Gemini-Cancer Cusp + Cancer Man recipe for sucess?

June 19th Gemini-cancer and definitely relate to my cancer side. My mums a Gemini through and through and is much cooler than me. I wear my heart on my sleeve and am quite moody. Just looking for yer views on this zodiac love match? and yer experiences?....going out a year now, bit clueless about astrology but I do think its helpful to know the quirks and differences so as to understand where each other is coming from and battle the challenges.

Well I think for you to get along with us Cancer Men, you need to have very good communication & be able to talk about anything that is on your mind. You probably have other Cancer placements like Mercury or Moon in Cancer to also make you feel like a Cancer. Especially Mercury & Jupiter in Cancer, because those planets deal with your mind & how you think & communicate. Since you're on the cusp of Cancer almost, you would understand a Cancer Man a lot better. It won't be as difficult

Plus real compatibility seems to be in your relationship if you been with your Cancer for a year. You two energies must go smoothly together for a year to even be possible. I say if things are good, don't worry about what signs you two have. Focus on eachother. Make sure he is comfortable around at all times. If he gets sad, worried, or stressed & he goes quite in his shell. Remain supportive, affectionate, & patient. A Crab normally doesn't stay in his shell if you do those things. Especially if he cares about you. Have faith & it'll work out 🙂. I actually like geminis tho

Hmmm that is very interesting. I have no idea what my placements are. need to go see what time I was born. He's a big softy, so I think its good for him to sometimes think about his emotions logically - the big picture. I reckon we both have good sticking power. Are cancers very quick movers? I like to take my time with big life decisions.

Ahh that's really nice 🙂 ya I think he's a very selfless and giving person and he doesn't always look after himself. So I have to watch that. Love that we're both emotional people and so does he...definitely had his shell up when we first got together.

SEE! so look after him & give him your best. I can tell the compatibility is there 🙂. Try not worry because i'm sure he'll give you his all as well. I'm the same way. I'm not as comfortable in the beginning, but usually if the person sweet & funny, i get comfortable quickly. So i understand where you are coming from. I think you two will be just fine. He's probably too busy looking after you as you are his lady lol. So just make him feel loved at all times ok

How fast a Cancer moves, depends on how comfortable we are in a situation. We like to make sure what we are getting involved in, will work.

I would do a natal chart compatibility thing to get a better idea of where the rough spots will be. That would give you the clearest picture. I've found, though, that my gut feeling on how and what a relationship will be like with someone always ends up matching the natal charts when I finally get to comparing them. For instance, I have a scorpio friend who laid it all out as to his sexual attraction to me, etc. and I've never felt that way towards him. I'm not saying it couldn't ever happen but that I've always felt that our friendship fit a teacher/student mold (he's 25 yrs older than me). When I compared our charts I was spot on. We exactly fit the teacher/student thing.

So, find out when you were born and ditto for him and enjoy some discovery 😄

But don't let it make you paranoid either. Remember to talk things out. Although i think they'll be together for a long time. I love the gemini's like this lady. The ones with water placements are just right for a Cancer Man. A watery gemini could help stablize a Cancer in many good ways

Posted by Feebanator
June 19th Gemini-cancer and definitely relate to my cancer side. My mums a Gemini through and through and is much cooler than me. I wear my heart on my sleeve and am quite moody. Just looking for yer views on this zodiac love match? and yer experiences?....going out a year now, bit clueless about astrology but I do think its helpful to know the quirks and differences so as to understand where each other is coming from and battle the challenges.

I can PM you my view, since I dated a June 20 cusper, if you're ok with that.

Ya I think we ground each other in different ways. I would are cancers naturally optimistic people? You sound like a very positive person 2blackindian3!
Ya a natal chart thing sounds interesting! how do you do one? I'm cautious not to move too fast... in case I mess things up. So I'm slow to commit to moving in together...not because I'm not committed but because I think communication is a skill and its important to learn how you make each other tick, and overcome natural life challenges before ye jump to far?
or am I just a pessimistic wuss🙂?

@canceronthecusp all stories welcome

Well i think Cancers like things to work out. Me, i just hate all forms of negativity. I try to keep faith in what situations i'm in. But it isn't always that easy. It takes a lot of struggle to get like that. Some Cancers just hate drama. But Thanks a lot for your kindness. I just don't want you to think negatively about a good relationship. Don't let astrology planets determine how your relationship will be. If you two weren't compatible, you wouldn't be together for a year now would you? So don't worry about the challenges

Plus if a challenge or issue come up, just talk about it in a adult way. It's your relationship, so talk to that person about it so they can help fix it. To do a chart, go astro.com & it'll show you how to do both peoples charts. You can create a account, then go to left & click free interactive horoscope. But things are going well for you, so why worry about things like this

Wise words indeed 🙂I get too obsessed with these things. Plus id have to ask him for his time of birth and he thinks I'm wacko when I start talking about star signs 😄

Well don't bring it up. Just focus on you guys relationship & enjoying each others company. Plus theres tons of information on Cancer Men on google & yahoo answers. Check out Linda Goodman's description of Cancer Man on google. It's very spot on. I guarantee you, Cancers are easy to please. It's just people make it hard

@XMoonMan you got a point. I was going to say that, but i shyd away lol. I think the gemini/cancer cusp starts june 21st. I'm not sure, because websites tell you different things. Like i said on page1, she probably has moon, mercury, or mars in Cancer. It's probably Cancer Mars. Either way, she has water planets. They get along very well because of that & good communication. The Cancer probably got gemini venus. I'm just going off what i read

Posted by xMoonMan
If you're born June 19 you are NOT a cusper. Your Sun is comfortably in Gemini.
Any so called Cancerian traits you *think* you relate to won't be due to your Gemini Sun.

Nice new picture, MoonMan.

Wowza there's a lot to this stuff 🙂 ta @moonman! Felt I was cuspian cause I didn't really identify fully with gemini...didn't know all this moon influence had such an impact! He's the 15th of July?

@2blackindian3 going to check on Linda's take on cancers

at the end of the day, it doesn't really matter, because everything flows smoothly between you & your Cancer. So i wouldn't worry to much about the chart stuff ok. Just enjoy having a Cancer Bf.

Your so chilled out 2blackindian3 🙂 love it!

Why Thank You. Your super nice & smart. Glad I could help 🙂