicial), and after that he began to distant himself and almost 'play games'. Making me do things for him and then give nothing back. I got tired of this and confronted him, to which he said he was sorry. A couple months later we organised for him to come over and see me - he flaked on me and never showed up. After that our friendship went downhill, and eventually we stopped contact for almost 6 months. I'd ask if something was wrong and he'd respond with no.

The start of this year he initiated contact again, we hung out and he treated me really nicely. He flirted with me the whole night, giving me compliments, teasing, and making sure i'm comfortable. Basically felt really good to be with him again. Over the last 6 months we have talked on and off, we are a lot more friendlier and open with each other, yet he has never asked to hangout again. When I see him around town he always seems to be shy now, blushing and looking away, or staring at me.

Side note: I know I have said some unkind things to him or behaved in unfriendly ways, yet only in return for his unkind distant behaviour to me (water signs lol)

what's this cancer doing to me—

A good sign or a bad sign?

He's being guided by his emotions, and being a secretive crabbie.

There is probably a world of thought going on in his head. What decan is he born in?

Posted by Shaun1994
He's being guided by his emotions, and being a secretive crabbie.

There is probably a world of thought going on in his head. What decan is he born in?

Yep, I agree.

Shaun1994 my gut tells me the same. I just don't know why he keeps it hidden when I think I show interest?

I'm not sure what Decan he is but he's born 6 July

Posted by Shaun1994
He's being guided by his emotions, and being a secretive crabbie.

There is probably a world of thought going on in his head. What decan is he born in?

Shaun1994 my gut tells me the same. I just don't know why he keeps it hidden when I think I show interest?

I'm not sure what Decan he is but he's born 6 July

Posted by surferpisces

Posted by Shaun1994
He's being guided by his emotions, and being a secretive crabbie.

There is probably a world of thought going on in his head. What decan is he born in?

Shaun1994 my gut tells me the same. I just don't know why he keeps it hidden when I think I show interest?

I'm not sure what Decan he is but he's born 6 July

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That is the Cancer-Scorpio decan. Hmm. Tell me all you know about him before we continue.

Posted by SensitiveBlues
Mature content?



and no hot sex details or anything, why the "mature content" wtf

that was a very boring read.

Lmao it was

I dont see any mystery in this other than what you are adding. You all only had sex once, the nature of your friendship has been flirty and pretty shallow...most people can flirt without having deep rooted feelings, and most men can have sex without those feelings arising. Not sure why he just went for the one time though, it is possible he felt something could grow and cut it off to prevent him from attaching but it isnf wise to make that assumption.

I would look at his actions. Convo is friendlier and nicer because you two reached a point of conflict and typically people will try to smooth that tension over time. But I believe it is simple, if he was interested in seeing you, developing spmerhing with you and going further he would initiated to see you in person again.

He has not so that should be your answer..it is all talk no movement.

Also, just talk to him about it. See where he's at.

Posted by CancerGirl25
Cancers love very deeply. But this cancer man doesn't seem to be in love with you. He wants to keep it as a formal and physical relationship. If he had been into you, he would do anything and everything to show that he loves you. Cancers are picky. They don't date anyone they meet. But when they are in love, They are the most easygoing partners.

Also, cancers have a very kind heart. They forgive easily and never make you guilty of your past mistakes so stop worrying about that.

You're generalizing. You don't know the other influences his chart.

I honestly would have to say to move on with this one. I usually don't agree that easily with others but if he were into you he would have told you by now and made attempts to see you. If he does happen to like you it's his loss for not going for it and waiting for a long time to make a big move. Maybe next time it'll teach him not to wait so long.