Cancer guy suddenly speaking to me ...why ?

So , almost 3 months ago , I picked up on a mind game this guy was trying to run on me & called him out on it . Since then , I haven't said a word to him . All contact outside of work was cut off . At first , he'd been ignoring me , too . Or pretending to anyway . Then about a month & a half later , he starts speaking to me . And has been consistently doing so , even though he knows I'm still upset w/ him and on top of that , I don't even respond ... I told him that if he'd rather keep up his facade than be honest with me ,that I want nothing to do with him ,so why won't he leave me alone ??

Seems legit . But my best friend & I talked about it & she thinks he misses me . However , even if that's true , I still have nothing to say to him. There's still some girl walking around that thinks he's her boyfriend .

I have . I've made it obvious I don't want to be bothered with him . I've been avoiding him for almost 3 months straight . Is that not obvious enough ? He always has this look on his face like he wants to get something off his chest. But I'm not going to sit around waiting or hoping he'll get it together .

Posted by aquavita2
Well if he has a girlfriend... hahaha. Oh boym

Who he's clearly not committed to . If he were , I doubt he'd always be in my face . Also I doubt that he would've been so quick to drop her when I called him out on his bs . And watching him string her along is unsettling for me ,too . B/c as far as I'm concerned , he'd most like try that w/ me , if he had the opportunity . Which is why I don't trust him . I want him to leave me alone .

you know you actually don't want him to leave you alone.

if he were "just another guy" for you, you wouldn't bother to right on here...let's be serious...

Posted by mz
you know you actually don't want him to leave you alone.

if he were "just another guy" for you, you wouldn't bother to right on here...let's be serious...

...if keeping up the front is more important to him than being honest with how he feels , yes I honestly want him to leave me alone . I did like him a lot , until he tried to run game on me . I think of him often , but if parting ways means I get to keep my peace of mind not suffer heartbreak , I'll do what I have to do .