Cancers start off shy but warm up once you get to know them. They can be subtle in expressing their interest but guys being guys, if they like you they'll eventually work up the nerve to ask you out. Just keep flirting and sending them signals you're interested. Eventually, he will feel it's safe to ask you out. As for sex? They're not shy about sex. You just want to develop the feelings first because it's the emotional involvement that hooks them. Big time.
If you're an Aries tho that can be a tough union. Aries can be too blunt for sensitive Cancer. Cancer can be too emotional or clingy for an Aries. You need to be patient with a Cancer and take time to get to know him. You may or may not be compatible. Good luck tho. I'm a firm believer that any astro union is possible with love. Besides there might be other aspects in your charts that signal real connection. It was like that with my ex, whose a gemini. Gems & Cancers aren't an easy combo but he had his moon in Cancer, I had my venus in Gemini and we're both Taurus ascendants. Our issues weren't zodiac based except sometimes he really was too chatty for me but didn't always want to hear what I had to say.
Thanks for the input! (: yes, I've read that cancer and Aries are a challenging pair. His Venus is in Leo and mine in Pisces. This is another part that is kind of tricky. I spent a week with the guy at a festival I attended. He's three states away now, but hasn't missed a day of talking to me since we departed from the festival. He's delving deep into my personality. We're both really getting to know each other. Though he never comes out with any talk about sex. That's just different than what I'm used to with most guys. Then again, he's far away, and this is my first cancer experience.
My cancer man is shy about sex. He was a perfect gentleman when I wasn't ready. Not to be too graphic, but he has never given me oral or me to him. He barely touches me in my lady parts either. He just wants to go straight to sex. It seems like he is shy and guarded. It's kinda weird because I'm a freaky Scorpio and I find that most men are not confident enough for wk
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