Are they Doers or quitters?

Will a previously hurt Cancer guy/s for ever be hiding behind their hard shells fearing hurt and avenge all the wrong done to them, by taking it out on other women they eventually date?


don't they ever make the move to get what they want & Go after it before it's too late ,if they are really in love second time around Or do they easily let go off the new relationship due to their fears and insecurities instead of facing them ? what is that, makes them so insecure to commit second time around ? do they drag on a current relationship endlessly or make a decision and stick with it once they set their mind .Also, wondering if they are highly promiscuous in nature ?
Cancer guys for ever be hiding behind their hard shells ? Are they Doers or quitters?

well i think that cancerian usually never likes to make to 1st move.they r extremely sensitive about their emotions and they are afraid from being hurt.thats y they seem to be quitters bcz once anyone crush their emotionss they simply get scared for the next time.if u assure him abt ur sincerity then they will be all urs and will be doers and doers

Old patterns are so easy to fall into, but they can also be destructive to a healthy relationship do they really make effort to come out of their shells....or just slip back in their own comfort shells.

Cancers cannot hold back to a call of love. Trust i a different issue all together. If there is nay sign who can love obssesively and still be defensive..ti si a cancer. Each tiem a cancer has accepted love, it menas they are outta their shell. They seem to be retreating now and then when hurt. But look carefuly hwere the loved oen is concerned they are actually out there expressign their hurt feelings even by stayign quite.

The old relationships may interfere int he sense that they start becoming more objective and less drivan by emotions when deciding on how much to trust. So wiht cnacer they may give you their heart but how much they should surrender their own self entirely depends on their point of reference which is based on their own experinces.

BTW cancers are not quitters ... if you ask they are doers or quitters. Cancers try hard b4 deciding to quit and move on. So quitting is a decision after much trying. That makes them a doer. Cancer is a sign of leadership. Retreating period is menat to take control of their own hurt feleings and emotions. But whiel in retreat their mind is busy and beign a doer..all the way.

Will a previously hurt Cancer guy/s for ever be hiding behind their hard shells fearing hurt and avenge all the wrong done to them, by taking it out on other women they eventually date?

You know, I've ask myself that same question 🙂 I've realized that when a cancer is getting over being hurt, don't even attempt to get involved with them ... it just can't work until they are completely over it. A very wise taurus gave me this advice and saved me plenty of heartbreak.

While a cancer is huritng over a breakup or relationship problems, he may be blind towards other possiblities. So let him be alone but let him know you are around to give him a shoulder.

The cancer wants to make sure that the same mistake is not repeated in the new relationship like the last one. So they assert their fears which may sound as "taking it out" on new person in his life. But in reality they are trying to make sure that same msitakes are not repeated. So the best would be to make them talk about his last relationship. If he is assured that there are no "threats" that marred his last relationship he chills out and is the funniest and most caring person that one can ever meet.

A cancer man is just too special. If you have experienced his love, the hangovers of past relationships are very trivial matter. I would say just let him spew out his past experience. He will be greatful to have a partner who is a great listener.He will make you feel like a perfect lady even if you happen to be a tomboy.

"...He will make you feel like a perfect lady even if you happen to be a tomboy"

That is so true, I'm a very down-to-earth sorta tomboy but my cancer is able to make me shine and pretty lol he thinks im hot and sexy haha