I met this Cancer guy through mutual friends, and he's really great. We've been out on a date and spent time together on several other occasions (he's a musician in our circle of musician friends, so we frequently hang out during and after his gigs). I'm pretty sure he knows I'm interested, but he's a REALLY tough nut to crack. I *think* he's interested as well (I figured out he stalks my Facebook posts/page), based on little comments he's made here and there. I love how attentive he is to me, during our conversations especially, but I still can't tell if it's because he likes me in *that way* or just because he's nice. We've been at this for about two months and it's all hugs, not a kiss in sight. Grrrr! Our mutual (female) friend who knows him well says he's just afraid of getting hurt, and (half jokingly) that maybe a year from know he'll let me know how he feels, lol. I'm a pretty direct person and have no problem texting him, suggesting we get together (he always agrees), asking if he has gigs coming up (he always tells me to come see him), but is it going too far to press the issue of moving forward from hugs to a kiss? I kinda want him to fish or cut bait, but I know Cancers are skittish and I don't want to scare him off by crossing the line from assertive to aggressive. I won't plant one on him myself lol, but I've thought of just telling him during our next hug something like, if he wanted to kiss me it would be totally okay 🙂. My friends say he's a REALLY good guy, and I like him a lot. But I don't like wasting my time if I can't even get to the point with him where I can determine if he's worth the waaaaiiiiiting. Suggestions for moving this along—
