Cancer and Virgo

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Summershine
@Summershine
8 Years

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Okay, so I have known my cancer since 2015. We were close but the universe put me back east and him out west. So in 2016 he stops talking to me and I accept it but still loved him anyways. He goes and has a relationship with a woman with a black heart n mind. He contacts me now in 2017 saying sorry it took him this long to appreciate me. I accept and we start talking again but he blows hot n cold again......go days or a week without saying anything. So, being the Virgo I am. I respectfully tell him I am going to respect and honor him by stepping away. I hear from him the next day and he says, "you know I love you." says, "if he can't take care of himself then how is he going to take care of me?" I reassure him that money is not everything and I love him quirks and all. I tell him that I just want to grow old with him and die with my best friend/love..him. He says, I wish your head was on my chest so I could explain. Now, it has been 30 hrs since I have heard from him. I am extremely patient and understanding. We both have similarities but enough differences. Virgos need alone time bc we are thinkers. Is he playing with me? What is going on? I know he does love me but his days of silence confuses me. Please give me constructive answers
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samller
@samller
12 YearsCancer

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Posted by Summershine
Okay, so I have known my cancer since 2015. We were close but the universe put me back east and him out west. So in 2016 he stops talking to me and I accept it but still loved him anyways. He goes and has a relationship with a woman with a black heart n mind. He contacts me now in 2017 saying sorry it took him this long to appreciate me. I accept and we start talking again but he blows hot n cold again......go days or a week without saying anything. So, being the Virgo I am. I respectfully tell him I am going to respect and honor him by stepping away. I hear from him the next day and he says, "you know I love you." says, "if he can't take care of himself then how is he going to take care of me?" I reassure him that money is not everything and I love him quirks and all. I tell him that I just want to grow old with him and die with my best friend/love..him. He says, I wish your head was on my chest so I could explain. Now, it has been 30 hrs since I have heard from him. I am extremely patient and understanding. We both have similarities but enough differences. Virgos need alone time bc we are thinkers. Is he playing with me? What is going on? I know he does love me but his days of silence confuses me. Please give me constructive answers


I often worry myself are not good enough to take care others as well. I think it's because of insecure of future.

Does he has a stable job? Did you know the reason of him breaking up his ex?