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Cancer Lady
joined October 12, 2007
  • When you deep condition your hair. Start with a protein mask and let it sit for 30-45 then shampoo and use a moisturizing shampoo especially if you have colored treated hair. Always do a protein treatment first.
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    Laneige Lip Sleeping Mask. I love it!


    +1 use it every night
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    Posted by Lala1393
    I wash my face morning and night with african black soap and then I moisturise my skin with either coconut oil or palm kernal oil which is AMAZING OMG !!

    I was just gonna say how great coconut oil is especially for the hair 👍
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    Coconut oil doesn't work for everyone. It's a highly concentrated oil which depending on the skin type can clog pours and cause breakouts. I can use coconut oil in anything even hair products because it penetrated into the skin and breaks me out.

    I love Argan oil
  • Posted by boxcarmirnta
    Posted by Cancer Lady
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    Posted by Cancer Lady
    Posted by IamTheRam
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    Posted by IamTheRam
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    Posted by IamTheRam
    Posted by Ariqua
    This is cute. I’m glad Aries get it right sometimes 🤣


    Hey, hey... !

    What does that even mean ?!!

    We *allways* get it right, comeone !!...We just need more time, that's all....lol

    *Me 20 Years Latter*

    "So...anyone got more of that Time stuff thingy ?!...."

    Laughing
    bahhaa.....ok


    Heyyyyyyyyy !! Don't "bahaaaa...ok" me, ok ?! It's the truth !!!

    And comeone, you are the OP ! You are suposed to be in our side, god dang it !! What is the meaning of all of this ?!Laughing

    (Unless your Aries already trtrked up for some reason...but if that's case, fear not !! i've got good news for you !! You already know what to do !!...Give Him More Time...) heheLaughing
    i'm just kidding...honestly i know very little about aries...he's different than anyone ive dated....very forward yet sometimes shy .but always makes his feelings known. Can you tell me more? What to expect?


    Hehe i know, don't worry ^^

    Don't take me seriously either with this things, i am allways like this smile

    Humm that's really good that he is sometimes shy with you hehe it means that in a way..*he fears you*, kinda like your opinion towards him matters for him, so he just *doesn't know what to do* sometimes when you are near him. He doesn't want to treetrunk up your opinion towards him hehe

    Try not to take it very literaly what i just said, but it's somewhat kinda like that ^^ basicly, a shy Aries is a very good thing ! ^^

    As for what to expect...well like everything else in life, allways dream big but with your feet well stuck on the ground.

    Our own personal conquest in life are nothing more then the realisation of our own dreams, so allways fight for them smile

    Keeping the feet on the ground will make you go towards things with moderate expectations for it, which is allways best than creating a ton of expectation, just to see them blowing up in your face latter smile

    So what you should do is simple...have fun and enjoy what you have now ! Taste every moment like you are suposed to and for what it is ! You will see that everything will turn out for the best, it allways does when you keep a positive vibe and atitude towards it ^^

    This is really my best advice to you for now smile

    Take Care and remember... Enjoy ! ^^


    Yeah I can tell that my opinion matters A LOT to my Aries so I do my best to keep him relaxed and not to be too hard on himself. He already takes himself too seriously, then add not wanting to disappoint me to the mix and it's pressure overload lol. I think that's one of the main reasons he fell hard for me so fast other than me being beautiful lol but that I bring a calming influence into his world. I know how to tap into what he's craving/missing without him even having to ask or verbalize it. As a water sign that's one of our best traits, being able to zone in to our mates emotionally which you fire signs tend to fear.
    i feel that..mine seems in turmoil a lot. Hes confident but also has self doubt...i guess he really is sensitive even tho i find it very hard to believe..hes kind of confusing honestly. He has a lot going on socially but still thinks hes an introvert?? I dunno...i'm starting to think its all about him and not so much about me, which i dont really like. I can soothe him no problem, but what about me?? Meh

    You shouldn't feel like your needs aren't being met but at the same time we are different energies from them so how we approach needs aren't the same way they do but that doesn't necessarily mean they're not trying to fulfill our needs. Have you expressed this to him? My Aries tends to keep a lot of things inside because he wants to remain in control but when it gets to a point when I feel I'm completely in the dark, I bring it up and let him know he needs to fill me in and that's when he answers any concerns I have. He wants to lead and it can come across selfish in a way if he doesn't show and let you know that his choices and decisions are for your benefit as well. However if you don't feel that way then you must speak up so he can know and do better. Yes they are more sensitive than they let on.
    yea i'm really starting to think he doesnt give a butter, especially since he just stood me up. Ugh....
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    No thats unacceptable and certainly don't make excuses for bad behavior regardless of sign. Someone who stands you up, don't really care that much.
  • Yeah it kind of felt like things were moving in neutral and now it's finally go time.
  • Posted by boxcarmirnta
    Posted by Cancer Lady
    Posted by IamTheRam
    Posted by boxcarmirnta
    Posted by IamTheRam
    Posted by boxcarmirnta
    Posted by IamTheRam
    Posted by Ariqua
    This is cute. I’m glad Aries get it right sometimes 🤣


    Hey, hey... !

    What does that even mean ?!!

    We *allways* get it right, comeone !!...We just need more time, that's all....lol

    *Me 20 Years Latter*

    "So...anyone got more of that Time stuff thingy ?!...."

    Laughing
    bahhaa.....ok


    Heyyyyyyyyy !! Don't "bahaaaa...ok" me, ok ?! It's the truth !!!

    And comeone, you are the OP ! You are suposed to be in our side, god dang it !! What is the meaning of all of this ?!Laughing

    (Unless your Aries already trtrked up for some reason...but if that's case, fear not !! i've got good news for you !! You already know what to do !!...Give Him More Time...) heheLaughing
    i'm just kidding...honestly i know very little about aries...he's different than anyone ive dated....very forward yet sometimes shy .but always makes his feelings known. Can you tell me more? What to expect?


    Hehe i know, don't worry ^^

    Don't take me seriously either with this things, i am allways like this smile

    Humm that's really good that he is sometimes shy with you hehe it means that in a way..*he fears you*, kinda like your opinion towards him matters for him, so he just *doesn't know what to do* sometimes when you are near him. He doesn't want to treetrunk up your opinion towards him hehe

    Try not to take it very literaly what i just said, but it's somewhat kinda like that ^^ basicly, a shy Aries is a very good thing ! ^^

    As for what to expect...well like everything else in life, allways dream big but with your feet well stuck on the ground.

    Our own personal conquest in life are nothing more then the realisation of our own dreams, so allways fight for them smile

    Keeping the feet on the ground will make you go towards things with moderate expectations for it, which is allways best than creating a ton of expectation, just to see them blowing up in your face latter smile

    So what you should do is simple...have fun and enjoy what you have now ! Taste every moment like you are suposed to and for what it is ! You will see that everything will turn out for the best, it allways does when you keep a positive vibe and atitude towards it ^^

    This is really my best advice to you for now smile

    Take Care and remember... Enjoy ! ^^


    Yeah I can tell that my opinion matters A LOT to my Aries so I do my best to keep him relaxed and not to be too hard on himself. He already takes himself too seriously, then add not wanting to disappoint me to the mix and it's pressure overload lol. I think that's one of the main reasons he fell hard for me so fast other than me being beautiful lol but that I bring a calming influence into his world. I know how to tap into what he's craving/missing without him even having to ask or verbalize it. As a water sign that's one of our best traits, being able to zone in to our mates emotionally which you fire signs tend to fear.
    i feel that..mine seems in turmoil a lot. Hes confident but also has self doubt...i guess he really is sensitive even tho i find it very hard to believe..hes kind of confusing honestly. He has a lot going on socially but still thinks hes an introvert?? I dunno...i'm starting to think its all about him and not so much about me, which i dont really like. I can soothe him no problem, but what about me?? Meh
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    You shouldn't feel like your needs aren't being met but at the same time we are different energies from them so how we approach needs aren't the same way they do but that doesn't necessarily mean they're not trying to fulfill our needs. Have you expressed this to him? My Aries tends to keep a lot of things inside because he wants to remain in control but when it gets to a point when I feel I'm completely in the dark, I bring it up and let him know he needs to fill me in and that's when he answers any concerns I have. He wants to lead and it can come across selfish in a way if he doesn't show and let you know that his choices and decisions are for your benefit as well. However if you don't feel that way then you must speak up so he can know and do better. Yes they are more sensitive than they let on.
  • Posted by besarlalluvia
    Posted by Cancer Lady
    Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
    My triple Aries (sun, moon, merc) is a somewhat shy one. They are our there :-)

    My Aries is shy too. I love staring him in the eyes and he looks away blushing.


    haha i stare at mine when he’s standing naked and he gets soo shy saying ‘what if i trip up or something”. they just wanna be our hero
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    I know its so cute!
  • Posted by IamTheRam
    Posted by boxcarmirnta
    Posted by IamTheRam
    Posted by boxcarmirnta
    Posted by IamTheRam
    Posted by Ariqua
    This is cute. I’m glad Aries get it right sometimes 🤣


    Hey, hey... !

    What does that even mean ?!!

    We *allways* get it right, comeone !!...We just need more time, that's all....lol

    *Me 20 Years Latter*

    "So...anyone got more of that Time stuff thingy ?!...."

    Laughing
    bahhaa.....ok


    Heyyyyyyyyy !! Don't "bahaaaa...ok" me, ok ?! It's the truth !!!

    And comeone, you are the OP ! You are suposed to be in our side, god dang it !! What is the meaning of all of this ?!Laughing

    (Unless your Aries already trtrked up for some reason...but if that's case, fear not !! i've got good news for you !! You already know what to do !!...Give Him More Time...) heheLaughing
    i'm just kidding...honestly i know very little about aries...he's different than anyone ive dated....very forward yet sometimes shy .but always makes his feelings known. Can you tell me more? What to expect?


    Hehe i know, don't worry ^^

    Don't take me seriously either with this things, i am allways like this smile

    Humm that's really good that he is sometimes shy with you hehe it means that in a way..*he fears you*, kinda like your opinion towards him matters for him, so he just *doesn't know what to do* sometimes when you are near him. He doesn't want to treetrunk up your opinion towards him hehe

    Try not to take it very literaly what i just said, but it's somewhat kinda like that ^^ basicly, a shy Aries is a very good thing ! ^^

    As for what to expect...well like everything else in life, allways dream big but with your feet well stuck on the ground.

    Our own personal conquest in life are nothing more then the realisation of our own dreams, so allways fight for them smile

    Keeping the feet on the ground will make you go towards things with moderate expectations for it, which is allways best than creating a ton of expectation, just to see them blowing up in your face latter smile

    So what you should do is simple...have fun and enjoy what you have now ! Taste every moment like you are suposed to and for what it is ! You will see that everything will turn out for the best, it allways does when you keep a positive vibe and atitude towards it ^^

    This is really my best advice to you for now smile

    Take Care and remember... Enjoy ! ^^
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    Yeah I can tell that my opinion matters A LOT to my Aries so I do my best to keep him relaxed and not to be too hard on himself. He already takes himself too seriously, then add not wanting to disappoint me to the mix and it's pressure overload lol. I think that's one of the main reasons he fell hard for me so fast other than me being beautiful lol but that I bring a calming influence into his world. I know how to tap into what he's craving/missing without him even having to ask or verbalize it. As a water sign that's one of our best traits, being able to zone in to our mates emotionally which you fire signs tend to fear.
  • I've already noticed the difference with my Aries. He was all lovey dovey and texting a lot today.
  • Thank goodness Jupiter is finally direct! I noticed a lot of couples broke up when Jupiter went RX including my relationship with my X scorpio. Although I'm with an Aries now, my X has fought to try to get me back and I'm really hoping now that Jupiter is direct, he will give up and realize and accept that I've moved on and I'm not coming back.
  • Posted by Squishy_Marshmallow
    Posted by Gemalit
    Posted by Squishy_Marshmallow
    They don't like sex???!!??
    Crying

    Crying


    Nope 😱. I only have her side from it though, whenever I saw them together he seemed rather sweet towards her but he was always doing something else rather than actually spending time with her.


    He treats her nicely, right? Sweet is good.

    Idk what you meant by doing something else...
    My Aries brother in law is super cute with my cousin ... Literally annoys her every morning when she's in the kitchen. He goes and hugs her from back and just about annoys her. I feel embarrassed so I leave the kitchen to them but it seems so amazing to see that. I want like that. Simple but such a cute life. Plus they just cuddle and watch movie. She would read or play games and he watches TV. Very cute.

    She's a Gemini too. She's so lucky to have found her Aries guy.
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    My Aries is the same way
  • Posted by IamTheRam
    Posted by Pandora101
    Posted by IamTheRam
    Posted by Pandora101
    Posted by Cancer Lady
    Posted by boxcarmirnta
    Posted by Cancer Lady
    I'm loving my Aries too girl! He's planning a proposal and I'm trying not to think about it.
    how do you know??and yr a water sign too, that gives me hope.


    Because we talked about it and I sent him a pic of the ring I want and he recently showed me a pic of him leaving the jewelry store and told me "it won't be long" So I know its coming and I want to be surprised so I'm trying not to think about it but I'm sure he'll do it when I least expect it even though I know its coming. We've been dating 6 months, he said he knew right away I was the one. Met his family after 3 months.


    "We've been dating 6 months, he said he knew right away I was the one. "

    did you also know right away he was the one? smile


    Bam !! You just nailed it !!

    Saying "you are the one", it's actualy a big thing !!

    You know to how many women i've said that ?....17 ! Oh Yeah !

    lolol i am joking...i actualy only said it to 1 woman ^^ you know, maybe i should tell her someday what i said to the other 16, so she can see the sparkle motion diference for herself...but then again....

    I think i still need more time...Laughing


    "Saying "you are the one", it's actualy a big thing !!

    You know to how many women i've said that ?....17 ! Oh Yeah !

    lolol i am joking...i actualy only said it to 1 woman ^^ you know, maybe i should tell her someday what i said to the other 16, so she can see the sparkle motion diference for herself...but then again....

    I think i still need more time...Laughing "

    I observed that Aries usually say to you in like 10 mins after you meet them: I love you smile you are the one smile and to x other people as well smile

    also by observation: they need time and to be sure, and they sometimes get caught up in their own fire when expressing big words and grand gestures smile they like if the other person is giving proofs of love, like all fire signs (sending pictures of wedding rings, lol)

    just hope it will last
    they have the intensity but sometimes lack the endurance
    (unless they have some fixed planets maybe)



    In just 10 minutes...hummm...it actualy takes me months to say things like that hehe but then again i also got a virgo moon, so you know smile

    But yes I understand what you are trying to say, we do tend to be very passionate in our words if our passion is on top and just bluntly say out of nowhere what we feel at that moment ^^

    Hence why i have to be carefull with it ^^ (virgo moon again...or.maybe it's also an Aries thing ?! lol ) but hey, what i say, it's exactly how i feel at that moment. For the good or for the bad smile

    And yes, big proofs of Love is really big for Fire signs...In a way and imo, for Sag's is a bit less, and each fire sign have a diferent way of expressing it...but what you see is what you get, and when we want to send "a message"....we really want to send "a message" hehe smile

    "Say what you want and i will get it for you...everything just for you...just say it..." hehe ^^

    The trick with Aries is really to keep os Fire going...give him Fire (and Love) and you will see that blunt machine at work hehe smile

    I hope they both enjoy this phase, get to know each other really well and above alll...have tons of fun toghether ! It's all about having a good time and good memories to share ! The bad times should serve to remind us that the good ones are actually really worth it for everything ^^
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    Yeah after our first argument, he got down on his knees and apologized. I was like wow he really wants me to know he's remorseful. Just an apology would have been enough lol
  • Posted by IamTheRam
    Posted by Pandora101
    Posted by Cancer Lady
    Posted by boxcarmirnta
    Posted by Cancer Lady
    I'm loving my Aries too girl! He's planning a proposal and I'm trying not to think about it.
    how do you know??and yr a water sign too, that gives me hope.


    Because we talked about it and I sent him a pic of the ring I want and he recently showed me a pic of him leaving the jewelry store and told me "it won't be long" So I know its coming and I want to be surprised so I'm trying not to think about it but I'm sure he'll do it when I least expect it even though I know its coming. We've been dating 6 months, he said he knew right away I was the one. Met his family after 3 months.


    "We've been dating 6 months, he said he knew right away I was the one. "

    did you also know right away he was the one? smile


    Bam !! You just nailed it !!

    Saying "you are the one", it's actualy a big thing !!

    You know to how many women i've said that ?....17 ! Oh Yeah !

    lolol i am joking...i actualy only said it to 1 woman ^^ you know, maybe i should tell her someday what i said to the other 16, so she can see the sparkle motion diference for herself...but then again....

    I think i still need more time...Laughing
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    lol Yeah one of his friends was like he's really into me and I said yeah he was also into the other girls he's dated too. and his friend was like no things are different with you believe me he hasn't treated anyone else in the manner he treats you.

    You probably should try to find a way to show her that she's different because most of us just think you guys go through the same motions with every girl until you actually propose/marry.
  • Posted by Pandora101
    Posted by Cancer Lady
    Posted by boxcarmirnta
    Posted by Cancer Lady
    I'm loving my Aries too girl! He's planning a proposal and I'm trying not to think about it.
    how do you know??and yr a water sign too, that gives me hope.


    Because we talked about it and I sent him a pic of the ring I want and he recently showed me a pic of him leaving the jewelry store and told me "it won't be long" So I know its coming and I want to be surprised so I'm trying not to think about it but I'm sure he'll do it when I least expect it even though I know its coming. We've been dating 6 months, he said he knew right away I was the one. Met his family after 3 months.



    "We've been dating 6 months, he said he knew right away I was the one. "

    did you also know right away he was the one? smile
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    I knew I felt differently about him than I've felt for others but I'm a water sign so it's easy for me to get carried away with emotions. So I blocked out the emotions and stayed in my head longer just to be sure especially since he's a fire sign and was fast with asking me to be his gf. But he stays consistent and most importantly his actions match his words, so that erased any doubt that I had and I stopped holding back.

    I knew deep down we had a special bond right away but I wanted to make sure the head and heart agreed.
  • Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
    My triple Aries (sun, moon, merc) is a somewhat shy one. They are our there :-)

    My Aries is shy too. I love staring him in the eyes and he looks away blushing.
  • Posted by Ariqua
    This is cute. I’m glad Aries get it right sometimes 🤣


    lol
  • Posted by boxcarmirnta
    Posted by Cancer Lady
    I'm loving my Aries too girl! He's planning a proposal and I'm trying not to think about it.
    how do you know??and yr a water sign too, that gives me hope.
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    Because we talked about it and I sent him a pic of the ring I want and he recently showed me a pic of him leaving the jewelry store and told me "it won't be long" So I know its coming and I want to be surprised so I'm trying not to think about it but I'm sure he'll do it when I least expect it even though I know its coming. We've been dating 6 months, he said he knew right away I was the one. Met his family after 3 months.
  • My sister has Saturn in the 7th house and she got married at 36. There is also a age gap between them of 9 yrs, so you might marry someone significantly younger or older than you. Also they got engaged when Jupiter transited her 8th house.
  • I'm loving my Aries too girl! He's planning a proposal and I'm trying not to think about it.
  • Posted by TaurusFlower22
    Posted by nikkistar
    What I find most women do, is rush things, or give way too much importance to who texts/calls who more. That the man is required to do everything first, and the most to show interest. That she can hang back, and only receive.

    It's almost as if, a good majority of women don't think the men can have feelings too, as if they can't have their own insecurities as well for whatever reason.

    It's a two way street. Give what you expect to receive. Most of the time, once a man or female learn to do that, is when all of their relationships, romantic or not, become quality ones that usually go into long term.


    I'm guilty of rushing things, I think. But it never feels like rushing to me. I see it like, if you like someone, why drag things out? A lifetime is so short already. I realize now that this may be my Aries Venus/Mercury, and Gem Moon combo talking. But, I just get really antsy. And I start to doubt the person's interest in me. So, I end it.
    When I talk to others about the relationship I ended, they usually ask what the rush was, when I feel I made an effort to take my time! click to expand
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    There's nothing wrong with your approach. If someone is into you, they will make the effort to understand your actions and things will continue progressing. When I met my Aries, I was not use to a guy moving as fast as he did but I really liked him so I wasn't going to stop him and complain about what comes natural to him. Either I was going to be okay with it or I wasn't but it's selfish to want to change someone to fit your ideal, nor should you change to fit someone else's ideal.

    That's what compatibility is all about, either you're compatible or your not and a lot of people tend to ignore or turn a blind eye even though its pretty obvious when you're not compatible but will still try to force a relationship. That's how you know when it's real, when neither person is forcing the issue and everything just flows. Words are expressed without reservation, actions demonstrated consistently, paired with equal effort from both people.