Any tips for a Cancer male

Specifically when it comes to the the Female variety of Aqua?

Indeed, most of the topics on this board seem to concern male aqua's

Thanks, I like to get multiple opinions on a matter... The whole "giving space" thing is hard for crabs. Though I have improved a whole lot since high school. lol

Ugh! Cancer male and aqua female?!! Well, you let us know what her moon, Venus and mars is. I love Cancerians as friends, but every cancer guy that was interested in me was emotionally draining for me. You guys feel and get hurt too much. I was apparently hurting my cancer friends with my opinionated self unbeknownst to me.

I am afraid I do not know anything other than the aqua... :/ Sorry for being "emotionally draining"

Sorry! I didn't mean it that way. I don't mean you are draining. I meant that any relationship (friendship/lover) can be draining for an aqua.

The reason I ask her placement is because it could work if her moon and mars is in water or even earth. If her chart is pure air or fire, no way is it gonna work.

I know how to get a chart worked up, I just need a few mor bits of info from her. I will have to ask her next time we have practice. 🙂

For me, My Moon is in Cap, and my Mars is in Leo... if that helps?

My old best friend was a cancer guy. He was a total sweetheart and gentleman. Because he was usually like that, I didn't realize when he started liking me. When I started dating my bf, his behavior completely changed. He became really annoyed and bitter and eventually he confessed. I told him that I would never like him more than friends even if I broke up with my bf, which did happen. Our friendship became difficult after that and I decided to walk away. He literally begged me to remain friends and assured me that he wouldn't make me feel awkward. I stayed but decided to hook him up with an aqua girl. He was into astrology as well and wanted an aqua girl. Their relationship started great and lasted 3 yrs until the stupid bitch of an aqua girl trampled all over his fragile heart because he let her get away with a lot of crap she pulled. Aquas or rather everyone wants someone who will put them
In their place for bad behavior. Sometimes cancers can be doormats and that was what my poor friend was in love. She kept hurting him with ungratefulness only to finally dump him at the end.

Her Moon is in Cap, her Mars is in Cancer

Given her and your chart, I see this working! Btw, Capri moons are hardworking. My cancer friend was also cap man. I know a lot of cap moons and I wish I had that moon so I was just as hard working.

Anything less than a hard days work is stealing in my book. 🙂

Just don't drop any "I love you" too soon or creepy comments like "I can't live without you". These comments are very romantic and serve well if you are in one yr + relationship. Anything earlier makes the person look desperate or someone who doesn't know what love is. I know cancers tendency to be close too soon and fast.

....Yeah... that is something that I have been holding back so far. I do tell her she is beautiful every so often. When I text her good night, she generally texts back the same with a "sweet dreams" at the end.

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Anything less than a hard days work is stealing in my book. 🙂

That's what i wanna hear. I love you cap mooners ability to be hardworking. My mom is a cap and Aries moon. That's a robot with ambition. Nobody beats her in hardwork. I wish I had cap moon (hardwork) or Aries moon's known for ambitiousness.

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....Yeah... that is something that I have been holding back so far. I do tell her she is beautiful every so often. When I text her good night, she generally texts back the same with a "sweet dreams" at the end.

Don't give her compliments TOO OFTeN. Compliments are like currency. The more common they are, the less value they hold. Make compliments rare so they are appreciated and seen as genuine.

I will make sure to cut back, it's just that I was always taught to give credit where credit is due. I would never say anything that isn't what I genuinely feel, I realize that you aren't trying to say that I am not genuine,(I hope).

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I will make sure to cut back, it's just that I was always taught to give credit where credit is due. I would never say anything that isn't what I genuinely feel, I realize that you aren't trying to say that I am not genuine,(I hope).

No. I'm not saying that you are not genuine. I'm saying that even if compliments are deserved and they are given all the time, then it become routine. The guys that compliment me every day are the guys who's compliments I don't take seriously because 1) the compliment from them is predictable or nothing unusual and 2) I know they are gonna say their usual compliments of how awesome they think I am.

Unfortunately, you speak the truth. 😢 It sucks for someone like me. lol

Whereas someone who praises me once in a while is taken seriously because I know they don't compliment me every day or on demand. They do it once in a while and that makes me thirsty for their compliment as opposed to someone who is always doin it.

I realize this is going to seem like a stupid/unanswerable question... but, what is a good ballpark length of time between them then?

No, it doesn't suck. Just learn the art of seduction. I think Cancer, Libra and Aries men have the greatest potential to be amazing lovers if they learn the art of timing, which is a huge part of the art of seduction.

Something I have always had a problem with

Posted by phineasbardell
Specifically when it comes to the the Female variety of Aqua?

do you want 'em filet? Sautee'd? Sprinkled in little chocolate nuggets and honey?

Burnt and crispy and fried? Better fresh and baked!

you know, truth is, many women of this variety want a holy shrine of family and tradition deep down. they deeply crave it. If you can provide all the qualities of what a typical cancer wants, the family the home, the support, you are half way in.

Sautee'd, though... chocolate nuggets and honey doesn't sound horrible either. 🙂