Cancer female with Gemini Man trouble HELP!!!!!!!!

I've been "dating" this Gemini man for about a year now. I am a Cancer female so I know we have extreme differences. But I appreciate our similarities while respecting those differences. We have never been exclusive. He's hooking up with other girls. I know this. But he's been lying to another girl and she has the delusion that they are exclusive. Somehow, word got to her that he and I are still together. He sent me a text message saying "I don't think I know of anyone with a bigger mouth than you. I told you to shut the f**k up and not tell the whole world a bunch of bulls**t about you and me. Now I'm going to ask you not to bother me anymore." And we haven't spoken since. I fell in love with him and it's really unfortunate. I haven't tried talking to him. I'm just giving him his space right now. But I just want to know if he really is done with me or if he was speaking out of anger. Any thoughts and any advice would be much appreciated!!!

forget about him and move on. It's my advice.

Wow.

F**k him. -.-

Posted by CluelessCancer
1) Get some confidence and a new dick that's not a Gemini (EWWWWWWWW)
2) Have some Pride
3)He gave her the delusion they were exclusive, maybe because he wants them to be exclusive
4) He treated you like sh!t so he can protect himself while he's going around slanging his penis and you're in love with him?


Girl get your life.

He doesn't want to be exclusive with anyone. He's with me, he's with her, and I'm sure he's with other girls. Thing is he has been banging her for 3 years now. If it was ever going to happen between them, he wouldn't still be banging other girls.

Also, I am well aware of how dumb i sound. I know it is so easy for everyone to pass judgement on me. I'm not blind, though. I know he's a piece of shit. You like who you like. I'm seeking advice for ways to cope and eventually forget about him. So if you can help me out in that respect, it would be much appreciated.

I also work with the two of them. I am very professional at work and only talk to them if I need to.

Thank you for the suggestions. I've been too wrapped up in the unnecessary drama that I've lost me.

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Posted by Yams
He sounds like trouble with a capital T. Run away, he's not worth it.

You're right. How do I stop caring?

Posted by LunarMaiden
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I guess if he ever did mean anything he said to me, his actions would follow suit. But they never do. I guess he never actually did care.

Posted by KellBells

Posted by Yams
He sounds like trouble with a capital T. Run away, he's not worth it.

You're right. How do I stop caring?

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You don't have to stop caring, if you don't feel like. Just friend-zone him and never sleep with him again.

However, would you be friends with someone who doesn't respect you? He talked to you like you were a piece of crap. He certainly does not care about you. If fact, he just disposed of you at first occasion. Most likely thinks you are a pathetic loser. How dare talk about YOU being associated with HIM in any way? You could damage HIS reputation!

Surely he's not the only man in your town...even if he were... still does not justify letting yourself treated like crap. Get some dignity.

Wow, this is unfortunate...So sorry..he doesn't deserve a sweet girl such as yourself. My advice is to create a vision board of what you want in life and start collecting clippings, pics of things you want, places you want to see... As you make your vision board it will stir something inside you and you will be on a path to a better life, as you have lost your way. And, don't forget to include pics of the kind of guy you really want in your life 😉

Posted by KellBells
I also work with the two of them. I am very professional at work and only talk to them if I need to.

Thank you for the suggestions. I've been too wrapped up in the unnecessary drama that I've lost me.

As a witness of a cancer woman and gemini male relationship of ex best friend, I can tell you stay away from gemini, they are insensitive, controlling, and the cheat, my friend's one cheated on her twice (after 10 years together in the first year of marriage)

even she forgive him and got back with him... but constantly mention how much he annoys her, every time she meet a guy she feels like texting other guys because they have something he has lost (confidence and cockiness) that it feels goods stay away from him every now and then, sex is boring, she sometimes wishes to have a side piece because he doesn't feel like trying new things, she constantly go out and party without him...

Im very observant and thats a weird relationship, she is very sweet and affectionate but she is not like that with him unless her family is present, is like she pretend infront of them or something... after all this my opinion is that she is emotional attached to the idea that they being together for so long and she cares about him and love him for all this years but she is no longer crazy in love of him anymore... and being a little bit bitchy too I think the only reason she has not leave him also is money... he makes shit load of it and she get her allowance for shopping, parting and shit... I don't know I don't think cancer and gemini are good match....