Another question on Cancer men... please help!

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virgralady
@virgralady
12 Years

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Okay, so I've been friends with this particular Cancer for about 7 years now. We've always been friends; nothing more, nothing less, up until a few of months ago. Back in September, about a week or so before my birthday, we had started hanging out a lot more than usual. Well, one thing led to another and we started sleeping together. For the month that we had this going on, I could feel him getting closer to me. We would talk all day long, from rise to shine, give each other little pet names, and see each other multiple times throughout the week. He would say little things like "Oh too bad we're only sleeping together" and then follow it up with "now don't get analytical on that" or talk about some "epic" matchup awaiting for me in the future due to a seed being planted that I'm not known to yet. Well one day, he just up and ended things, stating that we should just go back to being friends. He pursued another girl for a week or so and then ended up coming back to me. Since coming back to me, we have been talking every day and sleeping together for about 4 months now. I've started to have feelings for him and I feel he has them for me to, due to his body language, but won't admit to them. He even took me around his friends, I didn't know, the other night and made us all dinner. He gets very insecure and jealous when other men approach me and has flipped out numerous times because of this, but I feel if he doesn't have any feelings towards me, he shouldn't be getting jealous of anything. Because he sends such unclear signals, I have tried cutting it off with him a couple of times, to which he throws a fit and will let me in a little bit about how he's feeling towards me. He'll tell me things like, he feels we're best as friends but he can't get me off of his mind or that I have superb qualities, but he's not the one for me. He'll tell me these things, but then a minute later be like "Oh, I don't know what's to come, we need to put our time in and let it fall into place" or "Don't give up hope, that's the only way to be certain nothing will come about". My question for you all is this: Does he have feelings for me, but just doesn't feel comfortable admitting to them yet? Or is he playing some sort of game? Or is that he's just confused on what he's really wanting out of our situation?